Bloody women...well this one girl. She has put me in a fix of situations.... FREE DEAL INSIDE.

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Feldenak Grow a spine and stop being people's doormat. Don't pay.
Agreed. This chick only has you by the balls if you want her to; you're the one caving in your self-respect and giving her that power.

I tried to put my foot down but she wouldnt let me put a word in. Worst yet she has told everyone at school its my fault. this is a remake of last semester when she flared up at me and a friend of mine (who i dont mention her name these days in front of her because she flares up).

Its not teh $ amount but rather how i am being robbed of it. i talked to david just now and he also told me the same thing i shoudl pay. But she has already told the studetn govt that the last one outstanding is me (for whatever reason - she was telling them how things are going - this is unofficial so there should be no school related issue)

The thing is my friends in teh student govt might just put on her side. She already has the backing of several women, but i doubt they know the whole story.. because from my point of view I dont pay jack because she changed the rules of engagement. Like last semester she is telling her side of the story and she wotn let me tell my side of the story, last sem teh ppl who I got my side of teh story agreed with me rather than her outlandish side, but the point is that she is very unreasonable..



 
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Originally posted by: rudeguy5757
I'll go if I get to score with a hot chick...didnt read your post...it was too long...but those are my conditions

yes you should be able to score with 2 japanese chicks.
 

BooGiMaN

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am i going to have to lend you my pinky ring and teach you how to bitchslap....cuz it aint gonna be pretty :p
 

Spac3d

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Are we supposed to know every single person in your life?
rolleye.gif
 

KMHPaladin

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Originally posted by: Feldenak
Grow a spine and stop being people's doormat. Don't pay.

Seriously. This chick is out $75 unless she browbeats someone into paying for it. Guess who got browbeaten.
 
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Originally posted by: KMHPaladin
Originally posted by: Feldenak Grow a spine and stop being people's doormat. Don't pay.
Seriously. This chick is out $75 unless she browbeats someone into paying for it. Guess who got browbeaten.

its not my fault, i told her student participation is horrid before even we started all this. Original plan was for 4 or 5 ppl to go max 8 ppl to go in 2 cars to yosemite, but she cahnged all that on her own and rewrote the rules. Now I am having to pay for no say of my own.. esp when my gf isnt going (which was known that i wasn going without her).

yes I am getting browbeaten. I am hoping david comes thru with a friend of his... that way that $75 can be spent on my gf.
 

Yossarian

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Reasons I hate the_good_guy:

1. Is a complete pussy "wah she wouldn't let me speak wah"
2. Writes about people I don't know as if I know them.
 

Spac3d

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Originally posted by: PipBoy
Reasons I hate the_good_guy:

1. Is a complete pussy "wah she wouldn't let me speak wah"
2. Writes about people I don't know as if I know them.
:D

 

yllus

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Oh for Christ's sake, tell the bitch to go to hell. Do you really want to be a pussy forever?
 

Marshallj

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I agree with most of the others. It sounds like she is being way too pushy, and is trying to dominate all the decisionmaking.

It is clear that you don't like how she changed the plans, and it's clear that the only reason that you'd even consider going along with her plans is because of her relentless pressure.

Don't take it from her. Tell her that you are not going, since she wouldn't accept your input on the decisionmaking. Tell her to shove it.

 

isasir

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When she asks for the $75, tell her you spent it on a nice night out with the GF, and thank her for understanding.
 
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Originally posted by: Marshallj
I agree with most of the others. It sounds like she is being way too pushy, and is trying to dominate all the decisionmaking. It is clear that you don't like how she changed the plans, and it's clear that the only reason that you'd even consider going along with her plans is because of her relentless pressure. Don't take it from her. Tell her that you are not going, since she wouldn't accept your input on the decisionmaking. Tell her to shove it.

i am not going, but she wants the 75.. because she assumes i made all the plans. yes the original yosemite plan was mine, the rest wasnt mine. She took over things and didnt let us do any decision making. Now she is short and needs someone,.. and since i told her from long time back that iw asnt going withotu vanessa , and vanessa was confirmed over a month back why hold me.. i told her last week (tuesday) that i wasnt going firmly.. and then she got mad at me.

that 75 bucks can be used on my gf.. i could do so much with that.. why spend it on something i am not going on? Why spend it when nobody is going instead of me. I shouldtn pay.. because i am not going..

but she wont let me.. she told everyone i am outstanding..by planning and not going... bloody manupliative bitch.. yes the original plan was mine but then she changed it.

