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miri

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Im asian and have only dated caucasian women. If I grew up in a place with a high asian concentration, I probably would have dated asian women, but asians are a small minority, less than 1% in the areas I have lived.

In my highschool graduating class, I think there were 900 people. I do not think there were any asian females at all.
 
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Originally posted by: raildogg
Originally posted by: paulney
Originally posted by: raildogg
Why do Asian guys want a white girlfriend so bad?

White women are more desirable in general.

According to Asian guys? Or some Asian guys?

I'm sure there are many other Asians out there who don't really care either way. Can't say that with absolute confidence, but I'm assuming.

I don't care. As long as she's hot :D
 

timosyy

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I... prefer asian women.

The only problem is asian women prefer white men (though... most of the really good looking asian females I tend to see with asian males as well... so thats not from experience).

For some reason I just don't see a long term relationship with a caucasian female. Call it racism or ingrained stereotypes but I just see asian women as being more faithful/less shallow in general. Someone whip up a quick statistic for divorce rates seperated by race? lol. Whatever the case, I do prefer the asian ladies ;)
 

neutralizer

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Originally posted by: StormRider
Originally posted by: timosyy
His section on parents is spot-on Link.

Especially the part about the one-two punch... zero social life and then when you're out of college you're suddenly expected to have a beautiful & successful wife w/kids on the way.

Yep, my parents told me not to have any girlfriends (what made things worse was that there was no danger of that for me -- no girls were ever interested in me during high school and college) until after I got out of college and gotten a good job. Instead I should concentrate on academics. What made me mad was that after I had gotten my degree and a job, my parents opened their own restaurant and I was expected to help out. Before I knew it, I was in my mid thirties and never had a social life. If I had known they were going to do this, I would have placed more emphasis on a social life during my undergraduate years.

I'm in the same boat. Parents told me to not have any girlfriends and I should concentrate on my academics since high school, but at least I haven't graduated yet, so I still have a chance to fix this.
 

her209

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Originally posted by: StormRider
Yep, my parents told me not to have any girlfriends (what made things worse was that there was no danger of that for me -- no girls were ever interested in me during high school and college) until after I got out of college and gotten a good job. Instead I should concentrate on academics. What made me mad was that after I had gotten my degree and a job, my parents opened their own restaurant and I was expected to help out. Before I knew it, I was in my mid thirties and never had a social life. If I had known they were going to do this, I would have placed more emphasis on a social life during my undergraduate years.
That explains a lot. I mean... A LOT!!! :Q:Q:Q
 

miri

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Originally posted by: StormRider
Yep, my parents told me not to have any girlfriends (what made things worse was that there was no danger of that for me -- no girls were ever interested in me during high school and college) until after I got out of college and gotten a good job. Instead I should concentrate on academics. What made me mad was that after I had gotten my degree and a job, my parents opened their own restaurant and I was expected to help out. Before I knew it, I was in my mid thirties and never had a social life. If I had known they were going to do this, I would have placed more emphasis on a social life during my undergraduate years.

You worked in the restaurant business and had no social life? Isnt that almost impossible?
 

JinLien

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LOL, where did the author in the link get his information on the penis lenght?

If I'm a woman I would freak when find out a guy with an 8" one eye monster, and I don't think it make things any less weird if I advertise it.

I like to see what ATOT women have to say about this.

One thing that Nature really hates Asians on, though, is the following. The average white man's dick is 6.13 inches long. The average Asian man's is 5.08 inches. (You have no idea how many gay porn and penis enlargement websites I had to comb through to get these statistics. I hope you all thank me for the dedication I put forward for this site.) Never mind the "Size doesn't matter" lie - the fact is that in the back of every woman's mind, whether they consciously acknowledge it or not, the Asian man just doesn't measure up to the white man. Yeah, that was a pun. And it was on purpose. In any case, averages are a mean thing. An Asian guy with an 8-inch monster still has to labor with the stereotype. Nametags that say "Hi, my name is Harry Lee, and I have an 8-inch dick." just aren't in style yet.
 

Capt Caveman

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
Text

the sad part is, they're all true. :(

If you're serious about it being true, you are truly a mental midget.

Asian - 5'10"
Semi-Pro Mountain biker, currently into triathlons
Open to all races but have dated predominantly attractive athletic white women. If your link was true, why would white women want to date asian guys?

It comes down to self-confidence and good socialization skills. Now, go find some...
 

