not trying to be nosy, but how much did the wedding cost? I am planning a wedding and it's almost impossible to stay below 6,000 when you include the reception.
We got really lucky with the people we knew helping us out with the cost of everything.
We haven't done a final cost total, but I'll get you ballpark.
Food - $1450
Refrigerated trailer + 200 1/3 pound burgers + 200 brats + unknown number of hot dogs + 75 pounds of potatoes into potato salad + 4 other sides + snack food for cocktail hour
This was the actual cost of food (I have a co-worker who used to work in catering, so she did everything for cost)
Wedding Gifts - $800
Gifts to everyone who helped in the wedding
(Leatherman multi-tools, canvas print of significant picture, good keychain flashlight, good bottle opener)
Rental Equipment - $600
Sound system, microphones, dance light system, 6 round tables, ambiance can lights, other misc. stuff
Liquor + Wine + mixers - $600
We had 20 bottles of wine + 15 bottles of liquor (LOTS left over)
Wedding Dress + Alterations - $250
Dress was $150 and $100 for the alternations
Park Shelter - $240
This was for two shelters next to each other (large one where ceremony took place + smaller enclosed one we used for food and bar tending)
Candy / Cake - $200
We had 199 individual bags with chocolates + mints for the guests. The cake was five $18 sheet cakes from Costco (people loved them)
Beer - $115
We got a keg of Miller Lite for the non-adventurous, but most folks drank
HomeBrewerDude's home brew, which was his gift to us (along with picking up the ice)
Flowers + decorations - $100
Centerpieces material, ribbon, etc.
Wife's friend did the flowers for us at cost (she has business doing this)
Ice - $80
I think we went through about 40 twenty pound bags of ice?
Invitations + candy boxes + bells + thank you notes - $20
Lots of this stuff from the clearance area of the party supply store
DJ - $0
Wife's friend did the music from her computer hooked up to our rented system
Photographer - $0
Wife's friend did the photos, hopefully they'll be good =D
Officiant - $0
Co-worker of mine is ordained and did the ceremony for us as his gift
Master of Ceremonies - $0
The only guy we know of who knew both of us before we met each other (we met on OkCupid), was our MC
Miscelaneous Stuff - $1000
This is for everything I can't think of, or doesn't fit into a particular category (random bar tending supplies, lemonade dispenser, tape, cups, stamps etc.)
So... let's call that about $5500 total