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Lifer
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every day. hah.

graduated with a BA in English Lit last May. Since then, I've had 3 different jobs, all in pretty different fields.

my first job after graduation was doing sales (group sales for a tourism-based company. most of my job was just planning vacations for groups of 50+).

in September, I transfered to a different job in the same company -- managing their website and internet marketing. it was a nice pay raise, but the pay wasn't enough to make it worth the extra work I had to put in and stress I had to deal with (it was a high profile job... meaning that even though I was only making $24K, if I messed up... or even if I didn't mess up and sales fell through despite all the marketing promotions I had going on, I had to hear about it from 2 VP's and the President of the company).

quit that job in November, and moved over to an IT job. I work at a Data Center, building, monitoring, and repairing dedicated servers. The pay is not so great (30K) and the hours are kinda sucky (graveyard shift, at least till some people quit/transfer out). But on the other hand... no dress code, cool co-workers, and cool bosses. the general attitude of the company is get your work done, get it done right, and no one will bother you. I've never had anyone on my back about what I'm working on (except maybe when I was in training).

that's in opposition to my original sales job, where if it was pretty slow and I took a breather, I had someone up my arse about what I was doing and why I wasn't doing work.

on the other hand, though, the pay, hours, and stress are sorta getting to me. I've been thinking about maybe going back to grad school to pick up a PhD in something (either English Lit or Rhetoric... or possibly Comp. Engineering)
 

Orsorum

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Xiety
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Xiety
We all have those times...

I am a management major, who is in his 3rd year in college, and is planning to double major in marketing as well.

Hoping to graduate with double majors in 4,5 years total college time.

:Q Can't you do one double concentration or something?

double majoring is not that hard. 6 or 7 more classes and you got 2 degrees.

That's what I thought, but why an extra year?
 

Turkish

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Xiety
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Xiety
We all have those times...

I am a management major, who is in his 3rd year in college, and is planning to double major in marketing as well.

Hoping to graduate with double majors in 4,5 years total college time.

:Q Can't you do one double concentration or something?

double majoring is not that hard. 6 or 7 more classes and you got 2 degrees.

That's what I thought, but why an extra year?

Extra semester you mean? I said 4,5 (four and a half) years. Not 5 years ;)
 

NTB

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Mar 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: notfred
I've been in Computer Science for almost 5 years now and still haven't graduated. The only thing I'm really interested in lately is, well, female (and she'll be gone all summer :()... school is getting old.

I've got the same problem :eek: Only big difference is that she's in her final semester...and is so stressed because of all the class work that she's basically been holed up in her apartment since January and doesn't plan on coming out until graduation . It frustrates me to no end, but I understand how she feels - I had a semester like that last fall, and this one isn't much better. And so I await May 5th...

EDIT: And for my own part: I felt like you do, and as a result, I'm spending an extra year and a half in school. Got mos of the way through a Biology / Environmental Science major when the chemistry started going over my head...so I started to think about changing majors. Also found out that my dopey advisor had shoved me straight into my major, and left out a bunch of the core courses that I needed. So I spent a year getting those out of the way, and taking a couple of "exploratory" classes to find out what I might change my major to. Tried IS first; decided it was too much buisness and not enough computers. Then I tried a couple of the CS courses, and loved it :) . I still like it - like trying to figure out programs and learning the languages - but all the theory that we're doing now is giving me a headache. And notfred is right - after 5 years, school is getting old. Good thing I didn't have to pay for the majority of it :)

Nate

Nate
 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: Xiety
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Xiety
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Xiety
We all have those times...

I am a management major, who is in his 3rd year in college, and is planning to double major in marketing as well.

Hoping to graduate with double majors in 4,5 years total college time.

:Q Can't you do one double concentration or something?

double majoring is not that hard. 6 or 7 more classes and you got 2 degrees.

That's what I thought, but why an extra year?

Extra semester you mean? I said 4,5 (four and a half) years. Not 5 years ;)

Oops, :eek:.
 

bradruth

Lifer
Aug 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: jurzdevil
the title of the thread makes it look like an advertisment for a cult

Which part?

"Ever have trouble figuring out what you want to do? Feel like you have no direction, no purpose, in life? Do you feel like nobody cares? We do. Join us...become us..."

:D
 

skim milk

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Apr 8, 2003
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i still have no clue


started as an engineering major my freshman year, switched to biology my sophomore year... the engineering classes brought my gpa down so im still working on bringing my gpa above 3.0

I want to go into the medical field.. psychiatry mainly.

