Are you to old with your virginity?

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CraigRT

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Originally posted by: Booster
and try to please is really dumb?
you're going to have to explain yourself a bit.. i don't get it.

I prefer women to please me, not the other way around.

um, i hope you're actually joking.. it works both ways man.. i rather please my woman than her please me.. i'm a very giving person :)
 

Booster

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um, i hope you're actually joking.. it works both ways man.. i rather please my woman than her please me.. i'm a very giving person

But one can get tired quickly then. So where's the fun?
 

CraigRT

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Originally posted by: Booster
um, i hope you're actually joking.. it works both ways man.. i rather please my woman than her please me.. i'm a very giving person

But one can get tired quickly then. So where's the fun?

same goes for what you say... she only pleasing you. that's tiring.. and boring for her.
 

Booster

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same goes for what you say... she only pleasing you. that's tiring.. and boring for her.

Boring... So where's all love? I'd hate to do all the work by myself.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Pers

um...you really have problems.

oh, sorry don't cry...
She is extremely hot...there's no lie there. What would be the point of elaborating tht besides making myself seem like a prick in front of a sea of nerds. Yay my internet penis just grew 2 inches cause some random idiot is convinced a hot girl asked me for sex!.

And about the "how do you know part" how do i know what?? please elaborate

Elaborate? you obviously didn't actually have any hot girl ask you anything or you would know even if she was a dog you'd have about 1000 points you could elaborate on. Face it chump, there was never a girl and you are a virgin by fate, not choice.


Lastly, you made it seem like you were bangin chicks left and right. As if you had enough experience to have had fathers come after you - you had them arrested, yet the same night the chick called your handsome a$$ back. It was appropriate for me to assume you weren't a virgin. Anyway, quit watching so many damn movies... and get a little "experience" of your own.

While you're at it... get a life.

Well actually twice father's tried to be the 'man' (much like you ya silly twit) and once I let it slide with me shoving him back (as her mother jumped in front of me, of course he hit me at first from behind as I was leaving....I later married this girl), the second was when the girl was 26 and we announced at a dinner we were getting our own place, he backhanded her out of her chair into a semi-stupor and then we proceeded to dance around their house damaging about 50% of it. Cops came to that function and he tried to hit the 'fVkin' nigg@ cop' in his house
rolleye.gif
, he was a really nice guy...all religious too....as a matter of fact on was a minister, the other went to church each sunday and was president of the Police whatever league in my area. The second girl became yet another ex-fiancee after every function turned out 'why was my dad the Vice President and her mom a clerk?' 'why did my dad have a boat twice the size of his?' 'why did my parents need a house 3 times the size of theirs?' .... etc.....etc ......etc. My dad was her mom's boss....her mom gave me her phone number. So it was doomed from the beginning....supposedly someone told me the day she moved out on me was because her father came over and demanded it, then started packing her crap himself.

Now my life only seems a movie to a child like yourself that truly hasn't lived.

My life is fine, I am having a beer reading this while I get paid. oh well try again.....yes, I'd like fries with that, thanks for asking.
 

CraigRT

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Booster
same goes for what you say... she only pleasing you. that's tiring.. and boring for her.

Boring... So where's all love? I'd hate to do all the work by myself.

i don't understand you.
both people need pleasuring.. done and done. no need to say more!
 

Ausm

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
saving == can't get any

<flame suite>

Dude, weren't you in the Marines?

Hell I shagged my ASS off when I was in the Corps.

Of course this was in the EARLY 70's before sex could kill you....

Yeah the good old days...I remember in the mid 80's when the government let the Aids virus be publically known. What a shock!!

Ausm
 

gflores

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I wonder how many people in this thread had sex just one time (like at Prom) and haven't had sex since.

oh, btw, I'm 18 and still a virgin, but I'm in college now, so that might change...
 

isaacmacdonald

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Originally posted by: Booster
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Good luck pleasing your women with no experience. A guy is going to come along who has been with 20-30 and totally rock your old ladies world because you think you're doing the job by sticking it in and rocking back and forth. Might as well get the divorce ready before you get married if you plan on saving yourselves.

Why would anyone want to please a woman? I mean, the hard way? It's really tiresome. If the woman doesn't like you why the heck waste your time on her... And try to please. This is really dumb.

wow. you're not very good with foresight are you? if this attitude persists, look forward to extremely mediocre missionary sex with a maximum frequency of once a week, rapidly declining to once every other month by the time you're thirty. Also, since you're not looking to please, don't expect reciprocation ;).
 

Red

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Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
Originally posted by: Booster
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Good luck pleasing your women with no experience. A guy is going to come along who has been with 20-30 and totally rock your old ladies world because you think you're doing the job by sticking it in and rocking back and forth. Might as well get the divorce ready before you get married if you plan on saving yourselves.

