Bitter Asian Men

[J0hnny]

Originally posted by: StormRider

Originally posted by: timosyy
His section on parents is spot-on Link.

Especially the part about the one-two punch... zero social life and then when you're out of college you're suddenly expected to have a beautiful & successful wife w/kids on the way.

Yep, my parents told me not to have any girlfriends (what made things worse was that there was no danger of that for me -- no girls were ever interested in me during high school and college) until after I got out of college and gotten a good job. Instead I should concentrate on academics. What made me mad was that after I had gotten my degree and a job, my parents opened their own restaurant and I was expected to help out. Before I knew it, I was in my mid thirties and never had a social life. If I had known they were going to do this, I would have placed more emphasis on a social life during my undergraduate years.

There's something else that's missing. It's called grow a pair!

 

[zephyrprime]

Funny site. It's so sadly true.

appendium: the one thing the site got wrong was the hairyness thing being attractive. I've never met a girl that thought hairyness was attractive.

 

[iamtrout]

Originally posted by: J0hnny

Originally posted by: StormRider

Originally posted by: timosyy
His section on parents is spot-on Link.

Especially the part about the one-two punch... zero social life and then when you're out of college you're suddenly expected to have a beautiful & successful wife w/kids on the way.

Yep, my parents told me not to have any girlfriends (what made things worse was that there was no danger of that for me -- no girls were ever interested in me during high school and college) until after I got out of college and gotten a good job. Instead I should concentrate on academics. What made me mad was that after I had gotten my degree and a job, my parents opened their own restaurant and I was expected to help out. Before I knew it, I was in my mid thirties and never had a social life. If I had known they were going to do this, I would have placed more emphasis on a social life during my undergraduate years.

There's something else that's missing. It's called grow a pair!

Yeah, because growing a pair means you're automatically 100% independent of your parents for a roof over your head, clothes on your back, food to eat, money to spend, and future college expenses, just to name a few. It's quite obvious that simply growing a pair and telling your parents to fvck off automatically gives you a steady $40K per year income to go on and lead your own life at the age of 14-18 :roll:

 

[Looney]

I wouldn't doubt there are bitter asian men though... you're living in a society where you're not a mainstream of, and instead of working towards fixing it, you settle for depression or bitterness. Other races/groups experience this, they just do so for other reasons. Look at all the people on this forum that whine that girls only go for jerks.

Here's my experience of those 3 things, because they're pretty close to me. I am completely hairless, but most of the girls i've been with have explictly commented on how great it is being smooth... and i'm not kidding here, but i've had women feel me up while they were asleep.

Height, well, i'm only 5'6"... another few inches would be great, but what can you do. I didn't like drinking milk when i was younger (my brother is 6').

Penis, i'm just under 6". In my experience, it's only men that are concern about this. I seriously haven't met a woman that have said it matters, unless it was ridiculously small. I've been told they prefer mine, because it's thicker. Could they have been lying? Maybe, but nobody is perfect and is able please everybody... i'm sure there are men out there with big dicks that wish they had a better job. Just move on if it matters to them.

As for white girls... well, since highschool, i've only dated white girls (even in highschool, they were mostly whites). It's all about attitude. If you want to stand out as an asian, build some confidence, and hit the gym. Having a hard, smooth, naturally tanned body is very sexy. You'll stand out, in both the asian and white crowds.

 

[iamtrout]

Originally posted by: Looney

But are you ugly?

 

[Looney]

Originally posted by: iamtrout

Originally posted by: Looney

But are you ugly?

LOL no, but i know of a couple of ugly asians who succeed with white women.

 

[iamtrout]

Originally posted by: Looney

Originally posted by: iamtrout

Originally posted by: Looney

But are you ugly?

LOL no, but i know of a couple of ugly asians who succeed with white women.

Ugly white women?

 

[Looney]

Originally posted by: Phokus

The average Asian man is 5'5" tall.

