Ask the 25yo Female

[BeenBetter]

Originally posted by: Martin
why are you still posting after all the stupid questions you received?

I'm bored and I don't really care about stupid questions. Notice I'm not answering all the questions though I'm surprised that I've answered quite a few not-so-great questions.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

A bunch less intolerant than typical Christian teaching...

 

[DAGTA]

Originally posted by: Mill

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

A bunch less intolerant than typical Christian teaching...

Yes, yes, morals are not politically correct. You want to be PC, don't you? If you're not PC, the terrorists have won!

 

[BeenBetter]

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: mrrman
why do women play with mens emotions all the time...like a game that no one wins at??

Finally, questions I was expecting to answer. If a woman is playing with your emotions maybe she doesn't really want to be with you. It's hard to say.. more specifics on the situation might help

help this guy

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If a guy just wants to have fun he just tell her from the instant there is an attraction of any type. Maybe she'll be open to it.

 

[Xylitol]

Do you have an STD

Edit: And if you have one, which one

 

[BeenBetter]

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

I didn't mean that in a bad way. Some people just don't do things they're not comfortable with which is prefectly fine. Actually those people are probably most comfortable in their own skin since theyre not easily pressured.

 

[Skunkwourk]

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: Isocene
How much do you make/have you made in your engineering jobs?

60-65k .. California

Northern or Southern, and which do you prefer?

and my other question, do you believe in ladder theory?

Oh.. the ladder theory? You mean the invisible glass ladder? Yes

not quite, you can read it for fun when you're bored, some members swear its true.

Text Anyway, enjoy the rest of your night....

 

[Zenmervolt]

Originally posted by: Mill

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

A bunch less intolerant than typical Christian teaching...

It is not possible to truly hold a belief and to simultaneously be tolerant of doing things counter to that belief.

ZV

 

[BeenBetter]

Originally posted by: Xylitol
Do you have an STD

Edit: And if you have one, which one

No

 

[Captante]

I want my 20 minutes back!

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: AaronB

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

Roooowwwwrrrrr! HISS!

Oh, can it. For your perusal, my contributions to the last two posts of new females joining OT:
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Text2

The guys are allowed to call shens and say whatever the heck they want to somebody who really strongly looks like a second account, but we females are catfighting when we do?

 

[OdiN]

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: mrrman
why do women play with mens emotions all the time...like a game that no one wins at??

Finally, questions I was expecting to answer. If a woman is playing with your emotions maybe she doesn't really want to be with you. It's hard to say.. more specifics on the situation might help

help this guy

Text

If a guy just wants to have fun he just tell her from the instant there is an attraction of any type. Maybe she'll be open to it.

Why? A woman wouldn't be that honest about it.

 

[talyn00]

What made you decide to join Anandtech Forums and post this?? was it the countless number of YAGTs??

 

[OdiN]

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: Isocene
How much do you make/have you made in your engineering jobs?

60-65k .. California

Northern or Southern, and which do you prefer?

and my other question, do you believe in ladder theory?

Oh.. the ladder theory? You mean the invisible glass ladder? Yes

not quite, you can read it for fun when you're bored, some members swear its true.

Text Anyway, enjoy the rest of your night....

WTF? Made up first in Exeter, CA? That's like 10 minutes from where I live ROFL. Though...they DO have NOTHING else to do out there....I mean NOTHING....save for pushing those cows over.

Well...seeing that it's from Exeter I wouldn't buy into it.

 

[bootymac]

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[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

People who have excessively strict morals are not open minded. Of course, the judgement of whether someone is open minded can be rather subjective.

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: Zenmervolt

Originally posted by: Mill

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

A bunch less intolerant than typical Christian teaching...

It is not possible to truly hold a belief and to simultaneously be tolerant of doing things counter to that belief.

ZV

I disagree. You can hold a belief for yourself and still be understanding that others hold other beliefs and should be allowed to practice as they believe.

 

[BudAshes]

Whats up?

 

[MasterAndCommander]

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: MasterAndCommander
what kind of engineering do you do? Electrical, Computer, Software, Mechanical, Civil?

Electrical.. I guess not a very bright one since I didnt know the ping pong ball question. I definitely wouldn't say engineering is my passion.

What would you rather be doing? It took me 3 years working as a Mechanical Engineer at a consulting firm to realize that it wasn't what I wanted to do for the rest of my life.

Good nite - btw

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

People who have excessively strict morals are not open minded. Of course, the judgement of whether someone is open minded can be rather subjective.

Again, I disagree. You can hold whatever morals you want and be "open-minded" enough to let others practice as they will. If you truly hold your morals strictly, you need not fear people who are around you who do things opposed to your morals.

[edit] You have no way of knowing whether people who have strict morals have evaluated other options. If they haven't and/or are not willing to, maybe you could legitimately call them close minded, but if they have looked at other ways of living and chosen something strictly moral, does that still make them close minded?

 

[DAGTA]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

People who have excessively strict morals are not open minded. Of course, the judgement of whether someone is open minded can be rather subjective.

And the problem with that is? Some people don't believe in compromising their values simply to please other people.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

People who have excessively strict morals are not open minded. Of course, the judgement of whether someone is open minded can be rather subjective.

Again, I disagree. You can hold whatever morals you want and be "open-minded" enough to let others practice as they will. If you truly hold your morals strictly, you need not fear people who are around you who do things opposed to your morals.

In theory I agree with you. In practice, however, there are far too many counter examples. (Towns that prohibit dancing, etc.)

 

[BeenBetter]

If a guy just wants to have fun he just tell her from the instant there is an attraction of any type. Maybe she'll be open to it.
[/quote]

Why? A woman wouldn't be that honest about it.[/quote]

You never know. If she stops talking to you either she wanted something more or she thinks you're a jerk. If she says maybe.. the odds are in your favor

 

[Zenmervolt]

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: Zenmervolt

Originally posted by: Mill

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

A bunch less intolerant than typical Christian teaching...

It is not possible to truly hold a belief and to simultaneously be tolerant of doing things counter to that belief.

ZV

I disagree. You can hold a belief for yourself and still be understanding that others hold other beliefs and should be allowed to practice as they believe.

That's exactly why I phrased it as I did. Note that I said "of doing things counter to that belief" not, "of other people doing things counter to that belief".

To truly believe in something is to be completely intolerant of actions counter to that belief that are performed by yourself. Other people's actions won't have a bearing on this belief, but one cannot truly believe something and simultaneously be tolerant of his own violations of that belief.

ZV

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: DAGTA

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: BeenBetter

Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
ok, here's a serious one for you:

How do you get a girl who does not want to date (due to moral (tied in with religious) reasons, which I follow myself as well) to go on a date?

Well, it seems like you're more willing to date so have a talk with her. Tell her that you know its against her morals to date but that you think you guys should give it a shot. You only live once you know? If she's not willing then she's not interested or she's not open minded enough to look past some of those morals.

People who are not willing to do things that are against their morals are not open minded? Geez, how intolerant is that...

People who have excessively strict morals are not open minded. Of course, the judgement of whether someone is open minded can be rather subjective.

And the problem with that is? Some people don't believe in compromising their values simply to please other people.

There is nothing wrong with closed-mindedness (other than immediate social impact, I suppose) unless it's imposed on others by law or some other method.