Why would anyone want to please a woman? I mean, the hard way? It's really tiresome. If the woman doesn't like you why the heck waste your time on her... And try to please. This is really dumb.

wow. you're not very good with foresight are you? if this attitude persists, look forward to extremely mediocre missionary sex with a maximum frequency of once a week, rapidly declining to once every other month by the time you're thirty. Also, since you're not looking to please, don't expect reciprocation ;).

Exactly. Now, I must say that my comment is something that I do not profess, I have no been with nearly 20-30 women, and I do believe that couple put too much emphasis on sex. However, having said that, you must realize that 9 of 10 attactive woman have been with probably upwards of 15-25 men themselves by the time they are 25 if they are still single and attractive. And you can guarantee they know what a guy can do when he has experience with the ladies. And it WILL be something they are looking for in a person they will spend the rest of their lives with.

So, if you're saving yourself for someone, you better hope the person you're saving it for is also a virgin. Because if she has been shown the ropes by someone who has got a lot of play, you're pitiful sex is going to be a big downer for her. You'll probably bust your nut after about 5 minutes and wonder why she isn't having the time of her life. Ah well. 2 cents.
 

CraigRT

Lifer
Jun 16, 2000
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Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
Originally posted by: Booster
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Good luck pleasing your women with no experience. A guy is going to come along who has been with 20-30 and totally rock your old ladies world because you think you're doing the job by sticking it in and rocking back and forth. Might as well get the divorce ready before you get married if you plan on saving yourselves.

Why would anyone want to please a woman? I mean, the hard way? It's really tiresome. If the woman doesn't like you why the heck waste your time on her... And try to please. This is really dumb.

wow. you're not very good with foresight are you? if this attitude persists, look forward to extremely mediocre missionary sex with a maximum frequency of once a week, rapidly declining to once every other month by the time you're thirty. Also, since you're not looking to please, don't expect reciprocation ;).

that's basically what i was trying to tell him

heheh
 

alkemyst

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i also wanted to add....there have been probably 5 or 6 people I have known that thought both were waiting for marriage when it was found out the woman in the relationship was not a virgin and in fact was having sex on the side...getting comfort and security from one relationship and sex and fun from the other. 3 went to engagement when the girl finally dropped the bomb (all three after the guy's family was told about the engagement).

and in 1 I had to be the bearing of news that I had already slept with the girl a few years earlier.

In all cases the guy came out in the beginning of the relationship *assuming* the woman was a virgin and proclaiming they were also a virgin and then went on about sluts, or harlots, or whatever.

 

Encryptic

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Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
Originally posted by: Booster
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Good luck pleasing your women with no experience. A guy is going to come along who has been with 20-30 and totally rock your old ladies world because you think you're doing the job by sticking it in and rocking back and forth. Might as well get the divorce ready before you get married if you plan on saving yourselves.

Why would anyone want to please a woman? I mean, the hard way? It's really tiresome. If the woman doesn't like you why the heck waste your time on her... And try to please. This is really dumb.

wow. you're not very good with foresight are you? if this attitude persists, look forward to extremely mediocre missionary sex with a maximum frequency of once a week, rapidly declining to once every other month by the time you're thirty. Also, since you're not looking to please, don't expect reciprocation ;).

Amen. If you don't want to give pleasure to your partner, you might as well find a hole in the wall, lube it up and start pounding away. You're not going to get very far with that attitude.
 

bolido2000

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I lost it when I was 20. Anyways...I don't understand the concept of "saving" ones virginity. I'm not condoning sleeping around, but once you find someone you think is worth making love to, then do it. Like other people said being sexually proficient is important. So practice is important :p. Besides, I don't think there are any virgins over 23 here in LA :p...at least I don't know of anyone and it would suck that when you get married you find out you are your wife are not sexually compatible. Sex is the number 2 cause of divorce in the US IIRC
 

CraigRT

Lifer
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Originally posted by: bolido2000
I lost it when I was 20. Anyways...I don't understand the concept of "saving" ones virginity. I'm not condoning sleeping around, but once you find someone you think is worth making love to, then do it. Like other people said being sexually proficient is important. So practice is important :p. Besides, I don't think there are any virgins over 23 here in LA :p...at least I don't know of anyone and it would suck that when you get married you find out you are your wife are not sexually compatible. Sex is the number 2 cause of divorce in the US IIRC

yeah kinda scary, that sucks... but i agree, don't save yourself (well, you CAN) but you kinda gotta have practice before getting married. IMHO!
 

