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txxxx

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I know this wont get noticed, but ill post anyway.
I fell in love lately with an amazing girl, and she loves me too (phew!).

I did lose my virginity when I was 15, and when we (my love) 'made love' as you like to say, it was mind blowingly amazing, and now I regret wasting my time on the others. Not to the point of dispair, just to a point of "I wish I waited".
 
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alkemyst

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Originally posted by: txxxx
I know this wont get noticed, but ill post anyway.
I fell in love lately with an amazing girl, and she loves me too (phew!).

I did lose my virginity when I was 15, and when we (my love) 'made love' as you like to say, it was mind blowingly amazing, and now I regret wasting my time on the others. Not to the point of dispair, just to a point of "I wish I waited".
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I don't understand the above....at 15 it was great right? That experience you'd want to lose too or just the meaningless ones along the way, but to the next Ms. Right.

I have found in hindsight it's easy to think that way, but if you think in the mind state you were in at the time it wouldn't be logical. For all you knew at the time, the fling could have been with your future wife. I have been there a couple times, first few months are so great and just when you feel nothing can go wrong stories/lies come to the surface, demands/attitude changes/controlling behavior emerge, laziness/settling, etc. Then you wonder how you could ever have been with her :).

If you new love is really good you'll forget all about the exes soon enough.
 
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txxxx

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: txxxx
I know this wont get noticed, but ill post anyway.
I fell in love lately with an amazing girl, and she loves me too (phew!).

I did lose my virginity when I was 15, and when we (my love) 'made love' as you like to say, it was mind blowingly amazing, and now I regret wasting my time on the others. Not to the point of dispair, just to a point of "I wish I waited".
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I don't understand the above....at 15 it was great right? That experience you'd want to lose too or just the meaningless ones along the way, but to the next Ms. Right.

I have found in hindsight it's easy to think that way, but if you think in the mind state you were in at the time it wouldn't be logical. For all you knew at the time, the fling could have been with your future wife. I have been there a couple times, first few months are so great and just when you feel nothing can go wrong stories/lies come to the surface, demands/attitude changes/controlling behavior emerge, laziness/settling, etc. Then you wonder how you could ever have been with her :).

If you new love is really good you'll forget all about the exes soon enough.
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The last line is definately true :) It is fading away, as she's convinced that the experience I have is "useful" :)
 
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DerwenArtos12

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Originally posted by: txxxx
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: txxxx
I know this wont get noticed, but ill post anyway.
I fell in love lately with an amazing girl, and she loves me too (phew!).

I did lose my virginity when I was 15, and when we (my love) 'made love' as you like to say, it was mind blowingly amazing, and now I regret wasting my time on the others. Not to the point of dispair, just to a point of "I wish I waited".
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I don't understand the above....at 15 it was great right? That experience you'd want to lose too or just the meaningless ones along the way, but to the next Ms. Right.

I have found in hindsight it's easy to think that way, but if you think in the mind state you were in at the time it wouldn't be logical. For all you knew at the time, the fling could have been with your future wife. I have been there a couple times, first few months are so great and just when you feel nothing can go wrong stories/lies come to the surface, demands/attitude changes/controlling behavior emerge, laziness/settling, etc. Then you wonder how you could ever have been with her :).

If you new love is really good you'll forget all about the exes soon enough.
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The last line is definately true :) It is fading away, as she's convinced that the experience I have is "useful" :)
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It is useful. I hit the ground running, so to speak, and now I get no complaints and few suggestions so though some along the way may seem pointless and almost trivila now they served a purpose in their time.
 
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Pers

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Pers


leave him alone...he's just an ugly man who's probably never even had a g/f. His only sexual experiences result from prostitution.
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Never was with a prostitute, messed around with some strippers at a party once though (for free...any stripper that charges for 'fun' is a prostitute).

You can do some searches through the forums and get pics of me....beauty is in the eyes of the beholder of course, but I am quite a favorite of women and men alike (I have been hit on by guys, and have had girlfriends I have hung out with been asked). I am not homosexual though, and they do not cause me any discomfort to be around, actually I get along with homosexual guys usually better than straight males.

However I will make it EASY for you CLICK HERE

You really don't want to go there....I am probably smarter than you, stronger than you, and better looking than you.
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ok...you're definately not smarter than me. on the other hand...you're probably better looking and stronger than me.

me

edit: that picture is over a year old - so i'm a lot bigger now. but you're still like twice my size. :)

It's the only pic i have.
 
