<< UnixFreak: I have a good feeling that at one time you too were on the other end, so to speak. You were proabbly taken advantage of by a girl, maybe she cheated on you. Maybe things were even worse than that! I know it hurt. I know that it seems easier to block out the emotions and just go for that sexual attack. It definitely doesnt involve the risk that most REAL relationships do. I feel your pain, man. I have been there >>
I have stated this before: My advice is based on mistakes I have made. I dont make this stuff up. I have been on the other end many times, before I learned to play the game. I have been the guy who wined and dined a girl, spent all my money, dressed up, then took her home at 9, so she could call some other guy to come over and screw her. I have also had the carrot dangled in my face, and chased it, for months sometimes, I have been there. I am not perfect, I just learned to play the game.