If you think the issue for me is that conservatives are more generous than liberals or visa versa, it isn't. My point is that what motivates conservative and liberal notions of moral behavior are in two ways similar and a bunch more that are different the result of which is that conservatives understand liberal morality better than visa versa and liberals are blind to that fact.
Conservatives have a rather larger palate of moral concerns than liberals do, all of them having survival value, whereas liberals fail to impress a huge swath of humanity because they fail to address a broad range of sacred moral beliefs. It is why they lose elections. All they do is shout, "stupid and bad."
Liberals will rage in vain against conservative values thinking those values are evil when in fact the only thing that is evil is what conservatives identify as the good in those moral concerns isn't the real good in them. In this way liberal arguments against conservative values fail to connect. You can't tell people who believe they are good that that good does not exist. It does exist and they know that it does. What they believe that good looks like in practice, however, may be totally wrong. Liberals generally, are so freaked out by the danger of conservative moral values as practiced, they go as nuts as conservatives do defending their beliefs.
The advantage I have, in my opinion, is that long ago I ceased to be able to believe in anything. All I had left after that what was what remained after a shipwreck, and what that is can only reveal itself after that fate.