Originally posted by: BeauJangles
Originally posted by: TruePaige
Sure, why work hard and be a good person to pull yourself out of the ghetto when the world will make excuses for how you are a poor oppressed soul who was forced to become a murderous piece of scum gang banger.
Well when you have basically zero opportunity to get an education, to get a job, or to do anything other than deal drugs or join a gang... how do you think the majority of people would turn out?
I'm going to guess you didn't grow up in a ghetto. I'm going to guess that your life was, compared to these people, FULL of opportunities to lead a good life. Your answer is fucking bullshit because you just assume that everyone is like you. The folks who join these gangs grow up in terrible families with no role models. They don't get any positive reinforcement and the only people encouraging them are other guys encouraging them to pick up a gun.
You would be fucking astounded to realize how much a support network matters to producing men and women who are respectable, respected, hard-working, and humble. It's an absolutely critical stage of psychological development.
If you saw the documentary, look at a lot of these kids. One of them says at one point that he believes he is a good person, but he's forced to do bad things, to become "hard" to survive. That's the truth. These guys are just kids who are scared shitless and have no opportunities beyond becoming criminals.
Here is an idea... Stay in school. Don't have babies when you are a kid. Get good grades. Don't join a gang. Don't do drugs. It's the parents fault too, pumping out like a baby factory to get welfare money, not watching their kids, doing drugs, letting them run around.
Lots of people have gotten out of the ghetto and you know how they did it? Well it wasn't riding the train of excuses you made for them.
The people who get out of the ghetto KNOW they have a disadvantage but work hard to overcome it. Society even helps them with programs like (for the minorities) Affirmative Action. For everyone from the ghetto there are scholarships that are very underutilized for their regions, so easy to get with even modest grades, support networks, AmeriCorp, JobCorp, free insurance & food stamps / housing assistance / heating assistance to help you get on your feet.
Also, you can join the military, free housing, training, education, food, friendship, network of good, hard working people, what is so bad about that?
Hell, I've known quite a few people from single parent families that went into AmeriCorp, got to get out in the world, meet good people and get an education.
Not able to work and handle school at the same time? That's okay, get some student loans, go live in a dorm, and study your ass off for a brighter tomorrow.
Even out of the very few of the overall opportunities I've mentioned, you could take your pick and get out of the ghetto.
It's that self defeating, blame everyone else for your mistakes attitude that keeps you in the ghetto, and nothing else.
There are a MILLION opportunities.