Huh? I was reading an article about north koreans vs. south koreans and south koreans are on average 5'8" while north koreans are on average 5'5". The averages are due to diet (or extreme lack of it in north korea). The average Asian American should be even taller in North America considering the american diet. I've seen lots of asian people at around the 6' or greater mark in boston.

Yeah, but he's probably considering all asians, so the average would be around there.

 

[Moonbeam]

Do not worry. Everybody and I mean everybody feels like the most worthless person in the world. Cure that and you will bring a light to the world that will shine like the sun.

 

[Moonbeam]

By the way it was being compared to others that has made us sick. Now we manage and maintain our sickness ourselves.

 

[Ricochet]

Originally posted by: aswedc

Originally posted by: ricochet
I've seen a lot of young asian male date white chicks. Their secret is that they adopted the street racing and rap culture. Their vehicles are riced. They are the same skinny, smooth chest, almond-eyed archetype as their nerd counterpart. Differences is attitude and lifestyle.

Yeah, that's a great idea. Be someone you're not so you can be popular :roll:. Not to mention the kind of white chicks this approach will attract.

I'm not promoting it. It's what you're willing to sacrifice to get laid. Welcome to reality. Most attractive girls tend to be shallow. They rather gravitate toward the "edgy" and "dangerous" type (ie. outlaw biker, drug user, gangster, street racer, and etc) instead of the "safe" and "predictable" nerd (who btw makes a great friend). That trend actually transcends race from my experience.

Yeah, you're better off getting good grades, going to college, and getting a good job in the long run. But at least accept the fact that you're not gonna get laid as much (or at all) during your younger years and stop this whining and b!tching.

From hearing all the older guys tell me: they all wished they got laid more in HS and college before settling down. The younger "nice guys" tend to be idealistic and when reality doesn't fit their world view, they gripe and whine about it.

 

[dr150]

The most important things that can give a man an edge with women are:

1.) Height (and proportional weight...i.e. not fat)
2.) Humor

Humor and persistence can go a loooong way towards getting a girl you're interested in and can overcome many unaesthetic attributes one's genes may carry.

Height is another story. A sad story....b/c many women do look at height as their greatest prejudice in choosing a guy. As long as it's not Power Forward size, the taller the better.


Regardless, humor and persistence can go a long way....maybe not all the way....but a long way nonetheless in combating the height prejudice.

 

[dr150]

Originally posted by: paulney

Originally posted by: raildogg
Why do Asian guys want a white girlfriend so bad?

White women are more desirable in general.

That's absolutely NOT TRUE. I'm white and see beautiful asian women all the time vs. the increasingly obese white heffer.

 

[Capt Caveman]

Originally posted by: zephyrprime
Funny site. It's so sadly true.

appendium: the one thing the site got wrong was the hairyness thing being attractive. I've never met a girl that thought hairyness was attractive.

It's true b/c you've measured many the height of many asian men, measured their penis's and then document their lives? Another moron, please don't breed...

 

[bleeb]

Hottest women are from BRAZIL foo.

Originally posted by: savoyboy

Originally posted by: DAGTA

Originally posted by: savoyboy

Originally posted by: paulney

Originally posted by: raildogg
Why do Asian guys want a white girlfriend so bad?

White women are more desirable in general.

That explains why so many white guys have yellow fever for asian women.

In terms of physical appearance, white women tend to have the hottest women in the world.

I blame the western media and their influence on the world. If you take a gorgeous white woman to a tribe in Africa, I bet the people in that tribe thought that white woman is butt-ugly because this is their first time that they get to see a white person.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

btw, hottest women are from Venezuela.

 

[InlineFour]

iamtrout, i think you're my twin brother. <3

EDIT: iamtrout, you should consider joining myspace. there are tons of horny girls looking for men. my friend was an introvert in highschool. then he opened a myspace and he's been going to bars and meeting chicks on a regular basis.

 

[Pepsei]

there are 1000's of women on myspace you can pick up easily, you can filter by race too.

