Update:
I was issued a verbal and written warning. My boss said if anything like this happens again, I will be formally written up and dismissed.
Boss: "What happened yesterday was NOT acceptable. If this was any other company, if I was any other boss, you'd be fired on the spot without a second thought. I know you went to Vegas, but staying out late and partying and getting drunk is no excuse not to come into work and fulfill your job responsibilities. What you did by not coming in was irresponsible and immature. It is YOUR duty as a worker, as someone I hired to work for me, to be here every day unless you are ill or it is an emergency. You should never let your fun interrupt your duty as an employee."
Me (upset she assumed I was "out late/partying", which my coworker assumed when I came in... he said "I don't even want to hear it, you can't skip work because you're hungover" when I started to explain... I NEVER go out/drink/party on weeknights, a "crazy weekday" night to me is having an ATOT board game party): "I understand and I agree. But in my defense, I did plan ahead and I left Las Vegas at 6pm Sunday evening, expecting to be home no later than midnight. There was an accident on the 15 which had traffic backed up for miles, and we were basically stop-and-go for four hours." (we actually returned to the area around 4:30am, but I had to drop off my friends in Glendale and Irvine, and by the time I got home it was 6:30am)
Boss: "You should have planned it better, and that is no excuse. I don't want to hear excuses. I don't care why you were back at 6:30am, that's something you have to suck up and deal with. I expect you to be ready to work at 9am, unless you have previously requested time off, unless it is an emergency, or unless you are sick."
Me (not knowing what else to say... planned it better??!): "I understand."
Boss: "If it happens again, you WILL be written up and dismissed. Do I make myself clear?"
Me: "Yes. It won't happen again."
Boss: "Do you think I'm being fair? I could write you up right now, but I'm choosing not to."
Me: "Yes. It won't happen again. Thank you."
Boss: "See that it doesn't."
(end of meeting)
*sigh* Two strikes and you're out, I guess.
Regarding my Internet time (particularly on ATOT). I ONLY browse and post on the message boards when I have time. I do NOT go on ATOT unless I have fulfilled my job duties, and I only go online or attend to personal matters when I have time to (nothing else to take care of). With what I do, some times are busier than others. However, I NEVER postpone my work duties to surf or mess around online, and have ALWAYS fulfilled my job requirements (frequently going above and beyond, IMO). It doesn't take a brain surgeon to do this job, and even my boss/coworker admits to that... it's entry-level, and I am VERY efficient at what I do. I get things done well, correctly, and on time... and lo and behold, I am left with PLENTY of extra time which I would otherwise spend staring at my cubicle wall.
For those of you who read my "critique my resume/cover letter" thread, you know that I have been extremely restless at my current job, and am looking for something more challenging/fulfilling. I haven't been happy here for quite some time now... partly because of the lackluster "work" involved, partly because of management/coworkers.
You can be sure I'll be sowing my seeds elsewhere, and hopefully one of those seeds will blossom into fruition.
Thank you all for the advice, feedback and support. I've finished my duties (have gone beyond/over quota) for this ENTIRE week, but will go and shuffle around my cubicle now, straightening up, etc. so it looks like I'm busy.
*sigh*
Needless to say, I'm not very encouraged to go above and beyond in this type of work environment... micromanagement gives me a headache.
Off to shuffle. Have a good night, everyone...