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anyone over 30 and never been on a date?
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Koing
Elite Member <br> Super Moderator<br> Health and F
Some guys need more confidence and balls period.
Just be a bit cocky/ arrogant but really don't take yourself too seriously at all and joke about yourself. Well unless you are that much of an arrogant f0cker 😛. Girls dig it.
GET DOWN TO THE DAM GYM. Take up a DANCE CLASS. Go to SALSA or something along those lines. LOADS of girls go down to dance class. There is normally a shortage of guys going and you will dance with a lot of girls. You work on a few things:
a) you meet some girls ffs
b) you get some decent exercise
c) all girls dig the fact that a guy can dance PERIOD
It isn't too hard. Just ease up a bit and give the dance thing a try.
BTW what were you guys doing in your 20's after your studies to not meet girls? Or just that much bad luck?
What do your mates do? Go out with them. See if they can hook you up on dates?
A mates wife hooked up this guy and he was married within 12months! His wife is good looking and he never dated until he met her. He does have quite a bit of £££ though, and they have been married for 5yrs now.
Koing
Just be a bit cocky/ arrogant but really don't take yourself too seriously at all and joke about yourself. Well unless you are that much of an arrogant f0cker 😛. Girls dig it.
GET DOWN TO THE DAM GYM. Take up a DANCE CLASS. Go to SALSA or something along those lines. LOADS of girls go down to dance class. There is normally a shortage of guys going and you will dance with a lot of girls. You work on a few things:
a) you meet some girls ffs
b) you get some decent exercise
c) all girls dig the fact that a guy can dance PERIOD
It isn't too hard. Just ease up a bit and give the dance thing a try.
BTW what were you guys doing in your 20's after your studies to not meet girls? Or just that much bad luck?
What do your mates do? Go out with them. See if they can hook you up on dates?
A mates wife hooked up this guy and he was married within 12months! His wife is good looking and he never dated until he met her. He does have quite a bit of £££ though, and they have been married for 5yrs now.
Koing
SilentZero
Diamond Member
Yeah..it was just passed recently. I think they are trying to throw me out of the alliance because of it. AverageNewbie and the virgin squad hate me cause because of it.
SilentZero
Diamond Member
No thats actually wrong. Its 3 years...and yes...Chiboy still applies (unless fat girls count). :laugh:
zephyrprime
Diamond Member
It's super easy not to meet girls. I don't have to do anything to not meet chicks. That's the problem I suppose. In fact, I really want to know the opposite: how the heck do you meet any girls after your school years?
Basically, my social life is in the crapper. My life if basically just work, come home, do some chores, check the investment, rinse repeat. All my friends have moved away, stopped talking to me for unknown reasons, or gotten married at which point they seem to drop out of the human race.
By the way, I do work out. I also did try some dance club events back in college but that never led to anything.
FrancesBeansRevenge
Platinum Member
I really enjoyed this thread. It made me feel like such a ladies man and that's a hard thing to do. 🙂
I used to have the same problem, although I could score once in awhile, but I went through most of high school and my early 20's with not getting too much.
Then I moved away from my home town and my friends and found out what the problem was....it wasn't me at all, it was my friends that were scaring the girls away(read earlier posts on pg2/3).
I should have picked this up along time ago because all the time I did hook up with a girl, none of my friends were with me, I was usually out of town or they had ditched me to go and do something stupid...as soon as they left chicks would talk to me and I could usually pick up with out too much trouble, I always put it down to dumb luck.
But when I was 21 I left my home town(Temora, pop 4600, 400km's west off Sydney) to move to Sydney to start a new job and I was living by myself and none of my friends were about I was able to pick up a girl nearly every week, it was crazy at one point my current GF was fighting with other girls over me it was damn crazy.
I figured it out when I took my GF to visit my family and friends and her disgusted response to my friends (it went something like this "ugh good god, you hung out with losers like these")gave it away.
Now I doubt that I would have any problem replacing my GF should we break up, when I go to a pub or club I just either go alone or when I see a girl that looks like she has the goods I just ditch my friends before she see's them.
Strange but true
Then I moved away from my home town and my friends and found out what the problem was....it wasn't me at all, it was my friends that were scaring the girls away(read earlier posts on pg2/3).