 

[konakona]

Originally posted by: Aharami

Originally posted by: Dacalo

I have been in public showers (sports) with white guys and I am pretty proportionate penis wise.

unless you guys were all walking around with full erections (which I HOPE isnt the case), you cant really compare sizes

thats gets a LOL of the thread

Why do Asian guys want a white girlfriend so bad?

Thats a news to me, at least not the case with most Asian friends and acquiantances I made through high school and college. Granted, you really cant tell what they would be thinking dating asian girls, maybe they were bitter inside? When I had an involving discussion on it though, most of them found Asian girls more attractive, myself included. The beauty really is in the eye of the beholder

 

[MasterAndCommander]

so....white dudes pimpin on the asian chicks,
black dudes pimpin on the white chicks,
all is not lost: Asian dudes - you need to start going after the black and hispanic chicks.

 

[notfred]

Originally posted by: StormRider

Originally posted by: timosyy
His section on parents is spot-on Link.

Especially the part about the one-two punch... zero social life and then when you're out of college you're suddenly expected to have a beautiful & successful wife w/kids on the way.

Yep, my parents told me not to have any girlfriends (what made things worse was that there was no danger of that for me -- no girls were ever interested in me during high school and college) until after I got out of college and gotten a good job. Instead I should concentrate on academics. What made me mad was that after I had gotten my degree and a job, my parents opened their own restaurant and I was expected to help out. Before I knew it, I was in my mid thirties and never had a social life. If I had known they were going to do this, I would have placed more emphasis on a social life during my undergraduate years.

Fvck, you're in your 30s? I thought you were like 17.

 

[gotsmack]

Originally posted by: StormRider
Yep, my parents told me not to have any girlfriends (what made things worse was that there was no danger of that for me -- no girls were ever interested in me during high school and college) until after I got out of college and gotten a good job. Instead I should concentrate on academics. What made me mad was that after I had gotten my degree and a job, my parents opened their own restaurant and I was expected to help out. Before I knew it, I was in my mid thirties and never had a social life. If I had known they were going to do this, I would have placed more emphasis on a social life during my undergraduate years.

That is my situation too, except I'm almost 26, just finished grad school and have a decent job. I'm trying to weasel out of helping out at the restaurant. I'm just going to move out and that will take care of itself, but I'm saving a LOT of money by paying my parents 1/2 of the rent I would have to pay elsewhere. Downside is I live hella far away from work and I can't bring girls home.

 

[iversonyin]

This guy (the author) is a pathetic loser who couldn't get girls for sh*t.

 

[NaOH]

Originally posted by: iamtrout
For all the people saying the stats aren't true and then point to themselves as evidence, the site's stats are AVERAGES. You're not evidence, you're an exception!

You're "only" 5'8" for example and I'm 5'5". Those three inches actually makes a difference. When I was growing up half the girls were taller than me, and the ones who weren't were either really short or the same height. I was EASILY the shortest male in all of my classes. I saw white kids shorter than me grow to tower over me in two years, while I stayed the same height.

Add to this the fact that my parents are both introverts, never participating in ANY school functions except to just sit in the background and tell me to work harder, the fact that they never allowed me to bring home friends because our house is always embarrasingly messy, plus none of my friends EVER satisfy them, plus they didn't allow me to work because I had to focus on academics, and the list goes on and on.

The absolute icing on the cake is that they have an Asian superiority complex, and feel that the "American" way of rearing kids is selfish, short-sighted, and destined for failure :roll:

Originally posted by: InlineFour
iamtrout, didn't you know mixed offspring (asian + caucasion) is the most desirable?

Fvck that. Fvck being tied down to some family or some girl. I've gotton to the point where I've been solitary for so long I actually prefer it. My life's going to just be work, travel, and more travel. One life to live, might as well see as many places on this earth that I can.

Oh the irony

You are a weak minded soul. Stop being a momma's boy and get your own goddamn life.

