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SLCentral

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Originally posted by: OdiN
Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: OdiN
Abortion = Muder

Plain and simple. As said, there are only a few cases in which I can understand why - a pregnancy that threatens the life of the mother, etc.

Think of it this way. A mother who is say 2 months pregnant is mugged and stabbed, which causes her unborn child to die. Would you want the mugger charged with assault with a deadly weapon, or murder?

The embryo is not living on it's own; it requires the mothers support in order to survive. Therefore, the MOTHER has control as to what she wants to do with the baby. Therefore, no, it is not murder. It's her body.

That's bullshit.

Next time you require medical assitance in order to survive...maybe you shoouldn't get any.

The mother made her decision already. She decided to have sex and risk getting pregnant. That is the choice the mother has. Not a choice to kill her child or not.

Medical assistance != a human body
 

JDrake

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Originally posted by: Dacalo
Originally posted by: joedrake
Sweet. I'm gonna go murder 5 people (whom have no friends or close family)... don't worry about them, though, (or me) its none of your business.
This issue is not black/white, zealot. You are a simpleton if you believe that this issue is simplistic as you state.

Although it saddens me to see babies getting aborted especially in later stages, the choice is the mother's alone. It's a choice made between the mother, the doctor, and God/Allah/Buddah (if she is religious).
Of course this is not a simple issue, but it should be. Murder/life aren't hard concepts to grasp.
You say the mother, doctor, and spiritual figure are involved, but what about the baby? If everyone in America hated a certain person, and they all voted to murder him, would it be justified? Should that person's life be taken away because no one wants him? No. He could move away .. to another country, for example (the equivalent of putting a baby up for adoption, in this scenario).
I can't speak for Buddah or Allah, but I know that if that person believes in God (the true God) then they should believe in the commandments. The 5th commandment, "Thou shalt not kill", makes this topic pretty clear. Same goes with the non-christian branches, however, not as specific (Judaism).
 

TBone48

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Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: OdiN
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She decided to risk pregnancy, which has consequences and responsibilities. If she doesn't want those responsibilities then she should abstain from sexual relations or make damn sure that there are two methods of birth control being used. Abortion used as birth control is just sickening.

Well obviously it's sickening, but so are many things that are legal in this world. It is still the mothers body, and while you may find it sickening, it isn't your right to judge. I don't agree with using abortion as a birth control, but I don't agree with a lot of things.

What other legal things involve killing someone?
 

Playmaker

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Originally posted by: OdiN
Originally posted by: amicold
Originally posted by: TBone48
Originally posted by: amicold


Because I'm sure most women are having the abortions before the baby forms to the point you're at. Regardless, there's a lot of beautiful things in life. Some find insects beautiful but that doesn't stop you from stepping on ants, spiders, etc. Or grabbing the can of Raid when those wasps nest near your house.

So bugs = human babies?

Insects/Arachnids = Lifeform
Embryo = Sentient Lifeform


Fixed

Hahahahaha. An embryo as sentient. That's one I haven't heard before.
 

Fenixgoon

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Originally posted by: OdiN
Abortion = Muder

Plain and simple. As said, there are only a few cases in which I can understand why - a pregnancy that threatens the life of the mother, etc.

Think of it this way. A mother who is say 2 months pregnant is mugged and stabbed, which causes her unborn child to die. Would you want the mugger charged with assault with a deadly weapon, or murder?

actually, in california (ironically), a guy was convicted of murder of both his wife and unborn child.

can't remember the case, it was a real big (national) one that hit the news a lot.
 

Kadarin

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IMO: For a lot of people, the sentiment against abortion does not arise from any real concern for the baby (or if it does it's secondary). It instead comes from a self-righteous desire to punish women for what they perceive to be "immoral" sexual behavior. The "if you choose to have sex, you must accept the consequences" argument.
 

SLCentral

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Originally posted by: TBone48
Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: OdiN
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She decided to risk pregnancy, which has consequences and responsibilities. If she doesn't want those responsibilities then she should abstain from sexual relations or make damn sure that there are two methods of birth control being used. Abortion used as birth control is just sickening.

