i have to run a divider as is, 230x10  ram .90 (183/200HT).
maybe i'm not understanding something.  i have fsb freq, LDT/fsb freq, and cpu/fsb freq ratio (multi).  when i raise the fsb it raises the ram too.  then i have the LDT freq, which is either 5x, 4x, 3x, 2.5x, 2x, 1.5x, 1x.  if i run LDT at 4x is that again oc'ing the ram? 
3200+
1 gig pc3500
nf4 sli-dr
whenever i try to run over 2x LDT i end up re-installing my 6800gt.  the system just freezes in any 3d application.  its stable in prime, pi and memtest but just kicks me back, regardless of the volts i put on the LDT,vid or memory.  i'm confused somewhere i guess. 
edit--looking at your sig doctorweir, you're running a .83 divider?