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Urinal Mint

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<< So when did you two want me to email you the address?
And are you opposed to being here at the same time???

Hahha! I'm kidding, don't get any ideas! :D

Tamara
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Heh, this is the last place I'd try to pick up on a woman.
 

UnixFreak

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<< yeah but even condoms are only 97% failproof. and they won't even protect you from the aids Virus. it's too small goes right through the latex. >>



so you're a doctor? Please. This is the first I have heard of condoms not protecting you, in some way, from aids. Of course they arent 100% effective, but much better than not using them at all, IMO.
 

UnixFreak

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This is another example of what happens when I am right about something, and people want to disagree, but having nothing to base it on. I listed before, that people



<< 1. They answer a question with a question, rather than answer the question.
2. They insult me, and the women I choose to date.
3. they make a point to rearrange my words, call a circle a square, and repeat thier interpretation
of it, over and over.
4. They rationalize thier own behavior to intentionally make it look like its not the exact scenario I am describing, and they are an &quot;exception&quot;
5. They deny that them being the &quot;exception&quot; only proves there must be a rule that they are an &quot;exception&quot; to, which Is the point I try and make.
6. They insult me (again).


but at no point do they prove me wrong, or even attempt to make a counterpoint.
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Now I can add a new one: 7. Make up stupid songs/poems about me.

anything to dodge the issue. What a moron.





<< I can see your headstone now
&quot;unixfreak was a slut
he liked to get it in the butt
he fvcked a whore and
became no more
because AIDS knocked at his......&quot;

you get the idea..


>>


 

herself

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<< Heh, this is the last place I'd try to pick up on a woman. >>



Good God, honestly, do you even realize how many freakazoid people there are on the internet? Geez, I always feel the need to disclaim the fact that I'm just kidding these days... *sigh*

How I long for the days when the internet was just geeks who knew how to access a BBS through a Unix shell... lol

Tamara
 

Urinal Mint

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Persistently insisting that you are right just makes you appear more and more wrong... hopefully you realize that. You haven't substantiated any of your opinions to make them any more correct than anyone else's, either.
 

UnixFreak

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Maybe in your eyes, but you dont see me making up little songs about people, I make points and I stand by them, and you, as well as others, dodge the issue in any way you can. Why even post? I dont understand the logic.
 

herself

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I dunno... I thought the song/rhyme/whatever was amusing to say the least. It's kind of useless to get offended by a little dig on a message board on the internet, isn't it? Just take a deep breath, take it in stride, and move on. No need to get your collective panties in a bunch gentlemen. :D

Tamara
 

polm

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UnixFreak: Do you ever worry that your promiscuity might affect your chances of landing a long-term realtionship in the future? Are you interested in monogomous realtionship ever ? Are you afraid to get close to women on an emotional level ? Do you feel bad for &quot;banging&quot; other guys g/f's ? Do you ever have an urge to make these girls lives better ? Do you think scrwing them and leaving them helps them at all ? Do you just reside to continue a viscous cycle that yeilds insecure women ?

Basically I want to know if you have any remorse for these actions you claim ? I also dont think you are completely honest about your casual sex escapades with these women...please correct me if I am wrong.

I completely agree with you when it comes to simply getting girls. I just wish you wouldnt go after so many. It makes it harder for people like me who are not interested in women who have been with guys like you. I dont like 'used' women. Do you have to use so many women? Is it that cool ? I dont think it is, but to each his own. It just sux that we have to have all of your sloppy seconds.
 

polm

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I have dated girls before and had them snatched from me by guys like UnixFreak. It hurts...really bad. So just so you know UnixFreak, your are doing things that HURT other people. I know you probably dont care, but I just thought I would let you know. You are taking advantage of these people. You admit it yourself that you are exploiting the side of girls that hungers for the attention, the chase, etc. I know that it works, I know you can get lots of pussy doing it. But in the end, these girls are left feeling that much more insecure. You are contributing to a sick game that DOES NOT HAVE TO CONTINUE!! Just because you didnt start it, doesnt make it OK to keep playing. You are AFFECTING other people lives, and affecting them NEGATIVELY.
 

polm

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UnixFreak: I have a good feeling that at one time you too were on the other end, so to speak. You were proabbly taken advantage of by a girl, maybe she cheated on you. Maybe things were even worse than that! I know it hurt. I know that it seems easier to block out the emotions and just go for that sexual attack. It definitely doesnt involve the risk that most REAL relationships do. I feel your pain, man. I have been there. I wanted to run around and screw, and screw over, every girl I met. It isnt right! It wont work forever! You arent going to be happy living like that. TRUST ME.
 

polm

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UnixFreak: BTW...do you have a round about number of the women you have slept with ?
 

ChrichtonsGirl

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I don't want an asshole for a boyfriend/husband/date/sexual partner. Self-confidence doesn't have to equal jerk.

I don't want a whiny, dependent self-doubter - I'm already a mom to my child, I don't need or want to be a mom to my significant other.

So, my advice - be confident that you've got something to offer a girl, but don't arrogantly assume you're the best thing she's ever seen; when you've found a girl/woman that you're interested in, respect her and expect her to respect you just as much. Don't have double standards - if you're not going to be faithful, don't expect it of her and if you're not going to treat her kindly and considerately, don't expect to get it in return.