Well obviously it's sickening, but so are many things that are legal in this world. It is still the mothers body, and while you may find it sickening, it isn't your right to judge. I don't agree with using abortion as a birth control, but I don't agree with a lot of things.

What other legal things involve killing someone?

The war in Iraq?
 

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
IMO: For a lot of people, the sentiment against abortion does not arise from any real concern for the baby (or if it does it's secondary). It instead comes from a self-righteous desire to punish women for what they perceive to be "immoral" sexual behavior. The "if you choose to have sex, you must accept the consequences" argument.

umm, no.
 

Eeezee

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Originally posted by: Arkitech
My wife is 7 months along in her pregnacy and it's so amazing to me to see how new life is developing and growing. Even though the baby is still forming he responds to my voice and my wife's, it's an incredible experience.

Now I realize not every child has the benefit of being born to a pair of loving parents, in some cases babies are born to totally unfit and possibly unstable people. Then there are the cases where some unfortunate women have become the victim of rape and I can totally sympathize with why they feel the need to go for an abortion. But for the most part it seems to me that many people choose abortion because they don't want the responsibility. It's really sad, in fact it's downright heartbreaking because every abortion is taking away the life from a helpless child. Everyone gets up in arms when they hear of child porn, child abuse, molestation and any other atrocity (sp?) commited against kids but why does'nt that type of feeling extend to unborn babies. After all they're the most helpless and have the least means of defending themselves. :(

I don't want this to degenerate into a flamefest I just felt like stating something I feel strongly about and hopefully sparking some intelligent discussion.

Did your child respond to you in the first 3 months of pregnancy? No, it didn't.
 

Conky

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Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: OdiN
Abortion = Muder

Plain and simple. As said, there are only a few cases in which I can understand why - a pregnancy that threatens the life of the mother, etc.

Think of it this way. A mother who is say 2 months pregnant is mugged and stabbed, which causes her unborn child to die. Would you want the mugger charged with assault with a deadly weapon, or murder?

The embryo is not living on it's own; it requires the mothers support in order to survive. Therefore, the MOTHER has control as to what she wants to do with the baby. Therefore, no, it is not murder. It's her body.
Newborns require support to survive too. How many of them can feed themselves?

I still think 2 years old is a good cut-off point for "abortion" because by then they can at least walk and try to find food. :laugh:

 

linkgoron

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Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: OdiN
Originally posted by: Dacalo
Originally posted by: joedrake
Originally posted by: BrokenVisage
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Tell you what, you worry about yourself and stop carring about what the rest of us do mmmkay?

It's really none of your business.

Put perfectly.
Sweet. I'm gonna go murder 5 people (whom have no friends or close family)... don't worry about them, though, (or me) its none of your business.

This issue is not black/white, zealot. You are a simpleton if you believe that this issue is simplistic as you state.

Although it saddens me to see babies getting aborted especially in later stages, the choice is the mother's alone. It's a choice made between the mother, the doctor, and God/Allah/Buddah (if she is religious).

It isn't the mothers choice. How can any sane person say that it's up to her if she wants to kill a child? She already made her choice.

She decided to risk pregnancy, which has consequences and responsibilities. If she doesn't want those responsibilities then she should abstain from sexual relations or make damn sure that there are two methods of birth control being used. Abortion used as birth control is just sickening.

Well obviously it's sickening, but so are many things that are legal in this world. It is still the mothers body, and while you may find it sickening, it isn't your right to judge. I don't agree with using abortion as a birth control, but I don't agree with a lot of things.


You can also say birth control is murder.
The mother is keeping it alive, she can do whatever she wants. You don't like it? Don't do it.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: TBone48
Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: OdiN
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She decided to risk pregnancy, which has consequences and responsibilities. If she doesn't want those responsibilities then she should abstain from sexual relations or make damn sure that there are two methods of birth control being used. Abortion used as birth control is just sickening.

Well obviously it's sickening, but so are many things that are legal in this world. It is still the mothers body, and while you may find it sickening, it isn't your right to judge. I don't agree with using abortion as a birth control, but I don't agree with a lot of things.