My parent's acted exactly like yours about friends, school etc. Never stopped me to having a social life and sneaking friends over. I came out fine, going to graduate with a BS in electrical engineering and minor in engineering management soon, have a beautiful gf, lots of friends, been ass drunk on many occasions and etc.

Life is meaningless if you have no one to share it with, which you will find out. So stop making excuses.

 

[iversonyin]

Originally posted by: AMDUALY

Originally posted by: iamtrout
For all the people saying the stats aren't true and then point to themselves as evidence, the site's stats are AVERAGES. You're not evidence, you're an exception!

You're "only" 5'8" for example and I'm 5'5". Those three inches actually makes a difference. When I was growing up half the girls were taller than me, and the ones who weren't were either really short or the same height. I was EASILY the shortest male in all of my classes. I saw white kids shorter than me grow to tower over me in two years, while I stayed the same height.

Add to this the fact that my parents are both introverts, never participating in ANY school functions except to just sit in the background and tell me to work harder, the fact that they never allowed me to bring home friends because our house is always embarrasingly messy, plus none of my friends EVER satisfy them, plus they didn't allow me to work because I had to focus on academics, and the list goes on and on.

The absolute icing on the cake is that they have an Asian superiority complex, and feel that the "American" way of rearing kids is selfish, short-sighted, and destined for failure :roll:

Originally posted by: InlineFour
iamtrout, didn't you know mixed offspring (asian + caucasion) is the most desirable?

Fvck that. Fvck being tied down to some family or some girl. I've gotton to the point where I've been solitary for so long I actually prefer it. My life's going to just be work, travel, and more travel. One life to live, might as well see as many places on this earth that I can.

Oh the irony

You are a weak minded soul. Stop being a momma's boy and get your own goddamn life.

My parent's acted exactly like yours about friends, school etc. Never stopped me to having a social life and sneaking friends over. I came out fine, going to graduate with a BS in electrical engineering and minor in engineering management soon, have a beautiful gf, lots of friends, been ass drunk on many occasions and etc.

Life is meaningless if you have no one to share it with, which you will find out. So stop making excuses.

Life is what you make of it. Asians parents aren't THAT horrible. If you have the mind and courage, nothing can stop you from doing what you want. That includes having a job, a social life, a gf, or whatever the hell you want.

People with external locus of control tend not to take charge of their own life and blame it on some celestial beings or your parents.

The fact is, you don't have to work early because your family need you to, that's already a HUGE advantage. From what I see, you need to start taking charge of your own life.

 

[StormRider]

Originally posted by: miri

Originally posted by: StormRider
Yep, my parents told me not to have any girlfriends (what made things worse was that there was no danger of that for me -- no girls were ever interested in me during high school and college) until after I got out of college and gotten a good job. Instead I should concentrate on academics. What made me mad was that after I had gotten my degree and a job, my parents opened their own restaurant and I was expected to help out. Before I knew it, I was in my mid thirties and never had a social life. If I had known they were going to do this, I would have placed more emphasis on a social life during my undergraduate years.

You worked in the restaurant business and had no social life? Isnt that almost impossible?

It's a very small family owned restaurant. Currently, my Dad and Uncle are the cooks and my Mom is the waitress/cashier. In the beginning we had another waitress but we never got another one after she left to start her own Chinese restaurant. We also had other cooks from time to time (at most we had a total of 3 cooks).

As the years went by, business has been dropping. I always thought part of the reason was because my parents just didn't want to hire anyone and the service time suffered. About 4 or 5 years ago another Chinese restaurant opened in the very same shopping center and business dropped even more -- to the point where I would no longer feel guilty if I wasn't there to help out. I think one of the reasons why my relationship with my parents has improved is because I no longer feel this guilt and resentment. If I was there helping out, I would feel resentment. If I was even thinking about not helping out and going to some other activity, I would feel guilty.

I don't really consider interacting with customers a "social life". Also, when my parents are around, I am more inhibited socially.