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Kaido

Kaido

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In my professional opinion: you need to move across the country, pronto.

You are living in a crazy house! It has warped your view of women. Not all women are crazy, you just happen to live with some who are manipulative and it's clouding your judgement. You need to get out of that situation ASAP. I had a roommate like this once when I was young & didn't know any better - I was convinced that *I* was the crazy one until I realized that *he* was the issue. Move out, solve the problem. In all seriousness, are you willing to move out? If your family is willing to pawn your education for a measly few hundred dollars (which could be made by simply working a few days at the local McDonalds), then you need to escape that situation STAT!
 
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JumBie

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Kaido said:
In my professional opinion: you need to move across the country, pronto.

You are living in a crazy house! It has warped your view of women. Not all women are crazy, you just happen to live with some who are manipulative and it's clouding your judgement. You need to get out of that situation ASAP. I had a roommate like this once when I was young & didn't know any better - I was convinced that *I* was the crazy one until I realized that *he* was the issue. Move out, solve the problem. In all seriousness, are you willing to move out? If your family is willing to pawn your education for a measly few hundred dollars (which could be made by simply working a few days at the local McDonalds), then you need to escape that situation STAT!
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I have moved out and lived on my own for 3 years. Best times of my life, i go to school literally 10 minutes from my my mothers house so I decided to stay here. Well, I live with all women, 4 to be exact. I have seen women at their worst, disgusting, and manipulative. I am the ONLY person in this "family" who legitimately cares for the well being of my mother, but guess what? Shes just a dumb broad like the 3 women she created. I use to think to my self why are my sisters so dumb, and why is it that they lie all the time, and use people for their money?

Well turns out I finally...just finally realized that the reason my sisters are all gold digging nimrods is because thats who my mother is. She tries to act all godly and church going, but the truth is, she married by father for his money. She has no education, and she was so happy when he passed away and left her with a TON of money. She always brags about how shes happy hes dead, and she uses things like how he did this or that as an excuse for her greedy ways.

Like...how the fuck could a lady who prays to god, who watches programming about god on television and who talks about god all the time be so stupid? She lies...like that's the worst, if your own mother lies to your face...then who the fuck do you trust? How the hell can a child grow up in this world being a good person, if the one person they love the most lies directly to their face, even in the name of their so called LORD AND SAVIOR.

Man I honestly feel like you, I use to tell my self when I doubted my self that i might be the one with the issue, that either I was being paranoid or judgemental or w.e the case may be. But it turns out, that I am right. My family is actually a bunch of terrible people who's only goal is to better them selves, and use each other in the process. Truth be told, when i have a career and a family I will NEVER....introduce them to my family, ever. Its just better that way.
 
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chimaxi83

chimaxi83

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JumBie said:
I came home after a night out with the boys, had about 6 beers over the course of 8 hours. Not drunk, or tipsy, or anything. I walk into my house and notice every single text book that I owned from university was missing from my shelf (How could i not notice a shelf that was half empty). I ask my mother if she knew where my text books were, she said no, I went back to my room and started thinking am I tripping out? like there is no way these text books could go missing. So I go back to my mom, and lets face it everyone who grew up with someone can tell if they were lying. I asked her to swear to god, considering she is a religious freak, and she said yes she had no idea where the books were she said "Ill have to look in the morning" lol like that even makes sense.

Anyways I had a hunch it was in a manipulative 28 year older sisters room who's been notorious for lying, scamming, and stealing. I ended having to "break into her room" (stick a screwdriver in the key lock) because she locks her door for no reason. And what do you know! all of my text books are sitting on her floor stacked up nicely, even my current textbooks that i still use because i have year long courses. Not only that but textbooks that i borrowed from friends were there too.

So guess what this sick disgusting person does? Because she knew I went out that night to a friends house, she naturally assumed I was drinking, so to make it seem like im "drunk" she says your breathe smells like alcohol I cant talk to you right now get out of my room you drunk fuck... Uh I am completely sober...lol. She says that my mom told her to take my books and sell them so that my mom could get money...lol well number one, my mom doesn't need any money so she wouldn't be asking for the money.

This is how I saw it play out. My manipulative older sister who has a shitty part time job at 28 years old, and a 31 year old boyfriend who still lives at home and has his mother buy him clothes, needed money desperately so she asked my mom if she could sell my old textbooks because I didn't need them. Sidenote: my mom purchased 2 textbooks for me because I didn't have the money at the time, but i paid her right back, total for those textbooks ($100). Anyways, she's jealous that my mom purchased the textbooks like she always is, so my mom gave her permission to take them and sell them, assuming that i didnt need them.