What other legal things involve killing someone?

The war in Iraq?

The death penalty? Justifiable homicide? (Killing someone in self-defense.)
 

JDrake

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Oops forgot some:
It's not like abortion is a fail-safe procedure, though.
And if the mother needs a C-section to survive, then she can have that.
 

SLCentral

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Originally posted by: Crazyfool
Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: OdiN
Abortion = Muder

Plain and simple. As said, there are only a few cases in which I can understand why - a pregnancy that threatens the life of the mother, etc.

Think of it this way. A mother who is say 2 months pregnant is mugged and stabbed, which causes her unborn child to die. Would you want the mugger charged with assault with a deadly weapon, or murder?

The embryo is not living on it's own; it requires the mothers support in order to survive. Therefore, the MOTHER has control as to what she wants to do with the baby. Therefore, no, it is not murder. It's her body.
Newborns require support to survive too. How many of them can feed themselves?

I still think 2 years old is a good cut-off point for "abortion" because by then they can at least walk and try to find food. :laugh:

In the first 4 (or whatever many of months it is legal to get an abortion until) the embryo is completely reliant on the physical body of the mother. Nor does it react, respond, talk, etc., so it is not comparable to a 2 year old toddler.
 

creedog

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Originally posted by: Arkitech
My wife is 7 months along in her pregnacy and it's so amazing to me to see how new life is developing and growing. Even though the baby is still forming he responds to my voice and my wife's, it's an incredible experience.

Now I realize not every child has the benefit of being born to a pair of loving parents, in some cases babies are born to totally unfit and possibly unstable people. Then there are the cases where some unfortunate women have become the victim of rape and I can totally sympathize with why they feel the need to go for an abortion. But for the most part it seems to me that many people choose abortion because they don't want the responsibility. It's really sad, in fact it's downright heartbreaking because every abortion is taking away the life from a helpless child. Everyone gets up in arms when they hear of child porn, child abuse, molestation and any other atrocity (sp?) commited against kids but why does'nt that type of feeling extend to unborn babies. After all they're the most helpless and have the least means of defending themselves. :(

I don't want this to degenerate into a flamefest I just felt like stating something I feel strongly about and hopefully sparking some intelligent discussion.

Its too bad that not everyone could feel the same way that you do, as then there probably would not be so many people who carelessly get pregant. However, I support the right to choose and I have to tell you that a hell of a lot of people have no business having children, as a matter of fact I wish that there were more abortions to keep these children from growing up and pertetuating the cycle.

Most of my married friends are now getting to the point that they are having children and my wife and I hope to have one before too long, and I tell you its awesome to see one of my best friends of almost 15 years become a great daddy.

Now I will tell you what it sad, The first few posts in this thread. Its sad to see what this forum has become. A bunch of witty one line responses to anything that might provoke an ounce of thought. Oh, and then you have the zealots who like to argue with each other, like it really matters. Oh, well....

Anyway, congrats to you but keep in mind that you are probably in the top 10% of the most educated, well off, and prosperous people in the world. The rest of the world is light years behind america, and middle america is lightyears behind the rest of us.

Now I will tell you

 

Tab

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Originally posted by: Arkitech
My wife is 7 months along in her pregnacy and it's so amazing to me to see how new life is developing and growing. Even though the baby is still forming he responds to my voice and my wife's, it's an incredible experience.

Now I realize not every child has the benefit of being born to a pair of loving parents, in some cases babies are born to totally unfit and possibly unstable people. Then there are the cases where some unfortunate women have become the victim of rape and I can totally sympathize with why they feel the need to go for an abortion. But for the most part it seems to me that many people choose abortion because they don't want the responsibility. It's really sad, in fact it's downright heartbreaking because every abortion is taking away the life from a helpless child. Everyone gets up in arms when they hear of child porn, child abuse, molestation and any other atrocity (sp?) commited against kids but why does'nt that type of feeling extend to unborn babies. After all they're the most helpless and have the least means of defending themselves. :(

I don't want this to degenerate into a flamefest I just felt like stating something I feel strongly about and hopefully sparking some intelligent discussion.

