4 years and it ends in a day

[FelixDeCat]

Y A G T

 

[Ryuson99]

Originally posted by: Cal166
I feel your pain man, i been there.

What I learned from my past relationship is that when a girl feels too comfortable, feel that she is treated like a queen and knows that you will never cheat on her---thats when things gets boring to her and things goes down hill.

The problem with most girls these days is that they want a guy who treats them like crap and cheats on them, they do not want to feel secure but feel insecurity.

Live and learn.

what he said is true girls like to be treated like shit

if you treat them nice they will play you like a fiddle

 

[Fingolfin269]

You have to have sex with them in an uncomfortable position...

(please feel free to continue the quote)

 

[ragazzo]

there's a difference between treating your gf nice and treating her like a queen/goddess.

anyway, sorry to hear about the breakup

 

[PunDogg]

try to out with your GUY friends, they will cheer ya up

Dogg

 

[opticalmace]

Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
You have to have sex with them in an uncomfortable position...

(please feel free to continue the quote)

What, like the back of a Volkswagen?

 

[akodi]

i'm taking the rest of the day off...no more lab today.

 

[Nocturnal]

I feel your pain my friend. It's understandable that you're really hurt. Time will heal all wounds. Just know it may take a long while to get over her but one day you'll find someone else who loves you just as much as you love her. Trust me, this will happen. You're still in college so get going with the girl search, unless that is, you wish to stay single and enjoy the single life for a while.

 

[bsmithy]

been through the exact same thing 4 weeks ago

just try and move on, i got a new job, new place to live and i move in on sunday

 

[Svnla]

Originally posted by: akodi
i'm taking the rest of the day off...no more lab today.

I hope you feel better soon. Do as I do when I am down. Listen to some of your favorite music and not think about the situation too much. Dont over analyze and ask yourself what did you do wrong or what can you do differently. Good luck and hang in there.

 

[BlueWeasel]

Originally posted by: Cal166

The problem with most girls these days is that they want a guy who treats them like crap and cheats on them, they do not want to feel secure but feel insecurity.

I agree, but I don't think I'll EVER understand why.

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: akodi
I'm not an emotional person, but jeez I thought that a 4 year relationship would end more dramatically. Last night ex-gf came to visit have dinner watch a movie and at the end she tells me that she's not comfortable with the distance (Berkeley-SD) and says it might be in our best interest to split, and with that it was over what could I have said? It was always one of those relationships where it was obvious that I liked her more, but man this is a downer. A four year commitment and bam it's over, didn't cheat on her, treated her well but I guess if this is what she wants you can't do anything no point in holding on to things forever. I guess it makes it easier because I'll be going on to grad school at who knows where and she'll still be in SD finishing up.

Cliff: gf of 4 years broke up/going to grad school so it makes sense that she broke up.

Translation..She found someone else and did not feel right about going out with them behind your back

 

Do her sister, or her mom, or hell, do both!

 

[FelixDeCat]

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Do her sister, or her mom, or hel, do both!

AT THE SAME TIME! :beer:

 

[PingSpike]

Now is time for an important phase of the healing process. Getting rip roaring drunk and banging the first chick who will do you. Add two points if she knows your ex-gf. Subtract 1 point if its a hooker.

 

[Balthazar]

Originally posted by: Nitemare

Originally posted by: akodi
I'm not an emotional person, but jeez I thought that a 4 year relationship would end more dramatically. Last night ex-gf came to visit have dinner watch a movie and at the end she tells me that she's not comfortable with the distance (Berkeley-SD) and says it might be in our best interest to split, and with that it was over what could I have said? It was always one of those relationships where it was obvious that I liked her more, but man this is a downer. A four year commitment and bam it's over, didn't cheat on her, treated her well but I guess if this is what she wants you can't do anything no point in holding on to things forever. I guess it makes it easier because I'll be going on to grad school at who knows where and she'll still be in SD finishing up.

Cliff: gf of 4 years broke up/going to grad school so it makes sense that she broke up.

Translation..She found someone else and did not feel right about going out with them behind your back

Oh brother, thats a little overboard.
Its just as likely that she just needs someone to be closer to her. Distance SUCKS. And doing it for an extended amount of time is just, alot of stress.
Doing it for an extended time while going to school is even worse.

 

[Yax]

Sorry dude, but she's been hanging out with da boys.

 

[mugs]

:music:She's a cold-hearted woman:music:

That sucks that you made it so far into college together, and she quit when you just have a year left. I only knew one guy who made it all the way through college with his high school girlfriend... and he didn't have nearly enough fun in college. Drink some :beer:

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: PingSpike
Now is time for an important phase of the healing process. Getting rip roaring drunk and banging the first chick who will do you. Add two points if she knows your ex-gf. Subtract 1 point if its a hooker.

lol

I should give this point system a try.

 

[Ausm]

Originally posted by: pyonir
There are plenty of fish in the sea.


(don't you hate when people say that?)

If it smells like trout get the fvck out

Sysadmin

 

[VTBigBear]

goto Vegas

 

[V00DOO]

Good luck bro. Go to the nudy bar.

 

[AccruedExpenditure]

aYe, you know what you need... some action.
If you're in the bay hit up Matrix @ club V in fremont tonight. Free for college students with a valid id till 11.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: WHipLAsh13
Yep you gotta move on because I bet she already has. From my experience women don't usually break up with you in a situation like yours unless she already has her sights set on someone.

I have to agree with this. She's probably not telling you about some guy she's met down there who's "hot" and pays her lots of attention and compliments and whatnot. So the feelings for you wane as she comes to the realization that she's more into this guy than you.

Of course, I am merely speculating..

 

[Lithium381]

Originally posted by: thawolfman
:beer:

welcome to the club! you'll get over it eventually....