I believe EK is quite wrong to say, " Obama and Clinton did not want to embarrass the new government of Libya by forcing the issue. Our US citizens were sacrificed to maintain a "proper image" "
When EK, IMHO, simply does not understand what frequently happens in the aftermath of a civil war. As we can compare what happened with the US embassy in Libya to what happened in our civil war and what is happening in Syria today.
But to confine the argument at present to just Libya, I think we can agree that Gaddafi was a tin pot dictator that kept himself in power by brutally suppressing any internal opposition. As Gaddafi was maybe not quite as bad as Saddam but very close. In terms of Gaddafi's foreign relation with other Western countries, Gaddafi was about 95% the man the West liked to hate. And that 95% hate then took a big hit after the Lockerbee Square airline bombing allegedly blamed on Gaddafi. But by 2007 or so, Gaddafi gained some external Western rehabilitation for ending Libya's nuclear program. But still, Libya had always sold its oil to Spain, Italy and France, and no one in the EU wanted to endanger that golden Goose. Then that entire calculus changed in the early Aftermath of the Arab Spring. As segments of the Libyan army seized the Libyan oil fields in open rebellion against the the dictatorship of Gaddafi. And in the process killed the golden goose. And the EU sided with the Libyan rebels knowing full well they were not all genuine saints either. And after six months or better of bloody atrocities on all sides, Gaddafi was killed and the rebels prevailed.
But the point EK seems to miss, lies in the typical fact, that once one side prevails, internal differences within the winning side, pushed together in a temporary marriage of convince, almost inevitably fall apart as the winning rebel starts fighting each other for dominance, ideology, and plunder. But still, similar to Egypt and other nations altered by the events of the Arab Spring, ultra reactionary Islamic Salifts forces were never able to form even close to a majority. While far realistic reformist Muslim brotherhood types willing and able to come to grips with Western type ideas and reforms were in the far larger majority. But still, for such nations emerging from a civil war, the process of forming a stable government is NEVER INSTANT. Especially when the losing side minority is both disgruntled and locally strong. And seaching for a way to express their displeasure.
As the is precisely the perfect storm that happened in Libya to the US embassy. As the newly elected government of Libya had only just received their electoral mandate at the time organized ultra conservative took their displeasure out on the US embassy in a preplanned attack.
As three myths seem to be promoted by EK and similar critics. (1) That if our US embassy defending forces would have been larger, they could have fought off an organized and well armed group in a preplanned attack. A somewhat tell that to George Armstrong Custer at the little big Horn River. (2) That President Obama, should have immediately responded with a massive and instant military rescue, when our embassy and its personnel were already over run and killed by the time the news sped to Washington. (3) It was the responsibility of the Libyan government to defend all foreign embassies against angry mobs. And while that is a true general case, there was no organized or elected government in Libya able to effectively respond at the time of the attack. As the other defect in the reasoning is that was not angry mob, it was a well organized armed minority carry out a surprise attack.
But still, IMHO, the USA and the EU come out the real winners, as both Egypt and Libya elected Western trained technocrats to head their governments.
As its also somewhat comparative to what happened in the USA after the end of our civil war. As we can somewhat say our civil war ended the day General Robert E. Lee surrendered his army. But that did not stop the assassination of President Lincoln by some disgruntled Southern Sympathizers. And out West it did not stop organized confederate armies from fighting on for another two years, even if groups like Quantrels raiders later degenerating into armed criminal gangs.
As the world still faces the question of Assad and Syria. As both the Assad government and the rebels opposing it, regularly commit war crimes of the worst sort.
I join everyone is saying its very sad that Ambassador Stevens and Libyan embassy staff lost their lives, but being collateral damage sadly cuts all ways.
No one ever said human warfare is FAIR.