Forgive me if I don't feel sorry for a partner in a financial planning firm that is relying on bonus money to sustain his standard of living.
I wouldn't trust him as my financial planner if that's how he rolls.
LOL @ the 1%'ers breadline.
The hours drop off after the first couple years - more like 10 a day or so plus weekends if you need to get shit done.
nice to have money to burn, some people are just never happy...
Some people just need to be more humbled.
One year, I spent had to spend more than $17k to take care of my dogs. And I'd do it again, if I had to.
Bonuses come out next Friday. Woot!
He received a pay cut and needs to adapt to it, just like everyone else. If he has to sacrifice his vacation home, gold plated dog biscuits, and expensive private school tuition, so be it. Whether you make $350k or $35k, I can't have sympathy for someone who not only hasn't tried, but doesn't even want to find a solution to their own problems.
We've gone from a society of "Here's a problem, let's find a solution" to "Here's a problem, complain about it and blame someone else."
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I'm just baffled about this. The guy works in banking, and yet he apparently can't manage his own finances? Its like a foreman or engineer of a construction company that can't figure out how to put in 4 feet of concrete walkway between his driveway and house. Just makes me think he's a moron that has no business being paid that kind of money to do that job.
Excuse me while I go find the world's smallest violin to play for these people
Maybe he doesn't realize that he could pursue a less stressful and lower-paying job.
You could be clinically braindead and still work as a Walmart greeter or a Congressman. (And if you're in Congress, $350k would be the low-end gross pay. There's just the minor issue of purging yourself of all notions of ethics and personal dignity and values.)
People from privileged, wealthy backgrounds are more likely to be dishonest and unethical than their poorer counterparts, a study has found.
From depriving children of sweets and reckless driving to lying for financial gain, the researchers at the University of California found that upper-class participants were more prone to immoral behaviour.
Subjects were divided into groups according to their social backgrounds and asked to carry out a series of tasks to test their scruples. The tests focused on traits such as honesty and consideration for others.
It was found that the wealthier the participant, the more likely they were to break the law, make unethical decisions and take valued goods from others.
They were also more likely to lie in a negotiation, cheat in order to attain a prize and endorse unethical behaviour at work.
The researchers concluded that the unethical tendencies of upper-class individuals were partly down to greed. They also were deemed to be more self-absorbed, less aware of others and less able to identify the emotions of others.
They went on to say that the theory could partly explain the banking crisis, as self-confident, wealthy bankers would be more likely to make reckless decisions.
The participants were first asked about their wealth, schooling, social background, religious persuasions and attitudes to money in an attempt to establish their perceived social class.
The tasks they performed included conducting a fake job interview in which they knew that the job might become redundant within six months. They were encouraged to conceal this from the candidate to test their compliance in unethical behavior and dishonesty.
They were also given the opportunity to cheat in a self-scoring dice game in order to gain a cash prize.
Another test assessed the social status of drivers based on their appearance and the make of their car. Those who were categorised as wealthier were more likely to drive through pedestrian crossings without stopping and cut up other drivers.
Lead researcher, Dr Paul Piff found conflicting reasons for the responses, the Telegraph reports: "On the one hand, lower-class individuals live in environments defined by fewer resources, greater threat and more uncertainty.
"It stands to reason, therefore, that lower-class individuals may be more motivated to behave unethically to increase their resources or overcome their disadvantage.
"A second line of reasoning, however, suggests the opposite prediction: namely, that the upper class may be more disposed to the unethical.
"Greater resources, freedom, and independence from others among the upper class give rise to self-focused social cognitive tendencies, which we predict will facilitate unethical behaviour.
"Historical observation lends credence to this idea. For example, the recent economic crisis has been attributed in part to the unethical actions of the wealthy.
"Religious teachings extol the poor and admonish the rich with claims like, 'It will be hard for a rich person to enter the kingdom of heaven'."
