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I'd tell her that was mild compared to what I did to her best friend while she was gone 😀 Muhahahahahahahahahahaha.
 
i would hug her, tell her it is ok, and we can work it out.





next day when she is at work, i call in sick and change the locks.
 
I'd be a little shocked, I didn't even know I married a woman. Someone would have some serious explaining to do!
 
I would definitely be upset. That crosses a very serious line - I would also wonder why it is that she's out drinking with other guys in the first place. I dunno, just doesn't seem like something a married woman should be doing.
 
You just stepped off the naive train if you believe that is all that happened. She feels guilty for betraying you so she gives you the watered down version that she thinks will be forgiveable in your eyes so she can feel like she did the right thing. I hate to break it to you but your wife has had sex with other men while she was away. If what she said was all that happened she would not have even told you because it would not be worth filling your mind with suspicion for things she felt to be harmless.
 
Originally posted by: Zakath15
I would definitely be upset. That crosses a very serious line - I would also wonder why it is that she's out drinking with other guys in the first place. I dunno, just doesn't seem like something a married woman should be doing.
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She is in the military. They drink a lot.
 
Originally posted by: Ronstang
You just stepped off the naive train if you believe that is all that happened. She feels guilty for betraying you so she gives you the watered down version that she thinks will be forgiveable in your eyes so she can feel like she did the right thing. I hate to break it to you but your wife has had sex with other men while she was away. If what she said was all that happened she would not have even told you because it would not be worth filling your mind with suspicion for things she felt to be harmless.
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Odd as this may sound, I believe her and think that what she told me is all that has happened.
 
Originally posted by: justint

She is in the military. They drink a lot.
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Doesn't matter (to me). I'm very cautious of how I act around my female friends who are in relationships/married... even if I'm not in one. Same for friends at school, at work, etc. It's a matter of trust, propriety, and honor, IMHO. There's a certain amount of joking around, but then you have to be serious and say, "This isn't something I, as a married person, should be doing."
 
Originally posted by: justint

Odd as this may sound, I believe her and think that what she told me is all that has happened.
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Mmm... it's a fine line to walk, but yeah, I'd be inclined to believe her, too.
 
regardless she has betrayed your trust in her. Now you will be wondering if she will slip again. I would be calm has she was honest enough to tell me. But if that happens again I will be severly pissed off and start thiking possible divorce or at least conseling.
 
How would I feel? I'd feel like I need a new wife. As a married person, I put trust in my wife, to act responsibly. She puts the same trust in me. If I were to do that to her, how would she feel? How would it make us look? Same thing here. How do you feel? Do you trust her? How do you look when your around people who know? You look like a fool. Everybody thinks "Hey, theres the guy who married the girl who fools around, and he doesnt care"
Whether she did or did not do anymore then she said isnt the point anymore. The point is she broke the trust, and chances are, she will do it again.
*L*
"Boy. Git the shotgun for pa"....Exactly.
 
Originally posted by: Shockwave
How would I feel? I'd feel like I need a new wife. As a married person, I put trust in my wife, to act responsibly. She puts the same trust in me. If I were to do that to her, how would she feel? How would it make us look? Same thing here. How do you feel? Do you trust her? How do you look when your around people who know? You look like a fool. Everybody thinks "Hey, theres the guy who married the girl who fools around, and he doesnt care"
Whether she did or did not do anymore then she said isnt the point anymore. The point is she broke the trust, and chances are, she will do it again.
*L*
"Boy. Git the shotgun for pa"....Exactly.
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No one we know in common knows about this, but I wouldn't be surprised if it gets out eventually. Do you really consider that fooling around? She was passive not active. Maybe I am deluding myself.

 
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