anyone over 30 and never been on a date?

[russoxley187]

this thread is depressing...
no matter how ugly you are there still is someboddy out there for you...
for you WOW lovers, find a wow convention and go looking for chicks/dudes or both...(weirdos)

you never know

 

[smut]

At 30 its just too late for you man IMO, your prime years to hone and develop social/dating/etc skills have passed you by IMO! But there may still be hope if you grow some balls and have a little confidence, as others have said in previous posts, girls seem to like confidence.

I dont have any really good advice as I dont have problems like that, i'm not 30 living at home and I have had good luck with females since puberty hit lol so I cant really relate! But heres something you can try, go get some new clothes (even just a new outfit if you dont want to spend alot of money on clothes youll probably never even wear since you never get out of your Superman footy pajamas and leave the house). Dont get some clothes that people wore when you were in highschool, theyre way out of style by now. Get some nice new clothes, new and in fashion clothes, dont go pick up some wrangler jeans at kmart and a Smedium, extra tight size Spiderman tshirt at Walmart! If your not in the know, go to the Mall and find a nice clothes store and hunt down a female worker. She could probably help you find something nice that is in style and something that she likes. Chances are if she likes it, some other women may like it as well. That would definetely be a start, nice clothes is something that can make the difference between getting a number and getting the cold shoulder. Also make sure you have some nice shoes, believe it not, these days previous girlfriends and friends that are girls have said they hate a guy with nasty shoes on. Since you cant really change your face outside of plastic surgery, you can at least change your appearance and look nice clothes wise. Get a nice shower, shave up, put some cologne on and get a big stack of cash and go to the bar (or strip club so maybe you can at least see some real life titties before you die) and socialize and try to start conversations with some females. Some ppl have luck finding someone at a bar, if you get lucky she may have beer goggles and think you look like Brad Pitt. One thing could lead to another and then you can take one for the team and get your helmet wet if you catch my drift. Who cares if she doesnt want to see you again after sobering up in the morning, at least you can die saying you had wild drunk sex with a bar smut! But on the other hand, once you tell her you can go back to your PARENTS house to have sex because you still live at home she may go to the bathroom and never come back, sorry! Again, look nice, have some confidence and grow some balls. You may find someone, or maybe not. But its worth trying I guess if your 30 and never had a date.

 

[Jaylllo]

If the guy is 5' flat then he can't really date girls above his height. Anything past +3" is unlikely (I'd say 3" is a real stretch too). The social rule of thumb is the guy is supposed to be a head taller. A head is ~8" so his best chances are with 4'4" girls.

Now, I've never met a 4'4" girl, so the OP best bet is to find a girl that is
a) Domineering and likes to dominate guys
b) Wants a guy around the same height <--- best bet as a lot of girls are 5'
c) go to bride.ru

 

[bennylong]

Originally posted by: Jaylllo
If the guy is 5' flat then he can't really date girls above his height. Anything past +3" is unlikely (I'd say 3" is a real stretch too). The social rule of thumb is the guy is supposed to be a head taller. A head is ~8" so his best chances are with 4'4" girls.

Now, I've never met a 4'4" girl, so the OP best bet is to find a girl that is
a) Domineering and likes to dominate guys
b) Wants a guy around the same height <--- best bet as a lot of girls are 5'
c) go to bride.ru

well, this is getting more depressing by the minute

 

[InlineFour]

i think your only chance is to date a stripper.

 

[randay]

40 year old virgin was a funny movie.

 

[TanisHalfElven]

hey bride.ru is a nice site. and the girls seem really hot.
anyway i don't think finding a girl will be a very big problem. just find a really fat girl.

 

[newParadigm]

Originally posted by: Stumps
I have 2 friends that are 26yrs old and never even kissed a girl yet....mind you I can understand that...no self respecting girl/woman would want to go near them.

[eddie murphy]Dayum[/eddie murphy]. And I though I was low on the social totem pole. I make it a rule to abstain from sexual contact, but even I made out with a handful of girls in my younger days...

 

[bennylong]

so it seems like no woman don't want to date a man that has never dated a girl, so he can never get any experience.

A fat woman seem like my only option

 

[enyce2k9]

dude get a life and stop posting crap like this.