The link between economics and ethics has been the subject of numerous studies. According to research presented at the 105th Annual Meeting of the American Sociological Association, the more financially dependant a man is on his female partner, the more likely he is to cheat on her. However, conversely, the more dependent a women is on her partner, the less likely she is to be unfaithful, said researcher, Christin Munsch, a sociology Ph.D. candidate at Cornell University.
I don't give a shit how much money you make - if you spend 17k on a dog, or dogs - you really need to re-think your priorities.
If you worked a hundred hours a week, how much time do you think you'd have to worry about walking your dogs, finding someone to take them when you were away, taking them to the vet, etc. The reason they're spending $17,000 on them is because they are outsourcing all this stuff. So you think that just because someone works a hundred hours a week they shouldn't have the pleasure of the companionship of a dog?
If you worked a hundred hours a week, how much time do you think you'd have to worry about walking your dogs, finding someone to take them when you were away, taking them to the vet, etc. The reason they're spending $17,000 on them is because they are outsourcing all this stuff. So you think that just because someone works a hundred hours a week they shouldn't have the pleasure of the companionship of a dog?
While I'm an advocate of a more progressive tax structure, and worry more about the problems of the middle and working classes than the upper class, I'll say this: if you can't feel any compassion for someone who has experienced a severe reduction in salary and has to make painful adjustments because of it, you should not expect any sympathy from anyone else if the same happens to you.
No one on these forums is starving, so spare me your indignation. By and large, these people went to expensive private collages, and that's where they made their social connections. That means that their friends live in Greenwich, SoHo, or Madison, that means that their friends' kids, who are likely their kids' friends, are going to expensive private schools. Many of them are to top earners in their family, do you think their family/friends ask them for favors, expect them to pay for dinner, etc.?
You'd be surprised, most of these jobs are very specialized. There are people in the financial industry that make seven figures and have no savings. It seems strange but it's common. And yes, they are very good at their jobs.
Probably 90% of the people that make these kinds of salaries have the good sense to realize that they will never get sympathy, so when they get questions about having to deal with bonus cuts, they just say something like "I'm just grateful to have a job etc.etc." The writer found some folks in the other 10%.
I wish I could meet this guy and buy him a drink. And then punch him in the face. And then run like hell lest he sue me for whiplash
Imagine that...a banker that doesn't know how to handle his own finances and live within his means.
"People who don't have money don't understand the stress,"
Priceless. Pun intended. Common sense says you don't rely on your bonus for your living. Guess he should just be thankful his bank was bailed out by the government and he still has a job.
If they are working so much that they have to hire someone to watch his dogs then that is a problem. Why get a dog if you are working and travailing all the time. I'm away for my house for 10 a days with commuting. Do I get a dog no!
Then you get in to trickle-down economics, right? If he's paying someone to take care of these things while he's working, he's creating a job for someone else.
This is going to get moved to P&N, right?
"People who don't have money don't understand the stress,"
Many people have had to deal with these sort of things. I got laid off, I made plenty of sacrifices, cut tons of expenses. If they weren't complaining about losing their dog nannies and vacation homes, I'm sure more people could have some sympathy for them. However, for those of us that went through actual tough times and made real sacrifices, those who have lost their only homes, and those that still aren't on their feet, you'll be hard pressed to find any sympathy to give to these jokers.
So? No one even cares about how much money they make. It's their complete lack of perspective on the world that is causing people to make fun of them and have no sympathy. I'd have the same lack of sympathy for someone who makes $30k/year, having trouble paying rent, but just went out and bought spinners for his pimped out Caddie.
It's the 10% in the article that's getting made fun of.
I'm not entirely sure why you feel the need to defend these people in the article as much as you are, but you aren't even getting the point. It's not how much they make, it's that they are complaining about stupid crap they'll have to sacrifice as if it's such a huge sacrifice. Sorry, but a middle class family having to decide between paying their mortgage and buying food to feed their family is a lot different than giving up your second home or having to walk your own dogs.