I should have picked this up along time ago because all the time I did hook up with a girl, none of my friends were with me, I was usually out of town or they had ditched me to go and do something stupid...as soon as they left chicks would talk to me and I could usually pick up with out too much trouble, I always put it down to dumb luck.
But when I was 21 I left my home town(Temora, pop 4600, 400km's west off Sydney) to move to Sydney to start a new job and I was living by myself and none of my friends were about I was able to pick up a girl nearly every week, it was crazy at one point my current GF was fighting with other girls over me it was damn crazy.
I figured it out when I took my GF to visit my family and friends and her disgusted response to my friends (it went something like this "ugh good god, you hung out with losers like these")gave it away.
Now I doubt that I would have any problem replacing my GF should we break up, when I go to a pub or club I just either go alone or when I see a girl that looks like she has the goods I just ditch my friends before she see's them.
Strange but true
FrancesBeansRevenge
Platinum Member
I've been married almost 8 years. I had a few girlfriends before getting married and a little petting, touching, playful action in those relationships but my wife is the first and only woman I've ever slept with.
And I often find that I am feeling sorry for myself for that fact.
You know, only having had tasted one type of cheese when there are so many varities out there! 😛
This thread offers a little perspective to my foolish 'complaints'. 🙂
It doesn't help I work near one of the finest and most famous brothels (legal here) in the world and have often seen the incredibly beautiful women working there... I mean coming and going... I haven't actually been in there I swear. 😀
http://www.dailyplanet.com.au/
I've been in there quite a few times in my imagination though.... ehehehe
I have some friends that seem headed there..well I suppose that they have been out on dates, mostly arranged by our fraternity (nice and attractive girls that always hung around, and of course wanted to go to our date nights)
as for me, I'm no ladies man either, and was feeling slightly sorry for myself for being by myself on a saturday night (working at a summer internship far from home), but at least i've had a couple of girlfriends in the last year..it will be interesting once i move to atlanta for grad school..hopefully I'll have some luck
as for me, I'm no ladies man either, and was feeling slightly sorry for myself for being by myself on a saturday night (working at a summer internship far from home), but at least i've had a couple of girlfriends in the last year..it will be interesting once i move to atlanta for grad school..hopefully I'll have some luck
Don't try to get a date with a cop this way:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060714/ap_on_fe_st/911_love
""Honey, I'm just going to be honest with you, OK? I just thought he was cute. I'm 45 years old and I'd just like to meet him again, but I don't know how to go about doing that without calling 911," she said.
"I know this is absolutely not in any way, shape or form an emergency, but if you would give the officer my phone number and ask him to come back, would you mind?"
The deputy returned, verified that there was no emergency and arrested her for misusing the 911 system, an offense punishable by a fine of up to several thousand dollars and a year in jail."
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060714/ap_on_fe_st/911_love
""Honey, I'm just going to be honest with you, OK? I just thought he was cute. I'm 45 years old and I'd just like to meet him again, but I don't know how to go about doing that without calling 911," she said.
"I know this is absolutely not in any way, shape or form an emergency, but if you would give the officer my phone number and ask him to come back, would you mind?"
The deputy returned, verified that there was no emergency and arrested her for misusing the 911 system, an offense punishable by a fine of up to several thousand dollars and a year in jail."
Hey buddy, it's your attitude and confidence.
I know a number of shorter Italian men who are married to women who are taller than them. I'd say they are around 5' give or take an inch or two. SHORT guys. Though I have sympathy for you, just know there are other ways, or other things that people look at rather than your appearance.
Also, instead of just trying to DATE them, just try being their friends, just genuinely getting to know people as just that. Then you have something to work with...IF not your looks, at least they will like your heart, or personality.
best wishes.
I know a number of shorter Italian men who are married to women who are taller than them. I'd say they are around 5' give or take an inch or two. SHORT guys. Though I have sympathy for you, just know there are other ways, or other things that people look at rather than your appearance.
Also, instead of just trying to DATE them, just try being their friends, just genuinely getting to know people as just that. Then you have something to work with...IF not your looks, at least they will like your heart, or personality.
best wishes.
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