Yet another girl thread!

[smp]

Originally posted by: Yield
Whatever, I am confident this girl will eventually get it thru her skull. her roommate (my friend - that's how we met) told her what the dealyo was (i talked to him) and apparently she didn't "understand"

... lol........

yeah .. girls don't understand when you don't like them back .. cause they're used to desperate boys in high school .. I'm 24 in a couple of weeks, this girl is 20 .. I guess she doesn't understand that unlike 15 year old boys .. us 'older guys' need more convincing.

I don't kill kittens every chance I can get anymore ... I prefer a fully matured pussy.

pussycat!!! mods .. pussycat!

(playing on the whole "killing kittens" thing .. don't ban me)

 

[CraigRT]

haha, nice, smp....
i'll be 22 and this girl is 19. :Q

 

[gotsmack]

just tell her what I told you to say word for word and you should be fine. The funny thing about life (atleast my life anyway) is that the girls I like don't like me back and the ones I couldn't care any less about won't leave me alone.

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: gotsmack
just tell her what I told you to say word for word and you should be fine. The funny thing about life (atleast my life anyway) is that the girls I like don't like me back and the ones I couldn't care any less about won't leave me alone.

dude, that happens with everyone time to time. not cool...

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: Sealy
Yes talk to her! I would much rather be told the truth, no matter how much it hurt than to always be grasping at what might be. After all it sounds like she's getting in deep with you, so best end it before it goes any further. That means no contact what so ever with her! Clean break. She'll get over it we all do!

That's exactly what I did.
We really were hitting it off nice in the beginning. It was very NICE .. you know, like the kind of nice that parents would like. We watched a movie one night. We went to centre island (this is in Toronto BTW) one day and had an amazing time being hungry (everything was closed goddamit, I was supposed to buy her lunch) .. we did the whole romantic thing by the water .. the romantic thing in the garden maze thing .. the romantic thing on the bridge by some fvcking swans .. I'm telling you this was like the picture perfect date, best date I've ever been on actually. After we got back ashore (taking the ferry, oh how romantic!!!) .. I bought her dinner and we shared an appetizer of shrimp, cause she's never had shrimp before .. HOW SWEET!
We fell asleep on each other on the way home on the subway and it was VERY NICE!!!
Now .. after a few days I wanted to talk to her .. I mentioned that I wasn't sure .. "of what?" .. "of this whole thing you know, we're getting very married already" .. "what do you mean?" .. "well I don't know if this is what I want. I like you, but something is holding me back and my gut instinct is to get out. It shouldn't be that way, that is a bad sign. I don't want to string you along and make you think things that aren't there or won't happen. Better I come out and say it now rather than later." .. and etc etc
her reply to all this was .. "well I don't agree!"
and
"I like you too much to just let it end right now"
I think she thinks that she can convince me .. my mind is made up.

 

[gotsmack]

well if from time to time you mean my entirer life then yea I agree with you. I haven't been out on one date with one girl that I really liked, ever! Just a bunch of dates with girls that I thought were OK but liked them less and less as the date went on.

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: smp

Originally posted by: Sealy
Yes talk to her! I would much rather be told the truth, no matter how much it hurt than to always be grasping at what might be. After all it sounds like she's getting in deep with you, so best end it before it goes any further. That means no contact what so ever with her! Clean break. She'll get over it we all do!

That's exactly what I did.
We really were hitting it off nice in the beginning. It was very NICE .. you know, like the kind of nice that parents would like. We watched a movie one night. We went to centre island (this is in Toronto BTW) one day and had an amazing time being hungry (everything was closed goddamit, I was supposed to buy her lunch) .. we did the whole romantic thing by the water .. the romantic thing in the garden maze thing .. the romantic thing on the bridge by some fvcking swans .. I'm telling you this was like the picture perfect date, best date I've ever been on actually. After we got back ashore (taking the ferry, oh how romantic!!!) .. I bought her dinner and we shared an appetizer of shrimp, cause she's never had shrimp before .. HOW SWEET!
We fell asleep on each other on the way home on the subway and it was VERY NICE!!!
Now .. after a few days I wanted to talk to her .. I mentioned that I wasn't sure .. "of what?" .. "of this whole thing you know, we're getting very married already" .. "what do you mean?" .. "well I don't know if this is what I want. I like you, but something is holding me back and my gut instinct is to get out. It shouldn't be that way, that is a bad sign. I don't want to string you along and make you think things that aren't there or won't happen. Better I come out and say it now rather than later." .. and etc etc
her reply to all this was .. "well I don't agree!"
and
"I like you too much to just let it end right now"
I think she thinks that she can convince me .. my mind is made up.

