Lady Jessica Quote:
<< Sure. Let me put it this way. Your parents created you. What would they want out of you? Possibly respect and reciprocation of their love. But do they want you to worship them and perform any other rituals for them? >>
I would frame my response on two key words: "worship" and "rituals". First let's consider worship.
I guess it depends on what you mean by "worship." I would define "worship" as "recognize them as the center of reality." Since my parents are not the center of reality, it would be unloving for them to expect that of me. Of course, many parents are abusive and try to make themselves the absolute center of their children's lives, but that is another story. But God-If-He-Exists (obviously I believe He does) is by nature the center of reality. In such a scenario, it would be in my my own best interests for His other children to try and persuade me of that truth, assuming that they did it in a compassionate and caring way.
Now let's look at "rituals":
I guess I look at it this way: it is hard to apply human standards to God. If we are going to apply human standards to God, then we have to apply them to God as He expressed Himself in human form. According to histroical Christianity, this human incarnation of God's own Word or Reason or Self-Expression occurred once and once only in the person of Jesus of Nazareth.
If I look at Jesus, I see the Unseen Heart of God in human form, in a way that I can recognize. In Christ, I see a God of unconquerable benevolence. The only "rituals" Christ asks of His children are few and reasonable: identify with Him (baptism), remember Him (communion/mass), participate in and support local family reunions (church), communicate His love and mercy to those who may be interested (witness), and encourage personal growth (mentoring).
If these are simply rituals for me, I think Jesus himself would say, "Don't bother, you are only fooling yourself." But if I truly love him, then they are not "rituals" anymore than attending family get togethers in a loving family would be rituals. They are simply the forms by which I get to the eseence of what "worship" and "rituals" are all about.