Mature adult relationships involve lots of frank discussion about expectations and a commitment from both partners to be honest and respectful of each other at all times. If either partner opts out of the process, the relationship isn't going to work. And if you're being a jerk just to get laid, then getting laid is all you're going to get. Your reward will be equal to the effort you put into it.

Would you rather have sex with 50 women or find a special person to have a monogamous relationship with? There's nothing wrong with either choice (and the gray areas in between) - just don't preach your technique to people who want a different end result than you do.
 

UnixFreak

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So many questions. Hope I have good answers.


Do you ever worry that your promiscuity might affect your chances of landing a long-term realtionship in the future? Not Really. I would hope someone could love me for who I am, or was. Just as I would not judge my partner by her past.


Are you interested in monogomous realtionship ever ? Yes. I have been in long relationships before. I am always monogamous. If I give a woman a commitment, I dont sleep with anyone else. If I am sleeping with two women at around the same time, its because I havent made a commitment with either of them.
Are you afraid to get close to women on an emotional level ? I dont put much value in emotion, so, I guess the answer would be Yes.
Do you feel bad for &quot;banging&quot; other guys g/f's ? Not Really. But its not like I seek other guy's girlfreinds, people lie. If I know beforehand, I dont bother. But If I do sleep with another guy's girl, why should I feel bad? There was obviously a problem before I came along. I dont rape people.
Do you ever have an urge to make these girls lives better ? No.
Do you think scrwing them and leaving them helps them at all ? No.
Basically I want to know if you have any remorse for these actions you claim ? Sometimes. Rarely.



<< I dont think it is, but to each his own. It just sux that we have to have all of your sloppy seconds. >>



Talk about giving me far too much credit. There are MILLIONS of girls i have never met. But then again, there are MILLIONS of Unixfreaks.





 

UnixFreak

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<< UnixFreak: I have a good feeling that at one time you too were on the other end, so to speak. You were proabbly taken advantage of by a girl, maybe she cheated on you. Maybe things were even worse than that! I know it hurt. I know that it seems easier to block out the emotions and just go for that sexual attack. It definitely doesnt involve the risk that most REAL relationships do. I feel your pain, man. I have been there >>



I have stated this before: My advice is based on mistakes I have made. I dont make this stuff up. I have been on the other end many times, before I learned to play the game. I have been the guy who wined and dined a girl, spent all my money, dressed up, then took her home at 9, so she could call some other guy to come over and screw her. I have also had the carrot dangled in my face, and chased it, for months sometimes, I have been there. I am not perfect, I just learned to play the game.
 

polm

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If I know beforehand, I dont bother
I appreciate that one. I really do. (im not being sarcastic....guys that knowingly screw other guys g/f are not being cool)



Do you ever have an urge to make these girls lives better ? No.

I know that you arent required to care, I understand that you dont. But it makes me feel bad for both you and these girls.

Do you beleive in Karma ?
 

polm

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Basically I want to know if you have any remorse for these actions you claim ? Sometimes. Rarely

Are these feeling of remorse quiickly buried ?
 

polm

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I have been on the other end many times, before I learned to play the game. I have been the guy who wined and dined a girl, spent all my money, dressed up, then took her home at 9, so she could call some other guy to come over and screw her. I have also had the carrot dangled in my face, and chased it, for months sometimes, I have been there. I am not perfect, I just learned to play the game.

Does the GAME make it easier ? I am still reeling in pain from similar situations....
 

FireGal

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<<

<< I can say women hate men that lie to them. >>



Another example of twisting what I say to make it work for you. Did I say anything about lying? I tell women right up front I dont want a relationship, and you know what? They like it. The &quot;challenge&quot; aspect I was talking about.
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UnixFreak: I was not refering to you when I made that statement so please do not assume anything. I might be a &quot;newbie&quot; but I do know enough to quote someone if I'm going to talk about something they said.

You choose to live you life that way so be it. I have nothing against that.
 

polm

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UnixFreak: BTW...where do you meet all these girls? Bars ? I suck at the Bar pick up game. I hope you have some tips for that on your website.
 

UnixFreak

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<< know that you arent required to care, I understand that you dont. But it makes me feel bad for both you and these girls. >>



who says they care about me? Heck, all I do is provide a &quot;challenge&quot; and give out a little attention. they get what they want, and so do I. Believe it or not, there are girls out there who think just like I do. then there are the ones who just want to get back at a boyfriend, rebound



<< Do you beleive in Karma ? >>

a little, but like emotion, I dont put much faith in it.
 

polm

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there are girls out there who think just like I do. then there are the ones who just want to
get back at a boyfriend, rebound


I know...i hate that. I wish I could just giver up and play the game by your rules...maybe one day I will. I hope to G-D i can find a woman who doesnt think like that, but to be completely honest I am not having much luck. Seems girls around my age (I am 22) are definitley into this whole GAME thing.
 

happykitten

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To answer the original question... some do, some don't. Those who do eventually grow out of it, I think. I know I did.

Thank goodness,
~kitten >^.^<
 

polm

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eventually grow out of it, I think. I know I did.

How old were you when this happened?