Surface Neo is Lakefield, unless they want to delay further to squeeze Lakefield-R in, but even then its unlikely without serious delays. For whatever reason they are taking sweet time releasing the platforms based on the chip, even though they tell us its ready. Let's say they speed it up by 3 months, then we can expect Lakefield-R products by March-April 2021 timeframe with Xe graphics and the 10nm SF process.
I don't believe we'll see Gracemont in Lakefield-based products until after Lakefield-R.
I quickly lost hope on Android phones/tablets. They are not playing on level ground but needs a binary translator which sacrifices not only performance but compatibility. I've seen quite a few user reviews saying it'll feel fast until its suddenly jerky. If it was 5x as fast then it would gain adoption but that's impossible.
This is why we'll continue to have the x86/Windows, Android/ARM divide.