23 year old teacher arrested for having sex with 14 year old boy

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alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Nebor
Exactly. I bet when people (assuming he has RL friends) AT on alkemyst's computer, he tells them "Oh yeah, they love me there, I'm friends with everyone. But they also respect me, because I'm the toughest person on the internet."

Well first I don't live in a ghetto and share PC's, so noone 'AT's on my computer.

However, some have seen some of it...but it's much like my real life here as well only beyond it because of the one off posting nature vs when you are in a group and make up stuff / be stupid. The biggest comment is just ignore as it's obvious they don't understand what they are replying too.

My posts have factual backing, not just "No you are Wrong!!@!@ STFU STOP POSTING!!@!@@" :roll:

You do realize you almost always answer my posts directly or one off another's atempted stab. Don't think I am the toughest on the net, but I have had my share of altercations from actually getting out there and living.

However a review of your posts have zingers just like this...nothing added at all. Do you even create threads?

Tell us a little of your life so we can understand you hatred of others that have actually seen a woman naked in person without having to go to a stripclub.

You should be able to do better than puny comments like that.
 

goodhead

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Originally posted by: Taggart
Originally posted by: goodhead
y does this women have to have problems? my first girlfriend was 24 when i was 14 also,

reason he did it:

publicity
money

prob more for the money, i know i would if my gf at the time was a teacher/nurse/doctor/etc, but no i meet her at a rave :(

She was in a position of authority as a teacher at the school. That is also a big part of the problem here.

yes i unserstand that, even in a position of authority, having stricter guidlines to follow and having to set a better example she is still human, and her sexual attraction for someone younger does have a conflict of interest in her position but she was "in love", i can see it happening and can understand why she chose the road she took. you can develop feeling of love or attraction for someone at any age, jsut the law says no no to certain senarios because it states a person under a certain age cannot make sexual decisions for themselves, my parents have a 20+ yr age diffence, my father was in his 40s when he married my mom jsut going into her 20s.

i can only hope i will have a 20yr old wife when i am in my 40s, 18 years left :D


btw i go to strip club after work everynight, i work in a bar which closes at 1 on weekdays and the stip club is open to 4am BYOB! whats wrong w/ strip clubs? :(
 

BladeWalker

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Aug 31, 2002
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After reading most of the comments on this thread, I can honestly say I am perturbed by the lack of moral displayed so openly. An adult having sex with a child == WRONG. I thought that is universally accepted in the US. Judging by the comments, it seems some of you are on the way of condoning it. A crime was committed here and some of you cheer.

It shouldn't matter whether it be an older female to younger male or older male to younger female relations. Maximum penalty should be dealt equally among male and female adults. In reality we know that is not the case. The double standard is apparent not only in the enforcer of our law but also reflected by the young male members of this board. :(

Our government has decided that 18 is the age of adulthood, even though age of consent vary from state to state. This, I completely agree, is a gray area. Some people mature at different rate. There may be some 14 year olds that can function as adults and some 20somethings that cannot. To develop a law, you can't account for every individual cases. A line has to be drawn. Those who choose to break the law knowing full well ahead of time should accept the penalty.

I have no sympathy for this woman. As an adult she knows better, but chose to indulge in the affair anyway. Not only is the teacher/student relation is violated but more importantly the adult/child relation is violated. The kid is NOT a stud. It is completely normal for boys of his age to fantasize about older women. In his case, a f*cked up older woman made his fantasy come true. It was her decision that brought it to fruition, NOT his. He can fantasize about older women all he wants and she can fantasize about younger boys all she wants, but bringing that fantasy to reality is a big NO NO. A child can persue such a relationship, display interest without penalty because he doesn't know any better. An adult should discourage this (even if against her sexual urges) because it is the right thing to do and upholds the value of our society. Just because someone has these natural sexual urges (that most people can relate to) does in no way legitimize the crime.
 

