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Cuda1447

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I was on the wrestling team in HS and as a result know the kind of fucked up shit they do. With that said, good for him for calling teh cops. Just because SOME boys will be disgusting little fucktards doesn't mean it should be accepted by the rest of us. Never in my life have I ever had an urge to do that to someone and I can't for the life of me understand why any normal boy would.
 

Icepick

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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
I was on the wrestling team in HS and as a result know the kind of fucked up shit they do. With that said, good for him for calling teh cops. Just because SOME boys will be disgusting little fucktards doesn't mean it should be accepted by the rest of us. Never in my life have I ever had an urge to do that to someone and I can't for the life of me understand why any normal boy would.

QFT
 

moshquerade

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Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: Turin39789
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: onlyCOpunk
i'd call the cops too. that's not boys being boys. I don't know many boys that joke around with each other by putting their testicles in each others faces, and the ones i know that do do it, aren't doing it for a joke.

calling the cops was stupid. a reprimand from the coach/principal would've been sufficient.

if it had been a female getting teabagged? Teabagging is not normal hazing, and I'd have reported him.
You offering? :laugh:
 

ch33kym0use

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nothin wrong with a little harmless bullying although when its excessive then the shit is serious and bully must fail
 
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This reminds me of a report done (not sure by whom) about some hazing done at a high school. It was in a fairly small town, and the high school football was the big thing in the town (I don't think it was in Texas before anyone asks, although I might be wrong). Anyways, they had typical hazing rituals, but there was a case that was just completely WTF. A group of the players basically surrounded a kid in the locker room, taped/tied him to a bench. I think they hit him with a wooden paddle (the kid was naked). Did some other stuff, but somehow they ended up sodomizing him with a broom handle (might've been something else).

The kid didn't tell anyone about it but quit the team, which caused his parents to wonder what was going on. He ended up telling them, and they told the school, which didn't do much, so they took it to the police. It became a huge issue, with most of the town being against the kid for taking it to the police. I just couldn't believe how stupid the whole thing was, and feel sorry for the kid.

And sorry, but anyone who thinks teabagging is normal behavior needs to be checked. Anybody who actually does it needs their ass kicked.
 

kevman

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that's pretty gay right there, I don't see why he shouldn't complain.
 

Red Dawn

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Jun 4, 2001
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Originally posted by: Wheezer
Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong
Note to OP: actually touching another boy's mouth with your raw nuts is not "just boys being boys"...or at least it wasn't when I was a teenager.

You know...some people need to check their sarcasm meters....I put provocative titles like that just for attention grabbing....and it seems to work a vast majority of the time....so dig the panties out of your ass, have a beer and calm down.

This kind of thing has gone on throught the ages, only now in this politically correct atmosphere of "not keeping score so no feelings get hurt" do the cops get involved.

The kid just made it worse for himself...now is he not only the tebagee of the team, he is also a pansy because he could not take the hazing....if he had handled it on his own by seeking revenge without the cops at least he could have gained back some respect.

25 years from now at the reunion this will still be talked about...

"say remember when Johnny's mom and dad called the police because Randy dipped his nuts in his mouth?"

The teabagger's lucky that kid didn't take a bat to his head.
 

Red Dawn

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Jun 4, 2001
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Originally posted by: dbk
Would you want to be friends with a guy who called the cops for some lame shit like this? What a pussy.

You'd probably enjoy that shit wouldn't ya.
 

hiromizu

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Heh. One time during practice back in high school, we stuck a carrot up some kid's ass and peed on him when he passed out after getting checked.
 

Taejin

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Originally posted by: Wheezer
Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong
Note to OP: actually touching another boy's mouth with your raw nuts is not "just boys being boys"...or at least it wasn't when I was a teenager.

You know...some people need to check their sarcasm meters....I put provocative titles like that just for attention grabbing....and it seems to work a vast majority of the time....so dig the panties out of your ass, have a beer and calm down.

This kind of thing has gone on throught the ages, only now in this politically correct atmosphere of "not keeping score so no feelings get hurt" do the cops get involved.

The kid just made it worse for himself...now is he not only the tebagee of the team, he is also a pansy because he could not take the hazing....if he had handled it on his own by seeking revenge without the cops at least he could have gained back some respect.

25 years from now at the reunion this will still be talked about...

"say remember when Johnny's mom and dad called the police because Randy dipped his nuts in his mouth?"

yeah Wheezer would gladly take the abuse, even if he was violated anally. I bet he'd even tell himself that it was just part of the 'hazing'.
 
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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: dbk
Would you want to be friends with a guy who called the cops for some lame shit like this? What a pussy.