I told vanessa that i am going to stop interacting with this girl .. she is too much for my health. My blood pressure goes up everytime she is around.
 

Yossarian

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Originally posted by: The_good_guy
but she wont let me.. she told everyone i am outstanding..by planning and not going... bloody manupliative bitch.. yes the original plan was mine but then she changed it.

no one is making you do anything. you allow yourself to be abused, i have no sympathy for you at all.
 
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Originally posted by: PipBoy
Originally posted by: The_good_guy but she wont let me.. she told everyone i am outstanding..by planning and not going... bloody manupliative bitch.. yes the original plan was mine but then she changed it.
no one is making you do anything. you allow yourself to be abused, i have no sympathy for you at all.

so do I tell her no? Call her and tell her no? i am not paying...

i dont need her friendship, but then her bf is a lawyer.. never know what she might try...

i dont mind going to court over this.. cause i have enough support and atleast she wont be able to chatter chatter and chatter away without letting my words get in..
 

rudeguy

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I dont want to thread crap here or anything...but good guy I only remember two of your posts, and they have both been dumber than a blonde after a labotomy....tell your girl to get one of those guys that keeps hitting on her to pay the dam money so we can get back to our normal threads about marge simpsons boobs and not having to read your whiny/made up/assanine threads
thank you
 

AUMM

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Originally posted by: The_good_guy
Originally posted by: PipBoy
Originally posted by: The_good_guy but she wont let me.. she told everyone i am outstanding..by planning and not going... bloody manupliative bitch.. yes the original plan was mine but then she changed it.
no one is making you do anything. you allow yourself to be abused, i have no sympathy for you at all.

so do I tell her no? Call her and tell her no? i am not paying...

i dont need her friendship, but then her bf is a lawyer.. never know what she might try...

i dont mind going to court over this.. cause i have enough support and atleast she wont be able to chatter chatter and chatter away without letting my words get in..

of course you should tell her no, so if i went around and told everyone you owed me a hundred bucks would you pay me???? tell her to get lost
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: yllus
Oh for Christ's sake, tell the bitch to go to hell. Do you really want to be a pussy forever?

Stop being such a whiny, spineless pushover. Gawd, I've seen e-tards with more assertiveness than you.
 

Spac3d

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Originally posted by: rudeguy5757
I dont want to thread crap here or anything...but good guy I only remember two of your posts, and they have both been dumber than a blonde after a labotomy....tell your girl to get one of those guys that keeps hitting on her to pay the dam money so we can get back to our normal threads about marge simpsons boobs and not having to read your whiny/made up/assanine threads
thank you
haha:D

 

XZeroII

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Say, NO!!!!!!!!!!

If this person is treating you like this, don't pay and stay away. Tell her what you originally wanted and that what she is doing is not what you wanted, thus you do not want to go. If she can't take it, then she is not a friend. Only pay if you are going and want to go.
 

gotsmack

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You say hot chicks but can we trust your judgement?

Just write her a check and also include a letter saying that you don't want to have anything to do with her anymore. That should take care of everything. Next time she can't drag you into doing anything because you already told her that you two are not friends.
 

Marshallj

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Originally posted by: The_good_guy
so do I tell her no? Call her and tell her no? i am not paying...

i dont need her friendship, but then her bf is a lawyer.. never know what she might try...

i dont mind going to court over this.. cause i have enough support and atleast she wont be able to chatter chatter and chatter away without letting my words get in..

Yes, tell her no. Tell her she gets $0 from you.

You agreed to plans which were erased by her. That's bait and switch. If you went to a car dealer and told him you were going to buy a Lexus for $xxx, then he brings out a 1982 Corolla which you didn't want, are you entitled to give him some cash? Of course not. You'd be paying for something other than what was agreed upon.

You told her what you wanted to do and she switched it to something that you don't want to do. She gets nothing for that.

Tell her that she blew it by being too domineering.
 

Geekbabe

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www.theshoppinqueen.com
Since we've all seen pictoral evidence of what TGG thinks is a hot chic,does anybody really think this is a "hot deal" ?

Christ, this trip would probably play out like a scene from the movie Deliverance
 

Ciber

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I think it's about time the mods gave TGG a custom title "Grand Lamer".

This guy has got to be the most pathetic member on these forums, and that's not exactly an easy thing to do.