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Your perfect girlfriend...

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AreaCode707

Lifer
I posted this more than a year ago and I was just looking (and laughing) at the original thread. Flamefest I did find some interesting answers and thought it might be cool to repost and see what some of the newer members respond.
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Let's get in a comprehensive lists of traits and behaviors for your ideal girlfriend. Let's take a couple of things for granted so they don't get said over and over again.
One: good looking.
Two: faithful - not a cheater, liar, etc.
Three: whatever traits you describe as perfect are traits that she has naturally, not ones that she pretends to have just to make you like her.

So, describe your perfect girl (or guy) by character/personality traits and actions.
For example, one of the traits of my perfect guy is a good listener who also talks back. Action would be that he makes time just to be with me.

Got it?
 
I suppose we could consider this a test case for whether AT has truly gone downhill, like the whiners say, or not. So far, I'm leaning towards "has".
 
Extremely Low self esteem, who would think that Tommy Vercetti is the greatest thing evet to happen to her, and would do anything and everything to keep me.
 
Good taste in music (need not be my taste)
Good taste in movies (need not be my taste)
Good taste in tv (need not be my taste)
Good taste in politics (need not be my taste)

Sexually comfortable.
Must LOVE giving head.
Must LOVE recieving oral.
Must LOVE sex.

That about sums it up.
 
Intelligence, maturity, respect for others, caring, good taste, funny idiosyncracies, quirky humor, ability to carry on a conversation that isn't dominated by either party (i.e. I like to listen, but let me talk too), ...

 
someone who doesnt EXPECT things from me, but cherishes them when its receieved, that goes for material or emotional. someone who takes care of me when i take care of her, someone who cares how they look but doesn't at the same time (can look cute wearing raggy clothes).. non high maintenence.. i don't want to WORRY about having to impress someone.. a girl who gets my sense of humor, a girl who i can sit dow nand just talk and hang out with without feeling like i have to take her out to entertain her.. a girl who's mature and immature at the same time..

several other things im sure 🙂
 
Originally posted by: HotChic
I suppose we could consider this a test case for whether AT has truly gone downhill, like the whiners say, or not. So far, I'm leaning towards "has".
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You needed to post this thread to confirm? All you had to do was look at recent thread titles...that should tell you right there.


As for the topic; I wouldn't descibe a perfect woman for me because many different traits make a woman perfect. It all depends on the individual and there is no way I can 'pick' one or the other trait or characteristic that my 'perfect' woman would have.
 
Short answer... a girl who just sorta "becomes" your girlfriend... not someone you have to hunt for and convince.
 
Episcopalian
intelligent
faithful
and the number one most important is that she be completely madly in love with me
 
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Short answer... a girl who just sorta "becomes" your girlfriend... not someone you have to hunt for and convince.
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Here here! :beer: Almost two years and going strong.
 
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Short answer... a girl who just sorta "becomes" your girlfriend... not someone you have to hunt for and convince.
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so the saying says.. you can't find one, it will find you.. etc
 
ok, my *real* answer, someone who can carry a conversation, understands my sense of humor, and can at times act as silly as me. laughter is very important. i dont take a lot of things seriously, just about everything is a joke to me. if she can understand that and laugh with me even when something tragically-funny happens, then thats a winner. oh yeah, she also has to be physically appealing. people say looks arent important, its more about personality. that is true to a certain extent, but there has to be some physical attraction or it just doesnt work out.

faith is not a issue, neither is political beliefs, but i may raise an eyebrow at certain moral or ethical aspects though (me being pro-choice, so being with a pro-lifer is kinda tough). ive had girlfriends who smoked before and had a party-habit, that doesnt really affect my decision though. also, she must be cool with doing things on a whim. i could decide to see a movie at 11:45pm. thats my criteria.
 
Originally posted by: mrCide
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Short answer... a girl who just sorta "becomes" your girlfriend... not someone you have to hunt for and convince.
Click to expand...

so the saying says.. you can't find one, it will find you.. etc
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Sorta... I'm not heavily experience in the area, but every relationship I've had has come about that way... friends first pretty much. The funny thing is, with a relationship like that, even after it's over, it's not hard to go back to being friends.
 
Perfect traits... hmm, tough one....

Someone who is independent and doesn't constantly need affirmations from me about the stability of our relationship. Someone who can be perfectly happy watching tv with me some evening doing nothing in particular but relaxing. I'm a snuggler (yes I'm a guy) so If we're close it would be nice for her to be leaning on shoulder or lay her head in my lap while I stroke her hair. Someone who isn't afraid to cry when she needs to and doesn't hide feelings that she needs to express. She must be able to either relinquish control of the kitchen over to me or share it (I love to cook). Hopefully she'll pickup after herself when she's done eating and/or doing something else that requires some cleanup.

Also, I'd like someone who isn't against doing something spontaneous sometimes. Taking a long drive some Friday and not getting home till Sunday. Or flying down to Seattle, Portland, Phoenix for the weekend. Whatever it is, but I don't like doing the same thing over and over and getting into a daily grind, UNLESS it's something that we both enjoy.

She'd also have to be financially responsible with our money. No going and buying 5 pairs of shoes/clothes every weekend. Of course this leads to the idea of her knowing what kind of person she is.... in other words, I'd like for her to know who she is before we get into a relationship. Sure, she can change to suit the relationship (just as we all do in some respects) but I want her to be secure in who she is/was without me in her life. A relationship does make a life, it adds to one.

I'd like someone who doesn't judge others or herself in an unfair or jaded fashion. I mean, she shouldn't walk down the street and whisper a snide remark at me about someone walking down the street or a rash generalization about a group of people.

Basically, I'm looking for someone who does judge, is able to share her feelings, doesn't feel like a relationship makes her life worth living, and MOST IMPORTANTLY loves me.

Jugs
 
Originally posted by: HotChic
I posted this more than a year ago and I was just looking (and laughing) at the original thread. Flamefest I did find some interesting answers and thought it might be cool to repost and see what some of the newer members respond.
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Let's get in a comprehensive lists of traits and behaviors for your ideal girlfriend. Let's take a couple of things for granted so they don't get said over and over again.
One: good looking.
Two: faithful - not a cheater, liar, etc.
Three: whatever traits you describe as perfect are traits that she has naturally, not ones that she pretends to have just to make you like her.

So, describe your perfect girl (or guy) by character/personality traits and actions.
For example, one of the traits of my perfect guy is a good listener who also talks back. Action would be that he makes time just to be with me.

Got it?
Click to expand...

Any guys who like very thorough/anal rententive girls? =)
 
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: HotChic
I posted this more than a year ago and I was just looking (and laughing) at the original thread. Flamefest I did find some interesting answers and thought it might be cool to repost and see what some of the newer members respond.
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Let's get in a comprehensive lists of traits and behaviors for your ideal girlfriend. Let's take a couple of things for granted so they don't get said over and over again.
One: good looking.
Two: faithful - not a cheater, liar, etc.
Three: whatever traits you describe as perfect are traits that she has naturally, not ones that she pretends to have just to make you like her.

So, describe your perfect girl (or guy) by character/personality traits and actions.
For example, one of the traits of my perfect guy is a good listener who also talks back. Action would be that he makes time just to be with me.

Got it?
Click to expand...

Any guys who like very thorough/anal rententive girls? =)
Click to expand...

the anal part sounds good
 
My perfect girl: one whose absolutely honest 100% of the time. Is a talker since I'm shy, and doesn't mind the shy part. Is intelligent and cute and has a sense of humor.
 
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