Is it need sort of thing where you have had to use it in some way?
I used to carry in a purse/bag, the sort of thing a person who was in the CCW community would recognize, but someone who was not would not.
I was manning the frost desk of the motel I managed and had a small minority ownership. We were a block off the beach and popular with people who wanted something cheaper then water front but still wanted to be near the beach.
An officer from two counties away stayed in one of the units for his vacation with his girl friend. I knew he was an officer because he flashed his badge on check in. Some officers do this because while they cannot ask for a discount, they can fish for it.
His girlfriend split mid party with his friends (he never mentioned anything to me about a party prior). He started looking for his girl friend with his friends, but he did not know the area. He pushed me pretty aggressive on that first interaction after his girlfriend split and set off alarms in my head. I hunted her down quite quickly, and she had left on foot with her purse and phone while him and his friends were partying. She had a phone on her with someone coming to pick her up and just wanted me to let her be. I gave her some suggestions and returned to my property.
I carried the gun for the rest of the night, with the bag resting on my right hip in a position I had drilled with. As a property / business owner I had no obligation to back down and I knew it. I was also a bit angry. I saw his vehicle pull in again about an hour and a half later. I unzipped the bag and put my hand on the bag before he stepped through the office door. He saw it and instantly knew what was in the bag. His gun was tucked in the small of his back, and he likely knew I knew it. His attitude switched from the aggressive I will fuck you up to polite lets be reasonable. He friends did not and we had a very odd interaction where his friends were goading him on, but he suddenly was perfectly happy to stay on his side of the desk. The security camera likely helped.
I gave him a full refund and sent him on his way. Probably seems odd, but I just wanted to be rid of him. He never did find his girl friend, no idea what happened to her after she was picked up. He likely thought I helped her, but had no way of knowing for sure.
That is my most f---ed up story I have. I knew of people who were attacked by homeless people and put in the hospital. One assault occurred less then a hundred yards from where I was living. A pair of guys who had a good time and were walking back at night a bit tipsy were taken down, mugged, and left badly injured. Would sometimes have people try door knobs in the middle of the night. Had things stolen like chairs, cushions, the outdoor patio stuff. Never cared to much about that. Cops were worse then useless.
99% of the time I did not carry, I would only grab the bag when I knew it was going to be questionable. I was also real friendly and tried to always be super calm and chill with just about everyone. Being respectful, timing ones approach to early morning when people are the opposite of high, giving people time to move on, that sort of thing.