I think a lot of people confuse the political changes stemming from 9/11 with those of the actual events. Just being in NYC right now, and listening to the Fire Department tapes on the local news is a very sobering experience. There was mass panic and chaos in the most industrial, commercial, and biggest city in the United States. For all of the infrastructure and training that the EMS, FD, and PD had -- even they were panicked and did not know what to do.
I just finished listening to all the audio tapes from the FD Dispatch on that day, as well as reading about 50 oral histories from the people who were there. I don't think about the politics of it, or the war on terror, or any of the false patriotism and crud that people are complaining about. I ignore that, because the focal point is what these people went through, the people that died, and how we were helpless on that day -- as a nation.
There's a lot of things that need to be addressed to prevent another disaster like this from happening again. Not just in securing the borders against terrorists (which I agree is a very sticky issue and political), but making sure our Emergency personnel are adequately equipped and trained. Even with all the Mass-Casualty training they had, 9/11 had them completely off-guard. Radio communications were not working properly, and much of the leadership was separated from the infrastructures of trucks, men, and equipment. A lot of Fire Chiefs died that day, and a lot more were unable to command their units because everything was chaos.
I'd prefer to ignore the politics of the situation, and instead focus on the loss of life, the emotional trauma, and what it taught us. It taught us that we were not prepared, but it also showed us that we had some real unselfish people that gave their lives to help others. That is what 9/11 showed me -- that even though we were caught off-guard, we did manage to respond, and many people lost their life in doing so.
I'd like to think that we can keep the P&N aspect of it in P&N, and keep the human part of it as the focus.
No, not every city and person has to have a parade or a ceremony, but you don't have to participate or pay attention to it if you don't want it. Much like some of the silly-ass media stories such as Scott Peterson, etc we get beat over the head with it, but you have to seperate the political and media part of it from the actual event.
I know that if I had lost a family member in 9/11 that I would want to remember them in every way possible. I have lost a family member in a mass casualty event before, and it really does change you. I've only spoken with one other victim's family, but it was short, and even then it was tough to talk about it. I can only truly relate about it with my family. However, it wasn't on the scale of 9/11 at all, and it certainly didn't change or terrorize the populace like 9/11 did. It was a life-changing, nation-altering, worlc-changing event, and to ignore the gravity of it is putting your head in the sand.
You don't have to fly a flag, or put a stick on your SUV. You don't have to do anything. I, for one, choose not to fly a flag or have any type of sticker. I just remember, and I look at the event and think of how it would have felt to have been there. That's all I can do.