Dude, that's insane.. aside from the picture perfect date thing it totally sounds like me... :Q

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: Yield

Originally posted by: smp

Originally posted by: Sealy Yes talk to her! I would much rather be told the truth, no matter how much it hurt than to always be grasping at what might be. After all it sounds like she's getting in deep with you, so best end it before it goes any further. That means no contact what so ever with her! Clean break. She'll get over it we all do!

That's exactly what I did. We really were hitting it off nice in the beginning. It was very NICE .. you know, like the kind of nice that parents would like. We watched a movie one night. We went to centre island (this is in Toronto BTW) one day and had an amazing time being hungry (everything was closed goddamit, I was supposed to buy her lunch) .. we did the whole romantic thing by the water .. the romantic thing in the garden maze thing .. the romantic thing on the bridge by some fvcking swans .. I'm telling you this was like the picture perfect date, best date I've ever been on actually. After we got back ashore (taking the ferry, oh how romantic!!!) .. I bought her dinner and we shared an appetizer of shrimp, cause she's never had shrimp before .. HOW SWEET! We fell asleep on each other on the way home on the subway and it was VERY NICE!!! Now .. after a few days I wanted to talk to her .. I mentioned that I wasn't sure .. "of what?" .. "of this whole thing you know, we're getting very married already" .. "what do you mean?" .. "well I don't know if this is what I want. I like you, but something is holding me back and my gut instinct is to get out. It shouldn't be that way, that is a bad sign. I don't want to string you along and make you think things that aren't there or won't happen. Better I come out and say it now rather than later." .. and etc etc her reply to all this was .. "well I don't agree!" and "I like you too much to just let it end right now" I think she thinks that she can convince me .. my mind is made up.

Dude, that's insane.. aside from the picture perfect date thing it totally sounds like me... :Q

Is this like fight club?

You're canadian aren't you?

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: gotsmack
well if from time to time you mean my entirer life then yea I agree with you. I haven't been out on one date with one girl that I really liked, ever! Just a bunch of dates with girls that I thought were OK but liked them less and less as the date went on.

Your luck will improve my friend, no worries.

 

[hdeck]

Originally posted by: Yield

Maybe it's cause she's religious

LMAO that'd do it for me too.. that gets the big THUMBS DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!

wow, sucks you man.

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: smp

Originally posted by: Yield

Originally posted by: smp

Originally posted by: Sealy Yes talk to her! I would much rather be told the truth, no matter how much it hurt than to always be grasping at what might be. After all it sounds like she's getting in deep with you, so best end it before it goes any further. That means no contact what so ever with her! Clean break. She'll get over it we all do!

That's exactly what I did. We really were hitting it off nice in the beginning. It was very NICE .. you know, like the kind of nice that parents would like. We watched a movie one night. We went to centre island (this is in Toronto BTW) one day and had an amazing time being hungry (everything was closed goddamit, I was supposed to buy her lunch) .. we did the whole romantic thing by the water .. the romantic thing in the garden maze thing .. the romantic thing on the bridge by some fvcking swans .. I'm telling you this was like the picture perfect date, best date I've ever been on actually. After we got back ashore (taking the ferry, oh how romantic!!!) .. I bought her dinner and we shared an appetizer of shrimp, cause she's never had shrimp before .. HOW SWEET! We fell asleep on each other on the way home on the subway and it was VERY NICE!!! Now .. after a few days I wanted to talk to her .. I mentioned that I wasn't sure .. "of what?" .. "of this whole thing you know, we're getting very married already" .. "what do you mean?" .. "well I don't know if this is what I want. I like you, but something is holding me back and my gut instinct is to get out. It shouldn't be that way, that is a bad sign. I don't want to string you along and make you think things that aren't there or won't happen. Better I come out and say it now rather than later." .. and etc etc her reply to all this was .. "well I don't agree!" and "I like you too much to just let it end right now" I think she thinks that she can convince me .. my mind is made up.