You'd probably enjoy that shit wouldn't ya.

This begs for that, I think bash.org, quote, where the guy asks the person if someone took them camping and they woke up with a used condom in their ass the next morning if they would tell anyone about it.
 

Gothgar

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Sep 1, 2004
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Originally posted by: darkswordsman17
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: dbk
Would you want to be friends with a guy who called the cops for some lame shit like this? What a pussy.

You'd probably enjoy that shit wouldn't ya.

This begs for that, I think bash.org, quote, where the guy asks the person if someone took them camping and they woke up with a used condom in their ass the next morning if they would tell anyone about it.

luuulz
 

ThePresence

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Nov 19, 2001
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Originally posted by: hiromizu
Heh. One time during practice back in high school, we stuck a carrot up some kid's ass and peed on him when he passed out after getting checked.

Haha, that's so funny. :roll:
 

badkarma1399

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Originally posted by: Icepick
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
I was on the wrestling team in HS and as a result know the kind of fucked up shit they do. With that said, good for him for calling teh cops. Just because SOME boys will be disgusting little fucktards doesn't mean it should be accepted by the rest of us. Never in my life have I ever had an urge to do that to someone and I can't for the life of me understand why any normal boy would.

QFT

100% agreed. Anyone willing to teabag someone has some serious issues. Whats next for them? Assualt & battery, rape?
 

Buck Armstrong

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Dec 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: Wheezer
Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong
Note to OP: actually touching another boy's mouth with your raw nuts is not "just boys being boys"...or at least it wasn't when I was a teenager.

You know...some people need to check their sarcasm meters....I put provocative titles like that just for attention grabbing....and it seems to work a vast majority of the time....so dig the panties out of your ass, have a beer and calm down.

This kind of thing has gone on throught the ages, only now in this politically correct atmosphere of "not keeping score so no feelings get hurt" do the cops get involved.

The kid just made it worse for himself...now is he not only the tebagee of the team, he is also a pansy because he could not take the hazing....if he had handled it on his own by seeking revenge without the cops at least he could have gained back some respect.

25 years from now at the reunion this will still be talked about...

"say remember when Johnny's mom and dad called the police because Randy dipped his nuts in his mouth?"

I agree on most of that. We teased and harrased each other too as teenagers, but it never went as far as actual insertion of male genitals into another male's mouth. I consider that crossing the line, especially at the age when such a thing can have negative social consequences, as you rightly pointed out. If someone had done that to me, I would've tried my best to beat the living shit out of them.

However, I never said I would take it legal, and on that point I totally agree with you. I'm against almost all aspects of our current whiny, feminized, overly-sensitive culture of litigation and political correctness. But crying over being called a name or given a wedgie is a bit different than having an actual dick rammed in your mouth in front of other kids...whether you see the difference or not.

Furthermore, when this scrotum-breathed kid strolls into the school and opens fire, I'll know exactly why it happened, while all the former jock assholes who tortured the kid pretend they bear no responsibility and have no idea what caused it.
 

BigJ

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Nov 18, 2001
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Originally posted by: darkswordsman17
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: dbk
Would you want to be friends with a guy who called the cops for some lame shit like this? What a pussy.

You'd probably enjoy that shit wouldn't ya.

This begs for that, I think bash.org, quote, where the guy asks the person if someone took them camping and they woke up with a used condom in their ass the next morning if they would tell anyone about it.

That joke has been around since way before bash.org.
 

StormRider

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Is there something weird with our culture where there is a lot of homo-erotic hazing going on? Our soldiers did the same thing with Iraqi prisoners. Do other countries have the same sort of hazing/teasing going on? Or is it unique to US culture?
 

Turin39789

Lifer
Nov 21, 2000
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Turin39789
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: onlyCOpunk
i'd call the cops too. that's not boys being boys. I don't know many boys that joke around with each other by putting their testicles in each others faces, and the ones i know that do do it, aren't doing it for a joke.

calling the cops was stupid. a reprimand from the coach/principal would've been sufficient.

if it had been a female getting teabagged? Teabagging is not normal hazing, and I'd have reported him.
You offering? :laugh:

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alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: paulxcook
Calling the cops sounds like revenge to me.

Yeah...it wasn't like the dude just put his sack in his head...apparently they were in his mouth...a bit different.

