20 y/o guy sleeping with a 14 y/o girl.. fvcking sick **EDIT: W/PIC**

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imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: PatboyX
i mean...its pretty messed up...but if he didnt know, shes got some real issues.

She does... but I don't believe that excuses him at all. They slept together more than once, and you'd think he'd figure it out.....

Here's her pic, apparently she looked the same at age 14 as she does now at age 18.

i know that chick!


or someone who looks just like her :p

Well, you live in Cali... and she lives in Cali... maybe you go to her high school?

 

imported_Tomato

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Just out of curiousity, could he get in trouble for what he did NOW even though it happened THEN?

I would never turn him in (I may be b!tchy right now, but I'm not that cruel), but I wonder what would happen if he ever got on this girl's bad side...
 

Tetsuo

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Just out of curiousity, could he get in trouble for what he did NOW even though it happened THEN? I would never turn him in (I may be b!tchy right now, but I'm not that cruel), but I wonder what would happen if he ever got on this girl's bad side...

I doubt it, unless she started saying he raped her, so on and so forth.

edit: just looked at your xanga and OWOWWOW< J00 4 teh HOTZ0RQ!!!
 

SethK28

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Just out of curiousity, could he get in trouble for what he did NOW even though it happened THEN?

I would never turn him in (I may be b!tchy right now, but I'm not that cruel), but I wonder what would happen if he ever got on this girl's bad side...

nope a little thing called statute of limitations
 

jpeyton

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Now with the pic, it's confirmed.

She's a freak.
 

SethK28

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Originally posted by: Tetsuo
Originally posted by: Dezign
Just out of curiousity, could he get in trouble for what he did NOW even though it happened THEN? I would never turn him in (I may be b!tchy right now, but I'm not that cruel), but I wonder what would happen if he ever got on this girl's bad side...

I doubt it, unless she started saying he raped her, so on and so forth.


even then, its to late she ran out of time.......statute of limitations in rape cases i think is 1-2yrs

 

SethK28

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Originally posted by: jpeyton
Now with the pic, it's confirmed.

She's a freak.

yeah the pic in the far right looks like she's exhaling some chronic, its a classic case of a 14yr old with no parental supervision hanging out with and older crowd. She wanted some tube steak from an older guy so she could brag to all her wittle friends about it.
 

gopunk

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Originally posted by: Tetsuo
Originally posted by: Dezign
Just out of curiousity, could he get in trouble for what he did NOW even though it happened THEN? I would never turn him in (I may be b!tchy right now, but I'm not that cruel), but I wonder what would happen if he ever got on this girl's bad side...

I doubt it, unless she started saying he raped her, so on and so forth.

edit: just looked at your xanga and OWOWWOW< J00 4 teh HOTZ0RQ!!!

oh dezign is happykitten... heh... they didn't put me on the little school bus for nothing...
 

FuZoR

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if he honestly didnt know, how can you blame him..

edit* just saw pic.. ahh so shes asian. Asian girls age are hard to tell.. some 20 year olds look 14 while others 15 and look 20....

espically ones that try to look older like that girl.
 

Walleye

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: PatboyX
i mean...its pretty messed up...but if he didnt know, shes got some real issues.

She does... but I don't believe that excuses him at all. They slept together more than once, and you'd think he'd figure it out.....

Here's her pic, apparently she looked the same at age 14 as she does now at age 18.

i know that chick!


or someone who looks just like her :p

Well, you live in Cali... and she lives in Cali... maybe you go to her high school?

doubt it. name's wrong.
 

Chaotic42

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Originally posted by: FuZioN
if he honestly didnt know, how can you blame him..

Of course you can. He has a legal and moral responsibility to confirm that she is of legal age.
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: FuZioN
if he honestly didnt know, how can you blame him..

If he was 35 years old and said, "I didn't know she was 14 when I slept with her!" would you have the same reaction?

I dunno... I'm a little calmer now, but I guess it infuriates me more because I have a 14-year-old sister myself (who worries more about grades in school than smoking pot). Plus, I was kinda seeing this guy, and the fact his sexual history includes a 14-year-old girl when he was 20 is a TOTAL TURNOFF... repulsion... UGH. Fvckin a, is it 6pm yet?
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: isekii
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Originally posted by: FuZioN
if he honestly didnt know, how can you blame him..

Of course you can. He has a legal and moral responsibility to confirm that she is of legal age.

AMEN.


You feeling fiesty tonight baby ?


Seriously, I think I need to go to the gym and beat on one of those punching bags for awhile... I have waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy too much pent up aggression... I NEED TO HIT SOMETHING.... UGHHHHHHHHHH....
 

digitalsm

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Originally posted by: SethK28
Originally posted by: Dezign
Just out of curiousity, could he get in trouble for what he did NOW even though it happened THEN?

I would never turn him in (I may be b!tchy right now, but I'm not that cruel), but I wonder what would happen if he ever got on this girl's bad side...

nope a little thing called statute of limitations

Actually, he can still get in trouble, but only if the girl turned him in. Hed be in trouble for statutory rape. The statue of limitations is 7 years from the alleged victims 18 birthday. I seriously think Dezign is over reacting.
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: digitalsm
Originally posted by: SethK28
Originally posted by: Dezign
Just out of curiousity, could he get in trouble for what he did NOW even though it happened THEN?

I would never turn him in (I may be b!tchy right now, but I'm not that cruel), but I wonder what would happen if he ever got on this girl's bad side...

nope a little thing called statute of limitations

Actually, he can still get in trouble, but only if the girl turned him in. Hed be in trouble for statutory rape. The statue of limitations is 7 years from the alleged victims 18 birthday. I seriously think Dezign should be out and is over reacting. Its really not any of her buisness. What he said happened could very well have happened. Girls lie all the time.

Opinions are like assholes...
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Tetsuo

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: isekii
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Originally posted by: FuZioN if he honestly didnt know, how can you blame him..
Of course you can. He has a legal and moral responsibility to confirm that she is of legal age.
AMEN.
You feeling fiesty tonight baby ?
Seriously, I think I need to go to the gym and beat on one of those punching bags for awhile... I have waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy too much pent up aggression... I NEED TO HIT SOMETHING.... UGHHHHHHHHHH....

Hit me :heart:
 

SethK28

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Originally posted by: FuZioN
if he honestly didnt know, how can you blame him..

Of course you can. He has a legal and moral responsibility to confirm that she is of legal age.

AMEN.

Bullsh1t, girls/women lie incesintly about their age and weight, if she looks the same now as she did then it would be hard to determine if in fact she was/wasnt 14. The only surefire way would be to ask for her birth certificate, you couldnt ask her friends as they would lie for her. Dezign you need to chill, everyone makes mistakes. I am positive you have fooked some dirtbags in your past you wish you wouldnt have. At that moment you probably saw something in them that attracted you to him, and as we all know sexual desires tend to cloud the mind and obscure rational judgement.