DerwenArtos12

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Apr 7, 2003
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I was thirteen and with two chicks. I have to say though that it wasn't that great. Your first time is only special if you make it special. I was 13 and didn't realize the significance so it didn't really mean much to me.
 

Encryptic

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May 21, 2003
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Originally posted by: DerwenArtos12
I was thirteen and with two chicks. I have to say though that it wasn't that great. Your first time is only special if you make it special. I was 13 and didn't realize the significance so it didn't really mean much to me.

"Two chicks at the same time, man."

:D
 

Pers

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Jan 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Pers

um...you really have problems.

oh, sorry don't cry...
She is extremely hot...there's no lie there. What would be the point of elaborating tht besides making myself seem like a prick in front of a sea of nerds. Yay my internet penis just grew 2 inches cause some random idiot is convinced a hot girl asked me for sex!.

And about the "how do you know part" how do i know what?? please elaborate

Elaborate? you obviously didn't actually have any hot girl ask you anything or you would know even if she was a dog you'd have about 1000 points you could elaborate on. Face it chump, there was never a girl and you are a virgin by fate, not choice.


Lastly, you made it seem like you were bangin chicks left and right. As if you had enough experience to have had fathers come after you - you had them arrested, yet the same night the chick called your handsome a$$ back. It was appropriate for me to assume you weren't a virgin. Anyway, quit watching so many damn movies... and get a little "experience" of your own.

While you're at it... get a life.

Well actually twice father's tried to be the 'man' (much like you ya silly twit) and once I let it slide with me shoving him back (as her mother jumped in front of me, of course he hit me at first from behind as I was leaving....I later married this girl), the second was when the girl was 26 and we announced at a dinner we were getting our own place, he backhanded her out of her chair into a semi-stupor and then we proceeded to dance around their house damaging about 50% of it. Cops came to that function and he tried to hit the 'fVkin' nigg@ cop' in his house
rolleye.gif
, he was a really nice guy...all religious too....as a matter of fact on was a minister, the other went to church each sunday and was president of the Police whatever league in my area. The second girl became yet another ex-fiancee after every function turned out 'why was my dad the Vice President and her mom a clerk?' 'why did my dad have a boat twice the size of his?' 'why did my parents need a house 3 times the size of theirs?' .... etc.....etc ......etc. My dad was her mom's boss....her mom gave me her phone number. So it was doomed from the beginning....supposedly someone told me the day she moved out on me was because her father came over and demanded it, then started packing her crap himself.

Now my life only seems a movie to a child like yourself that truly hasn't lived.

My life is fine, I am having a beer reading this while I get paid. oh well try again.....yes, I'd like fries with that, thanks for asking.

ok...for the sake of ending this argument w/ you...she resembled a dog (probably same as your wife judging from how bitter you are). Are you happy now? It's funny how you make it seem like i'm the child, when you're acting like a complete a$$.

for the rest of your "blah blah my internet dick is huge" post....congrats.

You're right, i'm sorry - you did live up to the hype you originally talked about. Many men hate you...and you should feel proud about that. You should also feel proud that you and your wife put true meaning behind the "doggy style" position.


and i think it's quite evident from the incoherency of your posts that you're drinking beer while posting. There goes another half inch.
 

DerwenArtos12

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Apr 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: DerwenArtos12
I was thirteen and with two chicks. I have to say though that it wasn't that great. Your first time is only special if you make it special. I was 13 and didn't realize the significance so it didn't really mean much to me.

"Two chicks at the same time, man."

:D

Yeah I only now realize now how lucky I was right from the begining. The extremely Lucky part is that I have had the pleasure of continuing this(these) relationship(s). I hate to start any kind of flamefests but polyamory is just the way it should be, for me anyway. And for any of you who do want to flame me about the disgusting nature of my relationships please don't as I have heard it before and I really hope that this can be accepted as a valid life choice. I can understand that some belief systems find this wrong but please. I understand your point of view so please respect mine.

EDIT: to save time I will just post pics withut you having to ask.
Me, Nicki(bottom) and Kaylea(Top)
Ophelia
Me
 

LongCoolMother

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
I am a long way from being a virgin.

It really doesn't matter when as much as long as you are comfortable with it.

If you don't want to be a virgin you need to get out and keep trying until you succeed.

Also a lot of guys are lying at 15-18 about sex and conquests....there are a lot of non-virgins definitely, but also a lot of liers ;).

I also take those that are virgins and talk about all the 'hoes' they turned down with a grain of salt. Hearing the other side a few times had the girl thinking the guy was either scared or gay and there was no 'turning down'...it was more of a 'giving up' by the female.

I have turned down sex though a few times as a virgin and as a non-virgin a lot more.

according to your own advice, we should not believe you.
 

