Like 20 years ago I was invited to Thanksgiving at a black friends family gathering. They had beef brisket, BBQ ribs, mac & cheese, collared greens, cornbread, twice baked potatoes with bacon. They had Turkey and stuffing too, but they had so many other things. Every other Thanksgiving for me had been the same boring Turkey, same mashed potatoes with boring gravy. I learned that not just my family, but Caucasian people in general tended to celebrate it very traditionally. I know my family gets up in arms when I suggest Mac & Cheese lol. And they get upset if I even suggest tweaking the gravy. I understand keeping it true to the roots of the holiday, but damn. Asking around to my other black friends, a lot went all out and didn't stick to tradition at all, they just made a grip of delicious food.
I know Brisket has zero tie in with Thanksgiving, but since I hate Turkey with a passion, that year I became a huge fan of the way black people celebrate it. And they still had plain ass Turkey and boring potatoes and gravy for all the purists. Seems like a win/win to me, but my family disagrees and considers anything outside of the box to be blasphemous.