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Anyone here grow up in a family where people worked out?

MrMatt

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I was thinking the other day; we hear so much about fat parents raising fat kids, but we never hear stories about families that are in great shape and help their kids live a healthier life. Anyone come from a family like this?

My dad bounced around for a while deciding what he wanted to be. First he wanted to be a runner, then he decided since he liked squatting so much he'd just be a bodybuilder of some type. He could never pick a routine & stick to it for more than a few weeks, and his gains were limited, but for his size he was strong. We were dirt poor when I was young, and as such a gym membership was out of the question. But my dad got a weight set, bench, and rack from friends/yard sales. He then built a cable machine in our basement. He threaded the cable through holes he drilled in the support beams of the basement rafters, then through a system of pulleys used the plates he had bought as the weight stack, tied to the cable hanging down. My mom hated it (she called it the Bozoflex),the house would shake when he would use it and our cats would scream. But looking back it was fairly ingenious.

On my mom's part, she gradually gained weight until I was about 10 years old, and decided that she needed to lose some weight. She stopped drinking soda, cut out what little junk food she was eating, and started walking 3 miles per day, every day, and dropped one pound per week for over a year until she was back down to the weight she was before I was born.

In retrospect I'm really glad I came from a family like this. I was never fed junk food, never once drank soda, juicy juice or any of that horse-shit. I can't even sip that shit now without wanting to vomit. Plus I always got plenty of fruits & veggies, and lean cuts of meat. Anyway, I never said thanks to them for any of this, until now. I just wanted to post something positive since all we hear in the media is about how awful families feed their kids now a days, and the sedentary environment they're raised in. To this day my dad still always asks about my progress in the gym, and always makes sure I still squat or deadlift regularly.
 
That's great to hear. Very ingenious with the "bozoflex" lol. I truly believe that when physical activity is part of your childhood, it's much easier to stay fit when you're an adult.

I come from a pretty fit family. My Dad was a varsity runner during the early 70s and was Canada West champion in the 1500m one year. He's been running now for over 40 years (although much less now than he used to), and is regularly with a trainer 3 times a week to do core strength and weight training.

He volunteered with my soccer and baseball teams growing up, and he introduced me to running when I was 14.

My mom consistently went to aerobics/step class and went walking and biking as I was growing up. She now runs regularly as well. Kudos to her for preparing healthy meals and helping us develop good eating habits.

My brother played hockey growing up and is now into golf (2 handicap) and works as a personal trainer. He does cross-fit type workouts regularly.

My cousins are quite active also - one is a speed skater and three are varsity field hockey players (influenced by my uncle, who played on the Canadian national team in the late 70s).

I regularly ask my parents and my brother how their workouts are going, and they ask me how my running is progressing.
 
Nope. My dad used to be active before I was born, running every single day (or so he says). However, by the time I was one year old he already had a small gut as evidenced by the family photos. Right now my mom is overweight, she weighs only almost as much as I do, keep in mind though that right now I'm probably underweight for my height. My dad is seriously overweight, I would say even borderline obese. Through my entire life my dad always pushed me to exercise, but as far as I can remember he never did himself.

Over the last 5-7 or so years I've grown fat. I do not blame my parents for this, it was entirely my fault. I just was depressed and completely gave up exercise. Since about a year ago (there is actually a thread about it here at H&F with me asking for help) I've lost most of the fat I've gained, I started exercising more at home, and I hope to continue it to get in an even better shape. At the very least I want to be able to do muscle ups on rings like I used to when I was a teenager.

My dad has been going to gym during his lunch hour at work. However, he has not lost any weight because he still eats wrong. I've been pushing him to eat healthier, but to no avail. In the last month my mom also started some light exercise, but she is doing it wrong and she doesn't want to listen to my advice... Sadly, I don't think she is going to keep it up for much longer.
 
I have one very old memory of my dad running in a road race. Short shorts, singlet, headband and all. But other than that, I hardly knew my parents to exercise for the sake of exercise while I was young. My dad did play a lot of baseball and hockey with us at home. But they also did a terrific job of supporting us kids playing sports. Until the end of high school I was always on a team of some sort, soccer, baseball, volleyball, etc.

A couple of years ago, my dad started to take up running to get in shape. He didn't have too much weight to lose, but he was getting more seriously into reffing soccer and wanted more endurance. I had been less active towards the end of university and was always a terrible runner so it didn't take long before he could run circles around me. Only recently have I caught up to him. My mom eventually joined him in running and has been just incredible. I had literally never seen her run before, but in under a year, she did a half marathon in 2:09, which just impresses me so much.

I run with my parents a couple times a month now talk with them about the rest of our runs by email. It's fantastic motivation and something that I don't think would have been the same when I was a kid. Even though I have the advantage of being much younger, we're still all adults with desk jobs who need to exercise to stay healthy 😛
 
My mom eventually joined him in running and has been just incredible. I had literally never seen her run before, but in under a year, she did a half marathon in 2:09, which just impresses me so much.

:thumbsup: For your mom. My mom runs with a few of her friends and just enjoys the social aspect of it. She's been around 1:10 for the 10k for a number of years now and I occasionally ask her if she has any plans to move up to the 1/2 marathon or lower her 10k time (which I'm sure she could easily do). She says she's just happy to keep on running so I'm glad she's enjoying it.
 