Pers

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Originally posted by: LongCoolMother
Originally posted by: alkemyst
I am a long way from being a virgin.

It really doesn't matter when as much as long as you are comfortable with it.

If you don't want to be a virgin you need to get out and keep trying until you succeed.

Also a lot of guys are lying at 15-18 about sex and conquests....there are a lot of non-virgins definitely, but also a lot of liers ;).

I also take those that are virgins and talk about all the 'hoes' they turned down with a grain of salt. Hearing the other side a few times had the girl thinking the guy was either scared or gay and there was no 'turning down'...it was more of a 'giving up' by the female.

I have turned down sex though a few times as a virgin and as a non-virgin a lot more.

according to your own advice, we should not believe you.


leave him alone...he's just an ugly man who's probably never even had a g/f. His only sexual experiences result from prostitution.
 

DerwenArtos12

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Originally posted by: Pers
Originally posted by: LongCoolMother
Originally posted by: alkemyst
I am a long way from being a virgin.

It really doesn't matter when as much as long as you are comfortable with it.

If you don't want to be a virgin you need to get out and keep trying until you succeed.

Also a lot of guys are lying at 15-18 about sex and conquests....there are a lot of non-virgins definitely, but also a lot of liers ;).

I also take those that are virgins and talk about all the 'hoes' they turned down with a grain of salt. Hearing the other side a few times had the girl thinking the guy was either scared or gay and there was no 'turning down'...it was more of a 'giving up' by the female.

I have turned down sex though a few times as a virgin and as a non-virgin a lot more.

according to your own advice, we should not believe you.


leave him alone...he's just an ugly man who's probably never even had a g/f. His only sexual experiences result from prostitution.

On the topic of Prostitution has anyone heard of the latest arrests in Phoenix, AZ? This is rediculous, they made over 50 arrests about prostitution and there have been five murders in the last month.
 

Siddhartha

Lifer
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Originally posted by: illusion88
Well?

I'm 18. And I know that its acceptable to be an 18 year old virgin. But I look at my friends, and the majority of them lost it when they were 15-17. Me and one other guy are the only people I see at a regular basis (my friends) that are still virgins. I feel like I am the only virgin. Before you flame me for that comment, I know I am not, but with my promiscuous friends, it sure feels that way.


EDIT: fixed my spelling. I attended public schools... :(

What?

 

alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: LongCoolMother
Originally posted by: alkemyst
I am a long way from being a virgin.

It really doesn't matter when as much as long as you are comfortable with it.

If you don't want to be a virgin you need to get out and keep trying until you succeed.

Also a lot of guys are lying at 15-18 about sex and conquests....there are a lot of non-virgins definitely, but also a lot of liers ;).

I also take those that are virgins and talk about all the 'hoes' they turned down with a grain of salt. Hearing the other side a few times had the girl thinking the guy was either scared or gay and there was no 'turning down'...it was more of a 'giving up' by the female.

I have turned down sex though a few times as a virgin and as a non-virgin a lot more.

according to your own advice, we should not believe you.

See we have at least one smart one here....I didn't elaborate though....some of the women I turned down in the beginning was due to the fact I knew they had far more experience than me and I was nervous (weinie no workee) so it was 'desided' for me....however, it had nothing to do with saving myself and I am willing to bet most that 'are saving' themselves either are scared or have not had the opportunity yet. And I take a lot of guys stories with a grain of salt also since almost anyone they see at a bar that even got within 10 feet of them they could tell they wanted to do them, but either could not work their way through the crowd, got swooshed away by their friends, had work early the next day, got the number but lost it, wrote the number down wrong, etc. I have one friend who I think was a virgin until about 26 or 27....whereever we went he'd absolutely get no action....not even a dance without the girl switching partners or leaving the floor, yet any time he was out alone he'd have three-some, meet models, even get 'autographs' from famous women
rolleye.gif
(the famous ones always 'wished' they could spend more time with him but had to fly back to milan, or new york, or paris...he never had much to say when we'd ask why didn't they give him their number, not like they'd never be back in Palm Beach).

 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Pers


leave him alone...he's just an ugly man who's probably never even had a g/f. His only sexual experiences result from prostitution.

Never was with a prostitute, messed around with some strippers at a party once though (for free...any stripper that charges for 'fun' is a prostitute).

You can do some searches through the forums and get pics of me....beauty is in the eyes of the beholder of course, but I am quite a favorite of women and men alike (I have been hit on by guys, and have had girlfriends I have hung out with been asked). I am not homosexual though, and they do not cause me any discomfort to be around, actually I get along with homosexual guys usually better than straight males.

However I will make it EASY for you CLICK HERE

You really don't want to go there....I am probably smarter than you, stronger than you, and better looking than you.