You're 22, stable job, own home, and don't party.

zixxer

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Girl A:
'Party Girl'. Slightly older than you (24/25), formerly in a sorority (sp?), doesn't know how to cook (trying desperately to learn), motivated more towards making money than having a family. Goes out drinking about once a week or so with girlfriends/friends.

Girl B:
'Domesticated Type'. Your age, doesn't go out much, not many friends, VERY devoted, likes to cook and cook for you, enjoys cleaning and feels that a womans ultimate 'job' is to raise/help raise a family.



Keep in mind - you're 22, so not ready to 'settle down' yet, but also don't have time to party. You work ~40 hours a week and take 9-12 hours of classes a semester.


EDIT (at ~71 replies, 24 votes for Girl A and 111 for B..)

Girl A is significantly 'hotter'.. Also keep in mind that while I eventually want a family, I don't want one now. I've always been 'laid back' and really wouldn't mind going out once a week or so. Girl A is really into me, and has 'pursued' me for about 3-4 months now. Her friends have told me she's really changed her lifestyle because of me - and it shows. My main dislike is that she has lots of guy friends - and can be flirty.. (I am too.. so it's hard for me to judge..) although it's what I consider 'harmless flirting'.


Without going into a ton of details, it's a lot easier to be with Girl A. I've dated B before, we had (actually are really in the middle of I guess..) a pretty rough break up. We tended to argue a lot etc. However, a lot of the problems were worked out when we decided to 'date other people'... She's really upset about girl A, and I'm not sure how easy it would be to patch things up.

EDIT:

Okay. I decided I really want to be with Girl A. She's flirty, yes. Devoted - possibly. I'm young, and really am not ready for a 'family type' of relationship. I really care about Girl A - so... it's done. No more Girl B.
 

buzzsaw13

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Girl B will think you won't have enough time for her and Girl A will probably end up screwing some other guy when shes out drinking with her friends.
 

homercles337

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TTIWWP.

Also, if youre 22 and own a house you have already settled down. I assume you have grand aspirations of breeding and making a "home?" If so, then you need a "home maker" for a chic.

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Lola

girl two...
I am the EXACT same way.
we bought our house when i was 22. never really got "into" the party/club scene.
If you date girl one... she will be annoyed just being at "home" and not going out.
 

Platypus

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I'd go for a hybrid.. girl B looks good for your needs however it'd be nice to go out every now and then you know? Just make sure she's not a total dullard and you become one of those couples who stays home every single night. I'm talking about going to a movie or to get some food, not clubbing here.

good luck, sounds like you've got what you want nailed down.
 

RKS

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which ever one says she will go out with you...

edit: Choice sounds kinda creepy, A sounds more normal.
 

w00t

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Well, It's not about us it's about you

maybe girl number A is your other half? you want to party but you don't? you wan't to be a little more exciting instead of staying home.

maybe your a very serious person and don't care for Girl A and you want something that you think will last longer in the long run and like how your life is going completely than go for Girl B.
 

richardycc

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girl C: 'ex party now domesticated Type'. Your age, doesn't go out much, used to have tons of friends, now she just want to spend time with you, VERY devoted, likes to cook and cook for you, enjoys cleaning and motivated more towards making money AND having a family. Goes out drinking about once a month or so with you.
 

GuitarDaddy

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Sounds like your shoping for furniture or something:( Not one mention of feeling for either girl:confused:

Go with options D: Asian mail order bride:)