Nebor

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Jun 24, 2003
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Nebor
Exactly. I bet when people (assuming he has RL friends) AT on alkemyst's computer, he tells them "Oh yeah, they love me there, I'm friends with everyone. But they also respect me, because I'm the toughest person on the internet."

Well first I don't live in a ghetto and share PC's, so noone 'AT's on my computer.

However, some have seen some of it...but it's much like my real life here as well only beyond it because of the one off posting nature vs when you are in a group and make up stuff / be stupid. The biggest comment is just ignore as it's obvious they don't understand what they are replying too.

My posts have factual backing, not just "No you are Wrong!!@!@ STFU STOP POSTING!!@!@@" :roll:

You do realize you almost always answer my posts directly or one off another's atempted stab. Don't think I am the toughest on the net, but I have had my share of altercations from actually getting out there and living.

However a review of your posts have zingers just like this...nothing added at all. Do you even create threads?

Tell us a little of your life so we can understand you hatred of others that have actually seen a woman naked in person without having to go to a stripclub.

You should be able to do better than puny comments like that.

You're right, I lash out because everyone hates me!!! .... No wait... that's you.
 

imported_goku

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Mar 28, 2004
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This kid must be fvcking retarded because the fact the he would "tell" on his teacher which he got to screw. What went through this damn kid's mind when he thought he should show his cousin/tell others. To get laid by some chick that was that fvcking hot not only would I keep my mouth shut but I would make sure NO ONE knew about it EVER! Maybe when I'm 50 LOL! Just being able to screw some hot MOTHERFVCKING chick for a 14Yr old is way beyond lucky. I dont expect this kid to get a fricken dime because of the fact that hes not goanna have any "emotional distress" and any judge will see that. What a judge will see though if this really *did* happen is that she had sex with a minor and under the law she is technically liable for doing this *act* which can get her jail time. Nice going kid, good luck getting any a$$ from now on because you seriously blew it! :disgust:
 

remagavon

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Jun 16, 2003
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Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Nebor
Exactly. I bet when people (assuming he has RL friends) AT on alkemyst's computer, he tells them "Oh yeah, they love me there, I'm friends with everyone. But they also respect me, because I'm the toughest person on the internet."

Well first I don't live in a ghetto and share PC's, so noone 'AT's on my computer.

However, some have seen some of it...but it's much like my real life here as well only beyond it because of the one off posting nature vs when you are in a group and make up stuff / be stupid. The biggest comment is just ignore as it's obvious they don't understand what they are replying too.

My posts have factual backing, not just "No you are Wrong!!@!@ STFU STOP POSTING!!@!@@" :roll:

You do realize you almost always answer my posts directly or one off another's atempted stab. Don't think I am the toughest on the net, but I have had my share of altercations from actually getting out there and living.

However a review of your posts have zingers just like this...nothing added at all. Do you even create threads?

Tell us a little of your life so we can understand you hatred of others that have actually seen a woman naked in person without having to go to a stripclub.

You should be able to do better than puny comments like that.

You're right, I lash out because everyone hates me!!! .... No wait... that's you.

I like his cool desk.
 

LongAce

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Mar 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: goku2100
This kid must be fvcking retarded because the fact the he would "tell" on his teacher which he got to screw. What went through this damn kid's mind when he thought he should show his cousin/tell others. To get laid by some chick that was that fvcking hot not only would I keep my mouth shut but I would make sure NO ONE knew about it EVER! Maybe when I'm 50 LOL! Just being able to screw some hot MOTHERFVCKING chick for a 14Yr old is way beyond lucky. I dont expect this kid to get a fricken dime because of the fact that hes not goanna have any "emotional distress" and any judge will see that. What a judge will see though if this really *did* happen is that she had sex with a minor and under the law she is technically liable for doing this *act* which can get her jail time. Nice going kid, good luck getting any a$$ from now on because you seriously blew it! :disgust:

Ditto on what you said. He's a dumb a$$.
 

SoylentGreen

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Oct 17, 2002
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Anus needs to stop posting in this thread.

Anyway, I wish I'd been that lucky. And not be this whores husband.
 