I'll agree with you that life is amazing, but I'll say I don't see anything but a large emotional argument here. I'll admit myself that I am not a father, but you've got to remember that these arguments such as yours have no place in a rational debate. You didn't really leave much to debate, but I will say that there's a difference between not wanting responsibility and not being able to handle it. The vast majority of women that have abortions are 30 year old white married women, it's not like they're a bunch of sexually irresponsible women spreading their legs all the time.

Its okay not to like abortion, I'll admit that I don't like it either - but that doesn't mean I am going to hold my personal feelings above the rights of women to control her own body.
 

GTaudiophile

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
IMO: For a lot of people, the sentiment against abortion does not arise from any real concern for the baby (or if it does it's secondary). It instead comes from a self-righteous desire to punish women for what they perceive to be "immoral" sexual behavior. The "if you choose to have sex, you must accept the consequences" argument.

Oh, so let's cure every STD and legalise abortion...so we can all fvck like rabbits on every street corner. Screw the concept of a relationship.
 

OdiN

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Originally posted by: Fenixgoon
Originally posted by: OdiN
Abortion = Muder

Plain and simple. As said, there are only a few cases in which I can understand why - a pregnancy that threatens the life of the mother, etc.

Think of it this way. A mother who is say 2 months pregnant is mugged and stabbed, which causes her unborn child to die. Would you want the mugger charged with assault with a deadly weapon, or murder?

actually, in california (ironically), a guy was convicted of murder of both his wife and unborn child.

can't remember the case, it was a real big (national) one that hit the news a lot.

Scott Peterson
 

Fenixgoon

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Originally posted by: OdiN
Originally posted by: Fenixgoon
Originally posted by: OdiN
Abortion = Muder

Plain and simple. As said, there are only a few cases in which I can understand why - a pregnancy that threatens the life of the mother, etc.

Think of it this way. A mother who is say 2 months pregnant is mugged and stabbed, which causes her unborn child to die. Would you want the mugger charged with assault with a deadly weapon, or murder?

actually, in california (ironically), a guy was convicted of murder of both his wife and unborn child.

can't remember the case, it was a real big (national) one that hit the news a lot.

Scott Peterson

i thought it was Peterson, but wasn't sure, thanks
 

OdiN

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
IMO: For a lot of people, the sentiment against abortion does not arise from any real concern for the baby (or if it does it's secondary). It instead comes from a self-righteous desire to punish women for what they perceive to be "immoral" sexual behavior. The "if you choose to have sex, you must accept the consequences" argument.

That is ridiculous. Perhaps some people think like that though. The utmost concern is that of the child whose life is taken away when it is murdered.
 

SLCentral

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Originally posted by: OdiN
Originally posted by: Fenixgoon
Originally posted by: OdiN
Abortion = Muder

Plain and simple. As said, there are only a few cases in which I can understand why - a pregnancy that threatens the life of the mother, etc.

Think of it this way. A mother who is say 2 months pregnant is mugged and stabbed, which causes her unborn child to die. Would you want the mugger charged with assault with a deadly weapon, or murder?

actually, in california (ironically), a guy was convicted of murder of both his wife and unborn child.

can't remember the case, it was a real big (national) one that hit the news a lot.

Scott Peterson

You can also get in trouble for the law for killing a cat or dog.
 

Tab

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Originally posted by: JS80
Yet your wife can "choose" to "abort" the baby and you can't do a damn thing and it's sanctioned by the government.

Yet, it's her body that's supporting the developing fetus.
 

Playmaker

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
IMO: For a lot of people, the sentiment against abortion does not arise from any real concern for the baby (or if it does it's secondary). It instead comes from a self-righteous desire to punish women for what they perceive to be "immoral" sexual behavior. The "if you choose to have sex, you must accept the consequences" argument.

Oh, so let's cure every STD and legalise abortion...so we can all fvck like rabbits on every street corner. Screw the concept of a relationship.

Hmm. Your ideas are intriguing to me and I wish to subscribe to your newsletter.