JM Aggie08
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That sucks, man. Do you have a good job or are your just free loading off your parents? Good job and money means security to woman, and if you are a nice guy, even if you are bufugly, some girls will dig you, if you get out there and ask.
If you are just freeloading though, /yourself or leave your folks and try to better yourself.
It is called, girls want a guy who is comfortable with himself, someone who is self-dependant, and not always clinging onto them for answers.
One, either you need to get out there and actually talk to girls be confident, or two, you need to lower your standards in one category and raise your standards in another (Shallow Hal). If you only go for shallow hot girls and you don't have anything shallow to offer them, they will reject you without even thinking about it.
From what I have heard, yes, size does matter. No matter what the girl says to the contrary (to not hurt your feelings). But you can always do other things as long as you are honest with yourself and her and willing to work at stuff. But that all happens at marriage.
From the looks of it, my avg rate of posting isnt any higher than yours.
And you still have no idea what you're talking about...what you look like is the last thing 90% of girls care about.
Yes, I work full time and I have an above average income. The problem is I live in CA so money doesn't stretch too far. I would have to live paycheck to paycheck if I moved out.
I think my problem is that I'm too shallow. I need to stop watching porn and think everyone woman should look like a porn star naked.
The expression "get out more" should apply here.
FYI, I'm 32 and very short at 5'4". I been on many dates. None of them really panned out, but that's beside the point. Forget about your personality flaws or how ugly you think you are. Just get out more. Make new friends: guys and gals. Network.
Don't feel embarrassed to go out to bars and nightclubs. Alcohol is your friend. It will help get you laid. The best sex I had was with this 22 y/o knockout who was drunk enough to let her inhibitions to the wind. I was the first guy that grinded her on the dance floor that night and didn't let up. I was at the right place, at the right time. It doesn't happen often, in fact it is a rare occurence. But if you don't get out, nothing can happen. You can be ugly, geeky, short, and etc, but as the saying goes, "every dog has his day".
FYI, I'm 32 and very short at 5'4". I been on many dates. None of them really panned out, but that's beside the point. Forget about your personality flaws or how ugly you think you are. Just get out more. Make new friends: guys and gals. Network.
Don't feel embarrassed to go out to bars and nightclubs. Alcohol is your friend. It will help get you laid. The best sex I had was with this 22 y/o knockout who was drunk enough to let her inhibitions to the wind. I was the first guy that grinded her on the dance floor that night and didn't let up. I was at the right place, at the right time. It doesn't happen often, in fact it is a rare occurence. But if you don't get out, nothing can happen. You can be ugly, geeky, short, and etc, but as the saying goes, "every dog has his day".
Koing
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I'd rather have a mortgage and a SO hands down. £££ would be useless with my friends and a SO to share it with. I hardly spend any £££ on myself as it is as I'm comfortable with the stuff I have. Yes a flashy car would be nice but dam that house needs to be bought...
Koing
Koing
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Post count means f0ck all. My PPD isn't that high and I'm good with girls.
You just have to be confident and charming. Don't be scared to talk to them and just make chit chat. Yes if you dress sharper and have a nice 'look' about you (hair cut, clothes, glasses) it can help but ultimately if you can't talk to them your f0cked. If your funny that is a huge bonus as every girls loves laugh.
Apprently in a study you have 15seconds to make your impression. Most girls make a decision to date you within 15seconds of meeting you.
Koing
Eh, I dunno about 15 seconds. But all it takes is confidence, from which all other desirable traits stem, such as charm, honesty, humor, etc.
If you think you need abs and nice clothes to get girls, you sorely lack the one thing you need.
Having a shred of personality and humanity would be a good start. Being able to spell and using the absolute bare minimum of proper grammar and syntax certainly doesn't hurt either.
If you just want to nail ditzy girls that would fall for a douche like inveterate, prostitutes are probably cheaper.
And I'd certainly help the OP, if I actually believed him, and if I actually thought it'd go somewhere....god knows I've tried and succeeded doing such in the past, only to have it fall flat on his face because he screwed it up soon thereafter.
there's your problem right there!
btw if your short that doesn't matter. go to the gym instead of WOW. beef up. no body like fat ppl. most ppl will think your hot if you have confindence, and lots of muscle.
ask again when im 30(5/12/17) i hope not but with my current level of motivation it could take a while
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