ViciouS

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Apr 1, 2001
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Van Hallen said it best... "I'm hot for teacher."

Either that kid was the luckiest 14 year old ever, or he is the biggest pimp prodigy, when he gets older standing within a 20 foot of him radius will get you laid.


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Originally posted by: SoylentGreen
Anus needs to stop posting in this thread.

Anyway, I wish I'd been that lucky. And not be this whores husband.


Yeah looking at it from the husbands stand point... Damn, that would suck! He's is probably at some hole in the wall bar getting waisted right now.
 

Ready

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Jan 16, 2003
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OMG that teacher is HOT! She has some young boy fetish or something?
Where the heck was she when I was in middle school? Freaking lucky as heck 14year old. What is wrong
with him turning her in? He probably started bragging about it and everybody found it.
 

imported_Tomato

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Sep 11, 2002
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Originally posted by: BladeWalker
After reading most of the comments on this thread, I can honestly say I am perturbed by the lack of moral displayed so openly. An adult having sex with a child == WRONG. I thought that is universally accepted in the US. Judging by the comments, it seems some of you are on the way of condoning it. A crime was committed here and some of you cheer.

It shouldn't matter whether it be an older female to younger male or older male to younger female relations. Maximum penalty should be dealt equally among male and female adults. In reality we know that is not the case. The double standard is apparent not only in the enforcer of our law but also reflected by the young male members of this board. :(

Our government has decided that 18 is the age of adulthood, even though age of consent vary from state to state. This, I completely agree, is a gray area. Some people mature at different rate. There may be some 14 year olds that can function as adults and some 20somethings that cannot. To develop a law, you can't account for every individual cases. A line has to be drawn. Those who choose to break the law knowing full well ahead of time should accept the penalty.

I have no sympathy for this woman. As an adult she knows better, but chose to indulge in the affair anyway. Not only is the teacher/student relation is violated but more importantly the adult/child relation is violated. The kid is NOT a stud. It is completely normal for boys of his age to fantasize about older women. In his case, a f*cked up older woman made his fantasy come true. It was her decision that brought it to fruition, NOT his. He can fantasize about older women all he wants and she can fantasize about younger boys all she wants, but bringing that fantasy to reality is a big NO NO. A child can persue such a relationship, display interest without penalty because he doesn't know any better. An adult should discourage this (even if against her sexual urges) because it is the right thing to do and upholds the value of our society. Just because someone has these natural sexual urges (that most people can relate to) does in no way legitimize the crime.

Well said, BladeWalker.
 

imported_goku

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Mar 28, 2004
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Shut up both of you, no one wants to hear what you say. Just because your gay and couldnt care less whether or not the Woman would want to fvck you doesnt mean that you have to "preach" about how it's so "terrible" that this kid was lucky enough to get laid. God it's totally different that a guy having sex with a girl because he could have *actually* raped her but its different when it's a guy having sex with a female teacher. The only possible thing that she *could* have done that would be considered rape would be anal probing the kid with a broom or some sort of object. Since the damn kid didnt complain about being anally probed he's really got no case. But when a kid bones her there is no way that it's rape for the kid, but it could very well be possible that he raped her! Anyways the only person in my opinon who should go to jail is that damn kid because he turned in that MOTHERFVCKING hot teacher which should be a crime when your the lucky bastard fvcking her. But in the EYES of the law she is technically liable like I said before, but because he participated he should serve time as well. That way little shits wouldnt make up crap like this if they are proved to be willingly having sex with an adult/person out of the age boundary.
 

alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: goku2100
Shut up both of you, no one wants to hear what you say. Just because your gay and couldnt care less whether or not the Woman would want to fvck you doesnt mean that you have to "preach" about how it's so "terrible" that this kid was lucky enough to get laid. God it's totally different that a guy having sex with a girl because he could have *actually* raped her but its different when it's a guy having sex with a female teacher. The only possible thing that she *could* have done that would be considered rape would be anal probing the kid with a broom or some sort of object. Since the damn kid didnt complain about being anally probed he's really got no case. But when a kid bones her there is no way that it's rape for the kid, but it could very well be possible that he raped her! Anyways the only person in my opinon who should go to jail is that damn kid because he turned in that MOTHERFVCKING hot teacher which should be a crime when your the lucky bastard fvcking her. But in the EYES of the law she is technically liable like I said before, but because he participated he should serve time as well. That way little shits wouldnt make up crap like this if they are proved to be willingly having sex with an adult/person out of the age boundary.