 

[T9D]

I'm 31 and my last date was last week with a 21 year old. My last girl friend before that was 21. If you have problems flirting in person try getting a myspace. Flirt with them on there first. Then meet up for a date or just hang out. If you use it right you'll get dates 🙂

 

[alimoalem]

Originally posted by: shoRunner
HAHAHAH...BAHAHAH

its probably for the best, you know that whole darwin thing.

that's messed up..

i didn't read through all this cause it's hella long but basically, listen to what y2kc i saying...it's really confidence, etc. and being happy with yourself that'll get you somewhere

 

[Stumps]

Originally posted by: bennylong
so it seems like no woman don't want to date a man that has never dated a girl, so he can never get any experience.

A fat woman seem like my only option

dude go for one with a tattoo....that why you will have shade in summer, warmth in winter and moving pictures all year round😀

 

[Jenova314]

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: bennylong

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
find a short asian girl.

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Tried that. Problem is, short asian women want to date tall white guy, not short asian guy like myself.

I know as many asian girl married to a white girl as asian girl married to an asian guy.

I love short asian girls, and I'm a tall white guy. 🙂

Sorry to rain on your parade..I'll leave you one or two 😛

not to rain on your parade but white guys *usually* date fugly asian girls.. the ones with so much makeup i could stick a pencil into their face and it would stay. now add onto that some exaggerated eyebrows, puffy lips, and you've got the making of something that may have been run over by a train by asian standards.

 

[smut]

Originally posted by: Jenova314

Originally posted by: RichardE

Originally posted by: bennylong

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
find a short asian girl.

[/thread]

Tried that. Problem is, short asian women want to date tall white guy, not short asian guy like myself.

I know as many asian girl married to a white girl as asian girl married to an asian guy.

I love short asian girls, and I'm a tall white guy. 🙂

Sorry to rain on your parade..I'll leave you one or two 😛

not to rain on your parade but white guys *usually* date fugly asian girls.. the ones with so much makeup i could stick a pencil into their face and it would stay. now add onto that some exaggerated eyebrows, puffy lips, and you've got the making of something that may have been run over by a train by asian standards.

"Usually" is hardly the word you should be using, Ive never seen the example you just talked about nor have I ever heard anyone say it either. Most "white guys" here would agree that we don't "usually" date "fugly asian girls". I've seen alot more asian guys with asian girls then white guys with fugly asian girls. Maybe your the white guy with a fugly asian girl so your trying to project yourself onto others, sort of how an in the closet gay guy will call others homo just to keep the attention off of himself, is that the case bro? 😀

Ive dated white, black, puerto rican girls (and a phillipino too which was h0t 😉) but never any "fugly asian girls", sorry. I do agree that asian girls and any race girl for that matter these days will put on four layers of caked up make up on there face. It looks like their face is melting if they get caught in the rain!

 

[randomlinh]

Originally posted by: Koing

Originally posted by: EKKC
i have a friend who's just turned 30 and never had a gf. i doubt he ever went out on a date too. he too still living with parents, but damn without a SO or a love life, is he a rich mofo, he bought the whole house all by himself. good man.

I'd rather have a mortgage and a SO hands down. £££ would be useless with my friends and a SO to share it with. I hardly spend any £££ on myself as it is as I'm comfortable with the stuff I have. Yes a flashy car would be nice but dam that house needs to be bought...

Koing

maybe he is content w/ having friends... and has a hooker on the side.

 

[bennylong]

I don't see too many white guys dating fugly asian girls either. Most of the asian girls I see with white girls are hot as hell.

Damn those race traitor asian girls!

 

[funboy6942]

Maybe you have your standards too set to high anbd obviosuly have yours too low.
One where is the pic of you so we can see if in deed the ugly short guy you say you are. 2 even if you think or feel your ugly stop thinking that way of yourself. Women can sense this from you and will stay away from you like a reversed magnet. # go get a make over. its not just for women and guys can get it too. They can make you look better and then find a style of clothing. After that STOP PUTTING YOURSELF DOWN. AND stop "looking". Once you do this you should start having girlfriends no problem.