Dude, that's insane.. aside from the picture perfect date thing it totally sounds like me... :Q

Is this like fight club?

You're canadian aren't you?

Yeah man I am from London, Ont... LOL!

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: hdeck

Originally posted by: Yield

Maybe it's cause she's religious

LMAO that'd do it for me too.. that gets the big THUMBS DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!

wow, sucks you man.

dude, religion is the root of all evil

TRY TO CONVINCE ME OTHERWISE AND PREPARE TO BE PWNED.

 

[Blieb]

The way I see it, you only have two choices.

1) Bone one of her friends.
2) Send her my way for an evenin.

 

[gotsmack]

this kinda remonds me of the seinfeld episode where George wants to break up with this chick but she doesn't want to break up.

he makes a statement that was realy funny that was something to the effect of:

This isn't like launching missles from a submarine, where both both people have to turn their keys. When one person wants out thats it. I'm forcing you to turn your key!

 

[smp]

On a aide note .. I would like to thank Yeild and Gotsmack for sharing their experiences with me, and the rest of us. Isn't it nice to have a YAGT on ATOT that isn't about liking some girl that thinks you're invisible, or being dumped. Thank you.


Oh yeah .. funny thing this is happening (and has happened) cause here is moi!

of course I do wear contacts during the day
it's like jekyl and hide up in here hah!

 

[ElFenix]

you can give her my number

<--- cuddles

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: Billy7777
The way I see it, you only have two choices.

1) Bone one of her friends.
2) Send her my way for an evenin.

#2 = done

she has no attractive friends thus far.

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: ElFenix
you can give her my number <--- cuddles

Taht means you like to cuddle?
Dude, I am cuddler #1
I ownz you @ cuddling. Sometimes I would rather cuddle than *GASP* .. do the nasty!!!

oh lord! :Q

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: smp

Originally posted by: ElFenix
you can give her my number <--- cuddles

Taht means you like to cuddle?
Dude, I am cuddler #1
I ownz you @ cuddling. Sometimes I would rather cuddle than *GASP* .. do the nasty!!!

oh lord! :Q

I LOVE cuddling.. sometimes it just feels even more right.. I agree. :Q

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: Yield

Originally posted by: smp

Originally posted by: ElFenix you can give her my number <--- cuddles

Taht means you like to cuddle? Dude, I am cuddler #1 I ownz you @ cuddling. Sometimes I would rather cuddle than *GASP* .. do the nasty!!! oh lord! :Q

I LOVE cuddling.. sometimes it just feels even more right.. I agree. :Q

Especially after the nasty .. you know, in that two seconds before you pass out

 

[heartsurgeon]

ATOT to the rescue!!!

just e-mail her a copy of this thread!

she won't be calling you anymore..

 

[saben107]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: Yield

Originally posted by: Deeko
Have a nice long chat with her. Tell her that it isn't going to work, ya know, the usual.

That probably doesn't help you.

I can't see that helping him any.. (and me for that matter)

sorry smp, i am kinda borrowing your thread a bit...

What would you like us to say? That's what you should do. Rather than avoiding her, trying not to hurt her feelings, you have to have a conversation with her, tell her it isn't going to work between you, that you don't dislike her, it just doesn't feel right. There isn't much else you can do, unless you want to hurt her feelings. Which I would not recommend.

edit: if she really is in to you, its going to hurt her no matter what. You just gotta try to make it as little pain as possible.

very well put!

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: heartsurgeon
ATOT to the rescue!!! just e-mail her a copy of this thread! she won't be calling you anymore..

I don't want to be responsible for anyone's untimely suicide, thanks :\

 

[Sealy]

Awe! It's so nice to hear that guys like to cuddle as well!

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: Sealy
Awe! It's so nice to hear that guys like to cuddle as well!

you're damn right

from what i've read and experienced ( ) more so than women sometimes.