Someone pulls that shit with me all those involved are getting fucked.
 

destrekor

Lifer
Nov 18, 2005
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Originally posted by: Turin39789
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: onlyCOpunk
i'd call the cops too. that's not boys being boys. I don't know many boys that joke around with each other by putting their testicles in each others faces, and the ones i know that do do it, aren't doing it for a joke.

calling the cops was stupid. a reprimand from the coach/principal would've been sufficient.

if it had been a female getting teabagged? Teabagging is not normal hazing, and I'd have reported him.

Reported him? Fuck that, I'd have kicked his ass. Stop depending on society to bear the weight of your problems.
 

Saint Michael

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Aug 4, 2007
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: paulxcook
Calling the cops sounds like revenge to me.

Yeah...it wasn't like the dude just put his sack in his head...apparently they were in his mouth...a bit different.

Someone pulls that shit with me all those involved are getting fucked.

Right, it's not gay if you do the fucking!
 

Wheezer

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Nov 2, 1999
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Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong
Originally posted by: Wheezer
Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong
Note to OP: actually touching another boy's mouth with your raw nuts is not "just boys being boys"...or at least it wasn't when I was a teenager.

You know...some people need to check their sarcasm meters....I put provocative titles like that just for attention grabbing....and it seems to work a vast majority of the time....so dig the panties out of your ass, have a beer and calm down.

This kind of thing has gone on throught the ages, only now in this politically correct atmosphere of "not keeping score so no feelings get hurt" do the cops get involved.

The kid just made it worse for himself...now is he not only the tebagee of the team, he is also a pansy because he could not take the hazing....if he had handled it on his own by seeking revenge without the cops at least he could have gained back some respect.

25 years from now at the reunion this will still be talked about...

"say remember when Johnny's mom and dad called the police because Randy dipped his nuts in his mouth?"

Lets step back and think for a moment shall we?

1st no where in that article does it say that there was any insertion of anything at anytime.

My title implies it, the statement in then article clearly says this:

While the victim was pinned on his back, police said, the defendant approached, bent down and exposed his genitals in the victim's face.

The victim managed to free himself and went to a water cooler to rinse out his mouth, declaring "That was disgusting," according to the police report.


there is no mention of any insertion of anything anywhere.

Now this kind of thing goes on on college campuses everywhere....the first guy who passes out often gets his picture taken with someones junk in his face or someones ass cheeks resting on his head.

Pictures are taken via cell phone and a good laugh is had by all the morning after....no cops are called and then the following weekend someone else becomes the victim and the cycle starts all over.

Furthermore, when this scrotum-breathed kid strolls into the school and opens fire, I'll know exactly why it happened, while all the former jock assholes who tortured the kid pretend they bear no responsibility and have no idea what caused it.


yes, we should live in fear that any one at anytime will go on a shooting spree because their pride has been hurt.

You should be more concerned about getting hit by a drunk driver since that is far more likely to occur.
 

Fenixgoon

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Jun 30, 2003
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Originally posted by: Saint Michael
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: paulxcook
Calling the cops sounds like revenge to me.

Yeah...it wasn't like the dude just put his sack in his head...apparently they were in his mouth...a bit different.

Someone pulls that shit with me all those involved are getting fucked.

Right, it's not gay if you do the fucking!

it works that way in prison, doesn't it? :p
 

Buck Armstrong

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Dec 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: Wheezer
1st no where in that article does it say that there was any insertion of anything at anytime.

Now this kind of thing goes on on college campuses everywhere....the first guy who passes out often gets his picture taken with someones junk in his face or someones ass cheeks resting on his head.

OK, forget insertion then. I'd feel the same about being forcibly pinned down while another man's hairy bag just touched my lips. I guess we just disagree on that, but I guarantee you that if it was a GIRL pinned down, somebody would be going to fucking prison over it...so what does that tell you about the nature of the act?

I went to college and had plenty of fun, but I did not join a fraternity for a reason. I never craved male attention and validation enough to tie a cinderblock to my cock, or pick up bing cherries with my butt cheeks. I always thought that kind of "bonding" was for shallow meatheads, people stuck in a high school mentality, or those so desperate to fit in they'd do anything, and I still feel that way. Sure, we got drunk and picked on the first guy to pass out, but that meant tying his shoelaces together, drawing a mustache on him, or filling his hands full of shaving cream. It never involved ramming our naked genitalia or asses into their face. Just because you and your friends enjoyed taking photos of yourselves engaging in simulated gay sex with an unconscious person, doesn't mean its just normal "boys being boys".

That being said, I don't think its serious enough to sue over.
 

Anubis

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Aug 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: GenHoth
Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
Why would you put your balls on someone's face? It's a stupid thing to do and he deserves what he gets.

I take it you didn't play sports in high school?

i played 3 in HS and we never had this homoerotic BS going on