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Your thoguhts on my girlfriend doing this to me

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Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
I'm glad that some of you aren't my friend.
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You only have one? (NELSON) HA-HA! (/NELSON)

Bros before hoes, remember that! b/c your best friend sure didn't.
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Rofl the old saying, 'Bros before hoes'. It has so many applications just don't ever use it when telling your girlfriend why she can't go to the bar tonight.

'Why can't I go?'

'Bros before hoes!'

Not a good conversation.
 
sorry to hear your story, but like people have mentioned, this kind of thing is not as uncommon as you think it is.

my circle of friends in college are some kind of a story though, there was this maybe 4 couples that are good friends that actually switched with each other. not in the 'swinging' type of switch, but they broke up and dated the other after about one or two years break. two of the couples actually got married and later have kids, all that jazz.

the kicker is that they still hang out with each other up until now (this is after7-8 years)! well, maybe not as often as college kids hanging out, because of work and everything, but they still meet at least once a month and one time had vacation together with the family, stuff like that.
 
Maybe thing are different these days but in my day best friends didn't do that crap to each other. There were five of us guys that grew up together thick as brothers and the rule was you never messed with anothers girl current or ex. One of the group broke the rule twice. First time the guy whose girl he did tried to suicide (stupid I know) he thought so to afterward. Second time he was doing my girl so I just handled it the old fashioned way. Beat the snot out of his sorry ass. needless to say he is no longer one of the gang anymore. To this day the idiot can't understand what pissed us all off so much. Fact is you can't put a price on loyalty. True best friends will place that loyalty above most anything. If she were a true best friend then she would never date one of your friends ex or not. Same goes for him true best friends do not date the exs' like someone already said kick em both to the curb. They are not deserving of your loyalty.
 
Heh lets see...

Back in the day, I met a girl, didnt like her much, so I dated her best friend. They ceased to be friends, I never really was, and a few years later, that was over.

Right now, my current gf's best friend is dating her ex-bf from a few years ago. She says she doesnt mind, but she probably wasnt thinking.

All in all, Id say its retarded, and not worth it.


Your gf was a bitch, and your "best" friend is an asshole. End of story.
 
Originally posted by: PricklyPete
Originally posted by: Evdawg
Well we had been best friends for about 6 months and started going out... then she brokeup with me for a couple reason which were honestly bs IMHO. (we dated for a whole freakin months, whoopie) A week later i got a call from my best friend saying that he and my ex girlfriend are gonna start dating, and he wanted to ask if it was ok with me. Naturally, OF COURSE ITS NOT OK!

Anyways, i gave them both the choice of being friends with me.. or they can go out with eachother and not see me until they get their crap straight.... well they chose to go out with eachother.

Am i just really sensitive or is this just total BS? I'm still crushed =\
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It is total BS that they ard doing this to you...but if your friend is truly your best friend, you'll move on and forgive. A girl you hardly know is definitely not worth screwing up a life long relationship with someone over. If he is truly your friend...he'll realize what an ass he is being and ask your apology sometime down the road.

Don't be the ass yourself and try and force him to realize the "error of his ways". The best thing you can do is forgive, put it behind you, and move on. There are a lot of fish in the pond.
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thats the way i look at it... but its hard when you have no friends =\. I mean i've got friends still but ur 2 main ppl go down and its just tough. I hung out with them 4-5+ days a week, now basically its work/home/pc and thats it... quite boring
 
Originally posted by: SampSon
his dick > your dick.
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So, you're saying his friend is the bigger dick. And doesn't matter who the girl is with, she's definitely the biggest asshole.
 
Originally posted by: kt
Originally posted by: SampSon
his dick > your dick.
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So, you're saying his friend is the bigger dick. And doesn't matter who the girl is with, she's definitely the biggest asshole.
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Don't read into my words.

how about.
his friend > him.
 
I hung out with them 4-5+ days a week, now basically its work/home/pc and thats it... quite boring
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You should fit right in with the rest of the ATOT'ers now. Welcome to the club.
 
Originally posted by: Colt45
get 'em drunk and go for a menage et trois
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Excellent advice.....I wish I had someone tell me something like this when i was younger.

Another chunk of advice..take naked pics, you are probably not going to marry her and they make a GREAT keepsake 🙂
 
Your buddy should have should have given you time to think about it more. If you truely didn't want them to date, then you could say that. Too bad such most people won't do that. Maybe after a week or two you, maybe it would have been okay with you. It shouldn't have happened, but you should have expected it.
 
I don't really care...I'd just be really nice and wait till they decide to get married, I'd be his best man, and hold the ring...then I'd loose in a pawn shop....hehehehehe.....
 
Making your friend choose between a woman he wants and you as a friend is just assinine. Be his friend. Congratulate them on being a couple, no matter how much it hurts. Well, that's the admirable thing to do, anyway. Do what you want. Don't take the opinions of people on a BBS on the internet for anything more than that. Make your own decisions.

Don't fvck up their life just because you're a greedy bastard that wants what he can't have.
 
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: Ronstang
I didn't marry the woman I should have because my best friend went out with her first. Her and I stayed very good friends after they split and both of us ended up being totally in love with each other....but I could not do that to my friend so it never went anywhere.
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Now that's loyalty. :Q
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seirous, insane willpower too, to deny yourself(and her) something like that
 
If it was me in the situation and ive been there before I'd have to say god bless them. If it is true love between them and they are each others "one" then who am I to stand in between them. Thats just me though
 
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Making your friend choose between a woman he wants and you as a friend is just assinine. Be his friend. Congratulate them on being a couple, no matter how much it hurts. Well, that's the admirable thing to do, anyway. Do what you want. Don't take the opinions of people on a BBS on the internet for anything more than that. Make your own decisions.

Don't fvck up their life just because you're a greedy bastard that wants what he can't have.
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😎:thumbsup:
 
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Making your friend choose between a woman he wants and you as a friend is just assinine. Be his friend. Congratulate them on being a couple, no matter how much it hurts. Well, that's the admirable thing to do, anyway. Do what you want. Don't take the opinions of people on a BBS on the internet for anything more than that. Make your own decisions.

Don't fvck up their life just because you're a greedy bastard that wants what he can't have.
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OMGWATERMELON 🙂

You are wise 🙂

Cheers,
Aquaman
 
Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Making your friend choose between a woman he wants and you as a friend is just assinine. Be his friend. Congratulate them on being a couple, no matter how much it hurts. Well, that's the admirable thing to do, anyway. Do what you want. Don't take the opinions of people on a BBS on the internet for anything more than that. Make your own decisions.

Don't fvck up their life just because you're a greedy bastard that wants what he can't have.
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OMGWATERMELON 🙂

You are wise 🙂

Cheers,
Aquaman
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I had to learn that the hard way. :frown:

Oh well. They're still together, although they've had some really really rough times. I love them both.
 
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