I would surmise that the large number of seemingly provocative and inflammatory replies by both "born-againers" and "non-born-againers" demonstrates why relationships between the two are so difficult. The problem is that both your hyper-fundamentalist born-againer and your strict materialistic rationalist are trapped in excessively left brain linear thinking that is its own language barrier.
When one gets stuck in such thinking, one interprets the opponent's statements in the worst possible light while insisting that one's own statements be interpreted in the best possible light. Hence, one's own statements are "accurate reflections of relaity" while the opponent's statements are "personal, pigheaded attacks."
No relationship can flower in such soil. I am a born-again Christian. Despite the "language barrier" between myself and people like
Red Dawn and
UG, I
think we have managed to remain civil.
Still, to suggest that being "born-again" implies a particular deficiency in the individual who experiences it would obviously offend most born-againers. It doesn't offend me. I know I am weird

Despite my weirdness, I think I have demonstrated many times here why theism in general is by no means irrational.
Consider the following from a previous thread. Look at the building blocks of this material universe that some limit themselves to:
Example 1: How can someone with a genuine case of Dissociative Identity Disorder have different brain wave patterns for each of their different personalities? Even in cases of extreme stress, a person's basic brain wave patterns do not change. But, if personality is ultimate nonlocal/non physical, then one person with multiple personalities could do what is, from a purely physical perspective, impossible. Hence, personality is greater than matter, even though we cannot scientifically prove personality unless we try to reduce it to a mere by product of the brain. Yet people with DID would tend to challenge such a reduction.
CONCLUSION: personality is seemingly greater than matter.
Example 2: According to our current understanding of physics (at least as best as I understand it), every region of space has different fields composed of different waves. When physicists calculate the minimum energy a wave can possess, they find that every cubic centimeter of space contains more energy than the total energy of matter in the known universe.
CONCLUSION: under current scientific paradigms, energy is seemingly greater than matter.
Example 3: Consider Bohm's experiment with plasma. Plasma is a gas containing a high density of electrons and positive ions. When in a plasma, electrons stop behaving like individuals and start behaving as part of a larger and connected whole. Although their individual movements appeared random, vast numbers of electrons were able to perform tasks that were surprisingly well organized. Like a living creature, the plasma regenerated itself and enclosed impurities in a wall much like a living body encloses a foreign substance in a cyst. Bohm was so amazed by these qualties that he had the impression that the electron sea was alive. His experiments with the beavior of electrons in metals confirmed this "communicative" ability of "mindless" electrons.
CONCLUSION: Interconnected, mindful order is seemingly greater than individual randomness, though both exist.
If personality is greater than matter, and energy is greater than matter, and interconnected, mindful order is greater than individual randomness, then why is belief in a non-material, universal Mind/Logos so "weak-minded"? Would it be less offensive to you if I used more obviously scientific terminology and called it "The Implicate Order behind all other implicate and explicit orders"?
Is there something intrinsically irrational about presupposing a mind behind the universe? And, if so, since we are the highest life form that we can scientifically observe, is it so irrational to assume that in some respects our minds would have the ability or potential to "connect" with the Universal Mind? And if one did, even in the most "seeing through a glass darkly" kind of way, wouldn't that constitute a "born again" experience?
The "arrogance" in some claiming such an experience is only arrogance if one acts like one had it because of some innate superiority. But it is just as arrogant to take a position that anyone who has had a born-again experience is some type of hypocrite or fool.