 

[Jenova314]

Originally posted by: smut

"Usually" is hardly the word you should be using, Ive never seen the example you just talked about nor have I ever heard anyone say it either. Most "white guys" here would agree that we don't "usually" date "fugly asian girls". I've seen alot more asian guys with asian girls then white guys with fugly asian girls. Maybe your the white guy with a fugly asian girl so your trying to project yourself onto others, sort of how an in the closet gay guy will call others homo just to keep the attention off of himself, is that the case bro? 😀

i'm asian. so no, that's not the case 🙂 and i'd definitely put my gf far above "fugly"

Ive dated white, black, puerto rican girls (and a phillipino too which was h0t 😉) but never any "fugly asian girls", sorry. I do agree that asian girls and any race girl for that matter these days will put on four layers of caked up make up on there face. It looks like their face is melting if they get caught in the rain!

i can't say my repertoire is as diverse as yours, mine is limited to philippino and other "assorted" asians. however, here in the bay area, i've seen a disproportionate amount of white guys with the aforementioned asian girls. strangely enough, out-of-staters seem to fair a bit better (2 couples come to mind immediately). yet again, i've lived in st. louis before (god bless that cursed place) and the situation there isn't too favorable, either.

 

[MrMaster]

I'd like to go back to this poverty business.

1. you have a job so that brings in money
2. you have no girlfriend nor have ever been on a date so that saves TONS of money
3. you live with your parents so you have no rent or utility bills
4. I think you said you are 30? so that is 8 yrs post college of earnings?

well then WTF!!! I don't care if you are working in fast food, Get a roommate and find someplace cheap to live and start LIVING!

If I was a 30 yr old introvert-midget-hermit I would at least make sure I lived in a hut on a beach in key west or something. yikes

 

[TanisHalfElven]

Originally posted by: MrMaster
I'd like to go back to this poverty business.

1. you have a job so that brings in money
2. you have no girlfriend nor have ever been on a date so that saves TONS of money
3. you live with your parents so you have no rent or utility bills
4. I think you said you are 30? so that is 8 yrs post college of earnings?

well then WTF!!! I don't care if you are working in fast food, Get a roommate and find someplace cheap to live and start LIVING!

If I was a 30 yr old introvert-midget-hermit I would at least make sure I lived in a hut on a beach in key west or something. yikes

AND MASTER KAMEHAMEHA.
master yoshi FTW

 

[Remedy]

Originally posted by: MrMaster
I'd like to go back to this poverty business.

1. you have a job so that brings in money
2. you have no girlfriend nor have ever been on a date so that saves TONS of money
3. you live with your parents so you have no rent or utility bills
4. I think you said you are 30? so that is 8 yrs post college of earnings?

well then WTF!!! I don't care if you are working in fast food, Get a roommate and find someplace cheap to live and start LIVING!

If I was a 30 yr old introvert-midget-hermit I would at least make sure I lived in a hut on a beach in key west or something. yikes

1) Just because he has a job, doesn't mean he is bringing in ample amount of funds every week. If he has an outstanding credit debt, then believe that it becomes a handicap to his everyday living.

2)Not having a GF would probably indicate that most people have HOBBIES. Hobbies are and will always be an investment. Whether it is Playing WoW or building Model train sets, etc.

3)How do you know whether or not he pays rent without seeing a CoO(Cert of Occupancy)?

4) So what? If he majored into a sinking market(liberal arts), then he more than likely has to start a new career by going back for a different degree or just Adult continuing education.

I swear some people have no concept of today's living standards in United states at all or have any understanding of dating standards.

90% of innercity Women are attracted to Guys for materialism. Ever wonder why so many guys hook (mod) their cars up (Honda, Subaru,Escalade,etc) with fancy accessories? They aren't doing it to impress the next guy. It's for the opposite sex.

The whole "Confidence" advise is pretty much outdated. You can be a confident pervert or confident overweight male or confident with Acne. That doesn't mean anything. At the end of the day, it's more about How much money you have or what kind of vehicle you drive.

Although, I don't speak for every ethnic background available. I can speak on my day to day observations and also speak based on the fact I'm in a similar situation of the OP. I don't make alot of money and I'm still finishing school and women for some odd reason Do Not speak at all. It's almost as if you're transparent to them when there is no materialism involved. But, I'm only 26. Just my observation and opinion.

 

[CellarDoor]

Originally posted by: bennylong
I don't see too many white guys dating fugly asian girls either. Most of the asian girls I see with white girls are hot as hell.

Damn those race traitor asian girls!

Pics?

 

[bennylong]

Like the other posters said, my cost of living is a lot different from yours. I do pay rent to my parents, $700 a month, so I'm not living rent free. I can move out and pay $1400 for a crappy studio in a ghetto neighborhood where I would end up getting shot or do what most people do in San Francisco, live with 3 other roommates. No thank you!

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: Xanis
I hope to God that you're joking.