Originally posted by: Orsorum
Yes. I'm salaried, senior associate at a Big 4 accounting firm. I definitely work past regular hours. Trying to work a bit more tonight but will likely fall asleep on top of my laptop.
People who are fond of saying "it's all poor time management" either don't work in the same industry or are at a higher level and have conveniently forgotten what it's like to be a grunt. I work for a woman who loves to say that, then continues to pile on more and more work.
I used to be this way as well, but then I learned some important lessons (the hard way):
1. Life is far more important than work. I can always find another job, but I can't ever live another life or have that time back.
2. Companies will string you along with promises of career advancement, etc. but in the end, they have no loyalty to you and in many cases, if you are REALLY good at what you do, you are going to be stuck in your current position because of it.
This is long, but allow me to give you a real life example:
I worked for a major North American industrial gases company, in a global IT group. I managed the entire global infrastructure and that included trips away from home for 2 to 3 weeks at a time, project management for global initiatives, etc. I worked hard and worked long hours and got great reviews and good raises, but I always had a carrot dangled in front of me. Guess what? I never caught the carrot and while I did get a lot of great experience, my quality of life suffered tremendously.
To make a long story short, there was a corporate IT "restructuring" and I was given a choice. I could either "interview" for a position at the global headquarters (I worked at the headquarters of one of the subsidiaries) in Danbury, CT or I could stay at my location and become an "Oracle Analyst." All my long hours, hard work, and top reviews (I ALWAYS got the highest review score) did nothing but buy me a chance to "interview" for a job at our corporate HQ or take a demotion. So much for wanting to retain talent.
I'm sure you can guess how I responded to that choice. Fortunately, I could tell something was wrong months in advance by how management was acting so I started looking. So, while I was in the process of finalizing my deal with a new company, I strung them along and ensured the transition period to the new IT organization would last until I had the signed job offer and could give the old company my final decision and then quit. Turnabout is fair play, and I will tell you it was easily the smartest and best decision I made.
I couldn't be happier. I work normal hours, have far better benefits, and the work environment isn't toxic like the last company.
Cliffs:
1. Life is more important than work.
2. Companies will string you along and will likely screw you over in the end.
3. Real life example -- previous company sucked, told them to get lost, and left.
4. Lived happily ever after and laugh at people who stayed at old company.