When my dad ws about 3-5yrs younger we would all compete in push up contests and jumping competitions between 3 brothers and my father. We still do it on occasion for sh!ts and giggles. My dad has never worked out in a gym but my 2 brothers and I both compete in Olympic weightlifting. The youngest one doesn't do any after school sports besides lifting. My middle bro and I did alot of sports after school as well as lifting when we were 14/15.

My mum swims 2-3x a week.

Koing
 
My parents never exercised, I think they felt they were too good for it. Both are quite overweight. My dad would do walks and walk to work but nothing beyond that. We once bought a bike for my mother and let's just say she was no Lance Armstrong. Her cardiovascular fitness is almost impossibly poor. I remember we went on vacation once and we had to climb a very mild hill. At the top she was wheezing like her lungs were full of water. But this is where they came from; nobody in their past or history or circle ever were involved physically in anything, and to their detriment.

My older brother got intensely into exercise as a teenager and it impacted me positively to some degree. The worst thing my parents did for me health wise was buying me an awful lot of junk food. I was a pudgy kid as were my brothers because my parents were unable to say no and yes I do blame them in part for my love of trash and sweet things and eating well beyond the point of cessation because it was a habit I grew over literally half my life. My kids see me and Mrs workout a lot. I think it will be good for them.
 
My family has always been slightly overweight but active. Hiking, cycling and swimming were very common activities and all three of us kids played sports through high school. Since then I've gotten to be a lot like my father, regular exercise but poor eating habits (beer, pop, seconds at every meal). When I control that aspect of my behavior I lose weight. I'm very happy that I grew up active and love to exercise but I've got to get my eating under control.

Now that I have kids I have been thinking about this alot because while I work out 4+/week my wife never exercises anymore and all my workouts are outside the house. I wonder what this does to my kids. I'm trying to make sure I take them outside when I get home from work every day but that's not always possible. I'll certainly be pushing them to play sports, if nothing else they become a great social activity latter in life.
 
My family has always been slightly overweight but active. Hiking, cycling and swimming were very common activities and all three of us kids played sports through high school. Since then I've gotten to be a lot like my father, regular exercise but poor eating habits (beer, pop, seconds at every meal). When I control that aspect of my behavior I lose weight. I'm very happy that I grew up active and love to exercise but I've got to get my eating under control.

Now that I have kids I have been thinking about this alot because while I work out 4+/week my wife never exercises anymore and all my workouts are outside the house. I wonder what this does to my kids. I'm trying to make sure I take them outside when I get home from work every day but that's not always possible. I'll certainly be pushing them to play sports, if nothing else they become a great social activity latter in life.
What it does is they probably eat like you and the cycle will continue, this is fairly easily predicted. What does your wife think about it; do you talk about it? I have had to control certain things just because of my kids, too. It kind of sucks but I don't want them honking down on cookies and junk just because I want to. I've already gone through child hood as a chunker. I don't want them to have to as well!
 
Both of my parents are relatively in shape (both maintained their "shape" their whole lives). They are both in their 70's now. My Dad has picked up going to a local "old persons" gym since retiring. My mom is outside or at the mountain house every day gardening or doing some project. She also walks regularly (used to be every day...but cut back when our family dog passed).

My Mom/Dad always had us playing in some kind of sport (Ice Hockey, Soccer, Basketball, Baseball, Swimming, Volleyball, etc) and my dad would regularly play with us on the weekends. My mom made all of the kids go on walks with her (2-4 miles through the local state park) every weekday that it wasn't raining/snowing during the school year.

All of my sisters (I have 5) were athletic and played sports all the way through high school...a couple of them played through college (Tennis). All 5 run regularly and we usually do at least one half-marathon+ run a year with each other.

To top that all off, my mom is a health nut and has been preaching the same rhetoric for the last 35 years that nutritionists have been pushing lately. Less processing and very low amounts sugar/empty carbs. Lots of whole grains and quality meat/fish. Lots of fruits and vegetables. Just water and milk to drink. She has always had a huge, organic garden that a large portion of our fruits and vegetables came from during the summer.

So there are some people who have had good parental influence. I hope to do the same for my children.
 
No, not really working out. My dad just works though - 3 acres of yardwork, big garden, hunting, developing a plot of some 80 acres, used to walk to work and back, and the like. That keeps you in shape pretty well.
 
My mom was always very thin but more from diet and genetics than exercise. I never saw her do anything athletic other than softball with us in the yard. She was VERY strong for a woman her size though, she had very large biceps that we couldn't figure out how she got them exactly. My father ran from time to time as his bad back/hips permitted but really didn't get into weights until he was almost 60.

My wife and I are both pretty athletic; she runs a gym so she works out every day and the kids are constantly in that atmosphere, I lift weights, swim, and do a lot of activity with the kids (play football, baseball, etc. with them). I will be saddened the day they can beat me at anything, my oldest is 11 so I know it's coming.

I'm still in pretty good shape for an "old man" of 42. At a recent family gathering I was dead even in a ~40 yard race with my nephew who is about to go to college on a baseball scholarship. He said he ran a 4.8 forty at baseball camp, so I'm probably faster than I was growing up.
 
My father is in his 50s and still runs several miles several times per week. He's been a skinny guy for as long as I've been alive. Unfortunately I lived a rather sedentary lifestyle for far too long, and that caught up with me at the end of college when I ate terribly and burnt off far too few of those calories. Since then I've been working on being both a healthier eater and exercising more, and I've managed to drop a decent portion of the fat that I gained. I'm no health or fitness nut, but I keep the junk food to a minimum and make it to the gym every other day on average so I figure I could be worse.
 
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