Originally posted by: LoveDoc
We aren't using the word as a means of coping with a "somewhat lack -of-heritage"...
I'm not saying that it's right for us to use this term in reference to each other but that's a different argument.
The argument here is whether or not it is fit for people of other backgrounds to use the term.
If you want to look at matters in a cultural perspective, you will realize that every culture has their own unique terms that they refer to each other within their culture with. A term which if used by a member of another culture, especially someone they know absolutely nothing about, they get offended...
For example, gays have their own terms they refer to each other with but if someone heterosexual was to use on of those terms then it would be hate.
If I was to call a caucasion "white trash", they would be offended, unless, it's one of my friends, in which they know me and they know i'm just messing around when I say that. The same thing works vice versa, if one of my white friends were to refer to me as a n!gger, I wouldn't necessarily be offended b/c I would know the person saying it and would understand the context it is being said in. A lot different from someone outside my cultural background or someone that i'm not friends with.