soulcougher: I have read P&N for a long time now. I post some, but mostly i read and listen to the political hacks on both sides in here.
M: Being truthful to your feelings and stating them flat out is very good, in a therapeutic environment. Here, however, not all take in criticism easily, that is to say that folk who are already feeling angry as you describe, get even more angry when called hacks. Maybe partisans would be somewhat less confrontational. I say this because, naturally, you yourself don't want to become part of the problem. And I have to apologize for myself, too, because you too seem angry and I have begun by pointing out what I would say is a mistake. But since you are seeking the light, I am sure you will take it in stride.
s: Pretty much every post is here is negative and mostly rightfully so, but everyone seems angry at the world or the US in particular.
M: Here you somewhat recover your good graces by saying folk are right to be angry and that is good, but it isn't true, sadly.
To be angry in a therapeutic environment IS good but it isn't good out in the world.
And it isn't therefore good to support other people's rage, therefore, either.
s: I am 37 and have seen a lot change in my years here in the US, and for the worse in my opinion. Here are some of the bigger issues of late:
M: OK here we go>
s
- Illegal immigration is out of control. If you are not here to assimilate into our culture but instead are here to exploit it and send money back to your home country then leave.
M: The wages paid are usually less than would be paid to legals, so employers benefit, families distant benefit, and money stimulates those countries who then can buy from us returning the money with interest. Everybody goes where the opportunities are. It's quite natural. You would too.
So Americans are schizophrenic over immigration and we like it that way. It helps us feel helpless and divided.
s: The war on terror seems it is going to be an ongoing affair, probably forever at this point.
M: Lots of money in terror and lots of ways to use it to get elected
We are afraid of the world and we like it that way. It helps us feel our fear.
s: Corporate America buying politicians to get there agenda across all so someones stock can go up a quarter point.
M: We live on the edge for the excitement. We are emotionally dead and need it.
s: Outsourcing of jobs is destroying the middle and lower class in America.
M: Are you beginning to see a death wish? It is very obvious to me.
s: PC has run amuck. Call a spade a spade and get on with it. Stop with the coddling of the people who get butt hurt of every little word.
M: Wouldn't want anybody to feel anything.
s: Is there such a thing as an honest politician anymore? They all seem to say what you either want to hear or what they need to get elected and then never follow through on those promises.
M: That is exactly how we like it. Notice yet that what is is a reflection of who we are? But keep it quiet. We are pretending to be otherwise.
s: Unions that are too powerful with big contracts with the gubment. I have no problems with unions in general but they too can amass too much power.
M: Mommy Sally and Bill are picking on me. They have too much power.
Mommy, we had to pick on Bob because he's stronger than either of us.
s: Losing civil liberties slowly to things like the Patriot Act.
M: We can't feel what we feel so it is a small loss. We live in emotional prison, physical prison is a minor issue.
s: Our national debt is ridiculous and most likely will never be under control again. Same goes for many states now.
M: We need because we can't feel. Got to get gratification somewhere.
s: Health care system is a joke anyway you spin it. I dont know the overall solution to this wether is be UHC or what not. But something needs to change and fast.
M: It keeps us stirred up so it feels like we have feelings.
s: Helicopter parenting and parents being the childs friend instead of a parent. Everyones a winner bullshit mentality needs to stop. You can become their friend when they are an adult, until then be a parent and teacher.
M: All the assholes who created this world had parents like that. Parents just need to be real which means they need to feel.
s: Seems a lot of people are not proud to be American anymore. I know i have my days where i just want to run off to some nice insignificant country and live in peace away from all this crap the world has turned into.
M: I know. We are angry but we don't want to know what we are angry about and the tension is so painful we want to run away. But running away is winning even though we don't go anywhere.
s: Personal responsibility and accountability. What is that you might ask? LOL
M: An impossibility when you don't know what you feel. Folk who are asleep to their emotions have no free will.
s: I know that is a lot of rambling and im not the best writer when trying to get some points across. It is more a hodge podge or ideas all across the board.
M: We are all afraid we aren't good at things and will be criticized because we don't know we feel that way already.
s: So are you happy with America or does this country piss you off most of the time and you feel powerless to stop its eventual demise?
M: I am powerless to stop its demise. It is what we want unconsciously and you can't stop fools who are hell bent on self destruction and will kill you if you told them.
s: What can be done to make this country great again?
M: That's easy. The nation should devote all its resources to helping folk learn to feel, to teach them they hate themselves because they were put down as children, and that everything they were taught about everything is a lie.
We are and always will be perfect. We just don't know it because we feel we are the worst in the world. To remember that, the childhood trauma, should be our goal, the very last thing on earth anybody will or wants to do. We simply will not rediscover there is nothing wrong with us because we are absolutely and deeply convinced we are worthless and evil. Catch 22 of cosmic proportions.
Love you.