Pepsei

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wow, totally opposite for me except for the hair part.

i'm 5'11, i have a fair share of gfs in HS and College. it had to do with good self confidence. (read the iranian from hell story)

it helps that going to a liberal arts college, every new year means 1000's of young girls ready to be picked up. if one says no, move on to the next one. girls are often less shallow than men when it come to looks, why do you think they date black guys? big penis? :)

the penis part is probably true, since all the porn actors have bigger penis than mine.

 

0roo0roo

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Sep 21, 2002
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Originally posted by: savoyboy
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: savoyboy
Originally posted by: paulney
Originally posted by: raildogg
Why do Asian guys want a white girlfriend so bad?

White women are more desirable in general.

That explains why so many white guys have yellow fever for asian women.

In terms of physical appearance, white women tend to have the hottest women in the world.
I blame the western media and their influence on the world. If you take a gorgeous white woman to a tribe in Africa, I bet the people in that tribe thought that white woman is butt-ugly because this is their first time that they get to see a white person.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

btw, hottest women are from Venezuela.

depends on the % white genes;)
total indigenous is meh
 

Aharami

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Originally posted by: Dacalo

I have been in public showers (sports) with white guys and I am pretty proportionate penis wise.

unless you guys were all walking around with full erections (which I HOPE isnt the case), you cant really compare sizes
 

iamtrout

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For all the people saying the stats aren't true and then point to themselves as evidence, the site's stats are AVERAGES. You're not evidence, you're an exception!

You're "only" 5'8" for example and I'm 5'5". Those three inches actually makes a difference. When I was growing up half the girls were taller than me, and the ones who weren't were either really short or the same height. I was EASILY the shortest male in all of my classes. I saw white kids shorter than me grow to tower over me in two years, while I stayed the same height.

Add to this the fact that my parents are both introverts, never participating in ANY school functions except to just sit in the background and tell me to work harder, the fact that they never allowed me to bring home friends because our house is always embarrasingly messy, plus none of my friends EVER satisfy them, plus they didn't allow me to work because I had to focus on academics, and the list goes on and on.

The absolute icing on the cake is that they have an Asian superiority complex, and feel that the "American" way of rearing kids is selfish, short-sighted, and destined for failure :roll:

Originally posted by: InlineFour
iamtrout, didn't you know mixed offspring (asian + caucasion) is the most desirable?

Fvck that. Fvck being tied down to some family or some girl. I've gotton to the point where I've been solitary for so long I actually prefer it. My life's going to just be work, travel, and more travel. One life to live, might as well see as many places on this earth that I can.
 

DougK62

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Originally posted by: SSP
The average white man's dick is 6.13 inches long. The average Asian man's is 5.08 inches.

LOL :D

Those numbers are waaaaaaaay optimistic.

 
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Originally posted by: iamtrout
Add to this the fact that my parents are both introverts, never participating in ANY school functions except to just sit in the background and tell me to work harder, the fact that they never allowed me to bring home friends because our house is always embarrasingly messy, plus none of my friends EVER satisfy them, plus they didn't allow me to work because I had to focus on academics, and the list goes on and on.

The absolute icing on the cake is that they have an Asian superiority complex, and feel that the "American" way of rearing kids is selfish, short-sighted, and destined for failure :roll:

Yeah, that's the classic symptoms of APS - Asian Parent Syndrome.

Tragic affliction. :(

- M4H
 

Gibson486

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: iamtrout
Add to this the fact that my parents are both introverts, never participating in ANY school functions except to just sit in the background and tell me to work harder, the fact that they never allowed me to bring home friends because our house is always embarrasingly messy, plus none of my friends EVER satisfy them, plus they didn't allow me to work because I had to focus on academics, and the list goes on and on.

The absolute icing on the cake is that they have an Asian superiority complex, and feel that the "American" way of rearing kids is selfish, short-sighted, and destined for failure :roll:

Yeah, that's the classic symptoms of APS - Asian Parent Syndrome.

Tragic affliction. :(

- M4H

I am lucky. I am asian and my parents stopped caring about school when i entered high school. I showed her a D- I got in Electromagnetics 3 semesters ago and my mom just shrugged it off and said, "atleast you are going college".

 

Phokus

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The average Asian man is 5'5" tall.

Huh? I was reading an article about north koreans vs. south koreans and south koreans are on average 5'8" while north koreans are on average 5'5". The averages are due to diet (or extreme lack of it in north korea). The average Asian American should be even taller in North America considering the american diet. I've seen lots of asian people at around the 6' or greater mark in boston.