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SirStev0

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im 18 and still a virgin... ive been with a girl for about 9 monthes now and we ve done everything but... shes just not ready yet... Before that i had another one the same reason... and before that the same reason... when your with a girl for love you really can run into things like that... ive had plenty of chances to have one night stands and let me tell you they were quite tempting... but its not the same... i figure the first probably should be special...
 
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DerwenArtos12

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Originally posted by: SirStev0
im 18 and still a virgin... ive been with a girl for about 9 monthes now and we ve done everything but... shes just not ready yet... Before that i had another one the same reason... and before that the same reason... when your with a girl for love you really can run into things like that... ive had plenty of chances to have one night stands and let me tell you they were quite tempting... but its not the same... i figure the first probably should be special...
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Nine months???? Please tell me she is highly religous or something. You aren't supposed to be ready for your first time. It is just supposed to happen. It is when people plan it out to be some overly romantic thing that they are disappointed. Your very first time is not going to be great. You are not supposed to know what you are doing, You are supposed to mess up at least one thing. In reality it is just sex. And sex like everything else, you only get better with practice. Nobody picked up some instrument for the first time and was great at it. Women are like and instrument when it comes to sex. You have to find that exact rhythem and chord to hit, and you will only find that chord and that rhythem and only get really good at playing that rhythem and chord through practice.
 
alkemyst

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Pers
ok...you're definately not smarter than me. on the other hand...you're probably better looking and stronger than me.
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By you saying definitely I am not smarter than you, proves I may indeed be much smarter. What is the basis you are using to determine intelligence?

I will also conclude that by using a picture that you admitted was old enough not to be a decent representation of you, you were merely trying to include an association of yourself with a decent looking woman.

At least someone may get some f@pping material out of this in their attempt to remain a virgin until marriage...
 
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BladeWalker

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Originally posted by: txxxx
I know this wont get noticed, but ill post anyway.
I fell in love lately with an amazing girl, and she loves me too (phew!).

I did lose my virginity when I was 15, and when we (my love) 'made love' as you like to say, it was mind blowingly amazing, and now I regret wasting my time on the others. Not to the point of dispair, just to a point of "I wish I waited".
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Consider yourself very lucky. Some of us (me included) can't find that "special someone". If I knew ahead of time that I was gonna meet someone incredible and fall in love with her and she returns that love, I would definately have waited. For most of us "true love" (with 2 virgins saving for each other) is just a fantasy, so we just have fun (have sex) anyway whether in love or not.

 
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tyler811

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Its your business, screw everyone else and what they think. ( no pun intended )
 
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Metalloid

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
23 and still a virgin. In fact, I've turned it down a few times.

Saving myself for my future wife at this point.
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Best thing I have heard all day.

I am 17 and hoping to do the same, but I have a feeling I am in for a tough journey...
 
alkemyst

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: Metalloid
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
23 and still a virgin. In fact, I've turned it down a few times.

Saving myself for my future wife at this point.
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Best thing I have heard all day.

I am 17 and hoping to do the same, but I have a feeling I am in for a tough journey...
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I can't remember which magazine this month had it...but there was a test of virgin freshman...all vowed to remain a virgin until married.

By year end, freshman year, 61% *admitted* failure.

I will add though, the whole virginity thing is nice but short lived (one night really)...it's an immature treasure (not trying to be condescending). Once you have had 5, 10, 20, 50+ partners, you learn that the 'sex' part is hardly important anymore.

Everyone's fear is not the sex prior to the relationship, but rather would their partner be happier with / thinks about the ex all the time. I will admit I don't, all my breakups were clean breaks. I won't say the sex wasn't good, but it's not something I missed. However I have one friend that dated my ex-wife's sister about 3 months and almost 10 years later everytime we talk he had to bring her up and why did I divorce....he has been broken up with about 5 times now due to always comparing others with her.
 
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josedawg

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It's perfectably acceptable. I lost mine when I was 13 :( to a 13yr old. I knew the girl for no more than 2 weeks. We were both virgins. Never seen her since. Sometimes I regret it. I was way too young. I just was young, and eager, with a boner that wouldn't quit :eek:
 
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NinjaGnome

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First girl I did it with was a mistake as I didnt love her at all. That was about 4 months ago. I have since then found a girl i am crazy about and the feeling is mutual. I figure if you love the person a lot then why wait for marriage.
 
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