If he isn't responsible enough to handle sex on his own, how can he be deemed responsible enough for a penalty?

Also rape is any contact with the genitals that is unwanted, of course some states have revised that...I won't get into it.

However, when all is said and done what damage was done to the boy, to the woman, or to society, even his cousin? I think all were on the same page with this. The problem was a overtalking cousin probably both a little jealous and a little overwhelmed by it all.

Also I would not use gay as a slam here, unless you know the people you are speaking about are gay and your are just stating that....there is nothing wrong with being so and I believe it's currently worth a vacation.

Å
 

Texun

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Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Honestly, where the fvck where these teachers when I was in school? Props to the kid, though. He is now The Man at his school.

Yep.... all of mine looke dlike Beaulla Ballbreaker from the movie, "Porky's."
 

imported_goku

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
If he isn't responsible enough to handle sex on his own, how can he be deemed responsible enough for a penalty?
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/family/delinq/adult.htm
Kids who are 14 can be tried for rape so I think he is technically responsible enough for a penalty.:D Lucky bastard, he shouldnt have told anyone. Well this is what happens when you have a typical kid who has no brain. When I was 14, actually 13 I wanted to bone my Science teacher but didnt but had I boned her I wouldnt have told anyone. But since this kid has half a brain and told his cousin who is just as dumb as he is, he isnt goanna get ass no more!:disgust:
 

BladeWalker

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Aug 31, 2002
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Originally posted by: goku2100
Shut up both of you, no one wants to hear what you say. Just because your gay and couldnt care less whether or not the Woman would want to fvck you doesnt mean that you have to "preach" about how it's so "terrible" that this kid was lucky enough to get laid. God it's totally different that a guy having sex with a girl because he could have *actually* raped her but its different when it's a guy having sex with a female teacher. The only possible thing that she *could* have done that would be considered rape would be anal probing the kid with a broom or some sort of object. Since the damn kid didnt complain about being anally probed he's really got no case. But when a kid bones her there is no way that it's rape for the kid, but it could very well be possible that he raped her! Anyways the only person in my opinon who should go to jail is that damn kid because he turned in that MOTHERFVCKING hot teacher which should be a crime when your the lucky bastard fvcking her. But in the EYES of the law she is technically liable like I said before, but because he participated he should serve time as well. That way little shits wouldnt make up crap like this if they are proved to be willingly having sex with an adult/person out of the age boundary.

Oh yes, your post sounds far more intelligent. :roll: Just for the record, while I'm not offended being called gay, I am completely heterosexual. I do find her attractive like so many others here. If she was single and hit on me, I would go for it. It would be completely legal too because I'm an adult. The fact of the matter is she chose a child sex partner. If your rational brain tells you to classify anybody who disagree with you "gay", then go right ahead. What she did is wrong by the moral of this society. Your opinion is not going to change that.

What you call "preaching" is the voice of reason. No one wants to hear that, but it needs to be said. I know you don't like to be wrong, but don't take my words for it. Try taking your arguement to educated older folks that you know, ie teachers, professors, principals, parents, or any other educated professionals. Trust me, you will be shot down so fast. I use to think like you when I was 14. I didn't know what the big deal was all about when an older woman has sexual relation with a younger boy. I was humbled by people with much more life experience and education. As I grew up I understood it much better. Also your claim that a woman can't rape a man just shows how ignorant you are. Reality proves otherwise. Even in the pages of ATOT there have been reports of this.

BTW, please think with your "other" head when you form an arguement.