First, welcome.
Second, you bring a much appreciated counterpoint and are very rational with your posts.
I firmly believe that you should be able to worship any religion you choose, provided it does not infringe upon others rights/freedoms. I support building the mosque in NYC (and elsewhere), because the entire religion cannot be faulted for the acts of a minority extremeist sect. Otherwise you would have to hold Christianity at fault for the Crusades, and many other "extremist" sects that have hurt/killed others.
I am not Islamic (obviously), and only know the ME culture through what gets reported on. I don't see the average ME views/life/thoughts, so I am uneducated on the subject and want to change that. Here are my "problems/concerns" with the Islamic faith, and please correct me if I am incorrect.
First, the ME islamic group appears to almost look for reasons to riot/kill/fight/etc. Be it through the Israel/Pakistan conflict (which isn't all Islam's fault, but the faith does play a part in it), to stoning women for having sex before marriage, to basically rioting due to inaccurate/incorrect news (like the recent supposed burning of the quran which didn't happen). Why is this? I understand that most of these are cases of extremist activities, but your community doesn't appear to act to correct these. They appear to neither condone, nor endorse, these acts. In other major religions, when an extremist group commits acts of violence/terror against others it is denounced and the majority of the religon will denounce them and distance themselves from it. With Islam, it doesn't always appear this is the case.
Secondly, why is it cause for people to die if your prophet Mohammed is depicted? I understand that in his teachings he does not want to be depicted, because he was basically humble and didn't want idolized through statues/pictures/etc. That said, is it really that big of a deal if he is depicted in a cartoon? Political satire, comedy, and other forms of entertainment are not reasons to kill others. No other religion takes it that personally when their holy figures are depicted. Maybe I'm missing a critical key to the logic here, but I can't for the life of me figure out why it's such a big deal when it happens in things that are meant to entertain.
Finally, why does Islam have a higher % of radical fundamental factions (or at least ones that act upon their beliefs in name of Islam)?
I'd appreciate hearing your views on these topics, and hope I didn't come across as a dick.