Well she goes and takes every single textbook that i own and purchased, and all of my borrowed books, and even books that aren't from school lol. Apparently her brain doesn't function correctly because she assumed that I would not notice that my textbooks were missing. Well my mother is equally as stupid because she blatantly lied, even though she praises god, she is easily manipulated by my sister. Well anyways I don't even give a shit anymore because it took this to prove to me that no 1. my older sister is a stupid fucking moron who will never succeed in life. And no 2. My mother is equally as stupid and manipulated (my sister stole $5000 from my mother, and she didnt say shit)

Oh well...its tough being a man in a house full of women, you think your mother cares but really shes just a dumb broad. All women are the same, even if they are family lol. Mother is all nice, the minute she sits down and talks with my sister (who fills her with lies) her mind magically changes and proceeds to believe everything that shes told. Funny, because all day long I listen to her talk shit about the same sister. Its magical you can't trust any women in life even if shes related to you. They are all dumb money hungry bitches who will squeeze you for everything you are worth. Oh yeh and by the way, all of my textbooks combined are worth $2000 dollars, so this is no joke.
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Didn't you just make a thread like this under a different banned user name in L&R?
 
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JumBie

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chimaxi83 said:
Didn't you just make a thread like this under a different banned user name in L&R?
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Absolutely true, tried to keep some anonymity, made that thread a few days ago. Is there a problem? If you think that calling me out on that is going to somehow make me feel bad, or guilty, or stupid, well I am sorry but it didn't work. Either you got something to contribute or you just want to stir up bs. If bs is the case, then take it else where.
 
chimaxi83

chimaxi83

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I was just curious.

Fyi, you're in OT, what kind of responses are you expecting?
 
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noobsrevenge

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Thats rough man, I hope it's a large house.

We need pics of the sisters to accurately assess the situation.
 
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JumBie

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chimaxi83 said:
I was just curious.

Fyi, you're in OT, what kind of responses are you expecting?
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Responses that are either good or bad, it doesn't matter. Someone can tell me that yes I am a douche and that I am clearly wrong. Or someone can tell me that I am right and that what I am saying is indeed true. It doesn't really matter. As a matter of fact just a response is general is good enough for me. Its a rant, I need to get this shit off my chest I need to clear my mind. Typing this shit out and putting it out there for the whole world to see helps, and I have no fear in terms of who reads it.
 
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gotsmack

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You need to GTFO. Just cut ties and run. How far away are you from finishing school? If you're not close, just join the Navy or Air Force and have your school paid for.
 
dr150

dr150

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Jumbie,
Like others have said, you need to get out of Dodge as soon as you reasonably can. The situation will never change with your mom/sis. And yes, as you paint it, you mom/sis-bf have chronic loser behavior.

It is what it is......Like the saying goes: You can choose your friends, not your family.

Btw, if it makes you feel any better, I'm going through this shit on my wife's side of the family. Loser FEMALE cousins and their loser bf's stealing/leeching the bank account of the Parkinsons diseased 86 yr. old Aunt and her $2k/mo. pension. The Aunt knowingly lets this happen. So little money is left in her account at the end of the month, that she barely can afford food or a $20 haircut. Aunt won't leave the house to socialize with friends b/c her hair looks bad, thus chronic deep depression has set in. The situation is deteriorating and I/wife can't do anything about it b/c it's done with consent. We can't help a person who won't help herself.

Every family has their stories and drama. I have yet to meet a family that doesn't have some flavor of really stupid shit going on.

The only way to deal with it is get away from it or stay and suffer along with people that are worth suffering with. In your case, fleeing is the best way to save your sanity. :colbert:
 
BoomerD

BoomerD

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Jeeebus said:
just because you've aged past your teenage years does not mean what you describe is not teenage drama.
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Exactly...I don't care if you're 40, this is pure teenage drama bullshit.


JumBie said:
Not a teenager, far from.
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Still in school...still living with mommy...doesn't sound like you're too far from your teenage years...

As has already been mentioned...GTFO. It really IS the only way to put a stop to this kind of bullshit. Will it be easy? Probably not. Will it add to your daily stress levels? Probably...you might even have to get a job to help support yourself. (if you don't already) BUT...what's more stressful? Working and going to college...and scraping by, or putting up with the bullshit like you mentioned in your first post?
 
NesuD

NesuD

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And here you are feeding your own drama by involving total strangers. Think about that a bit.
 
CPA

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JumBie said:
Not a teenager, far from.
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Then what the fuck are you doing living with your mother?

If my kids are still living with me in their mid to late 20's I will shoot myself. Fuck that.
 
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