Yeah, it's hell to be able to buy a 4 bedroom, 3 bath house for $200,000 instead of $1,200,000 like in West Los Angeles or Frisco. The rest of the State is real poor that way.
Real estate tends to follow a pretty straightforward price curve. If housing is cheap, it's because of some combination of people not having any money and supply of housing exceeding demand. The fact that housing is expensive in LA or SF (nobody calls it "Frisco") means a lot of people with a lot of money want to live there. That's not exactly a black mark against those cities, IMO. People look for more in houses than just the house itself...location matters.