Hopefully that works out for me in the future.
 

KarenMarie

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Sep 20, 2003
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I have worked in many different industries.
I am 40yrs. old and have no idea what I wanna be when I grow up.

;)
 

Orsorum

Lifer
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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
I have worked in many different industries.
I am 40yrs. old and have no idea what I wanna be when I grow up.

;)

What do you do now?
 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: jurzdevil
the title of the thread makes it look like an advertisment for a cult

Which part?

"Ever have trouble figuring out what you want to do? Feel like you have no direction, no purpose, in life? Do you feel like nobody cares? We do. Join us...become us..."

:D

Your ideas are intriguing to me and I wish to subscribe to your newsletter.
 

bradruth

Lifer
Aug 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: jurzdevil
the title of the thread makes it look like an advertisment for a cult

Which part?

"Ever have trouble figuring out what you want to do? Feel like you have no direction, no purpose, in life? Do you feel like nobody cares? We do. Join us...become us..."

:D

Your ideas are intriguing to me and I wish to subscribe to your newsletter.

Haha, classic. I should watch a few episodes on DVD right now...
 

DT4K

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Jan 21, 2002
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I've been all of these majors at one time or another:
Political Science
Psychology
Chemistry
History
General Science
Computer Science.

I've seriously considered graduate programs in Architecture, Law, Business, Computer Science, Chemistry, Physics, Biology.

So yeah, I've had some trouble figuring out what I want to do.

I ended up getting my first bachelor's degree in General Science w/ emphasis in Chemistry and Psychology after switching majors many many times. I interviewed for one job as a lab tech at a biotech firm and didn't get the job. Then I had an interview for a sales job in the investment fund industry and a sales job in the insurance industry. I was offered the insurance sales job but decided that was definitely not what I wanted to do.

So I decided to go back to school and major in CS in 1999 because it looked lucrative and I had really been into computers when I was younger and had enjoyed the one programming class I took in college.

Within a couple weeks of starting my first term of CS classes (Programming I, Databases, Networks, Discrete Structures), I finally knew that this was exactly what I wanted to do. I've been a professional software developer for 3 years now and I really enjoy it. But I still have trouble deciding what I want to do. I know I want to work in technology, but I definitely don't want to just keep writing windows business apps forever.
 

DT4K

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Jan 21, 2002
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Originally posted by: NTB
Originally posted by: notfred
I've been in Computer Science for almost 5 years now and still haven't graduated. The only thing I'm really interested in lately is, well, female (and she'll be gone all summer :()... school is getting old.

I've got the same problem :eek: Only big difference is that she's in her final semester...and is so stressed because of all the class work that she's basically been holed up in her apartment since January and doesn't plan on coming out until graduation . It frustrates me to no end, but I understand how she feels - I had a semester like that last fall, and this one isn't much better. And so I await May 5th...

EDIT: And for my own part: I felt like you do, and as a result, I'm spending an extra year and a half in school. Got mos of the way through a Biology / Environmental Science major when the chemistry started going over my head...so I started to think about changing majors. Also found out that my dopey advisor had shoved me straight into my major, and left out a bunch of the core courses that I needed. So I spent a year getting those out of the way, and taking a couple of "exploratory" classes to find out what I might change my major to. Tried IS first; decided it was too much buisness and not enough computers. Then I tried a couple of the CS courses, and loved it :) . I still like it - like trying to figure out programs and learning the languages - but all the theory that we're doing now is giving me a headache. And notfred is right - after 5 years, school is getting old. Good thing I didn't have to pay for the majority of it :)

Nate

Nate

5 years is nothing. I spent 13 years as an off and on, part-time/full-time college student.:D
 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: Shanti
Originally posted by: NTB
Originally posted by: notfred
I've been in Computer Science for almost 5 years now and still haven't graduated. The only thing I'm really interested in lately is, well, female (and she'll be gone all summer :()... school is getting old.

I've got the same problem :eek: Only big difference is that she's in her final semester...and is so stressed because of all the class work that she's basically been holed up in her apartment since January and doesn't plan on coming out until graduation . It frustrates me to no end, but I understand how she feels - I had a semester like that last fall, and this one isn't much better. And so I await May 5th...

EDIT: And for my own part: I felt like you do, and as a result, I'm spending an extra year and a half in school. Got mos of the way through a Biology / Environmental Science major when the chemistry started going over my head...so I started to think about changing majors. Also found out that my dopey advisor had shoved me straight into my major, and left out a bunch of the core courses that I needed. So I spent a year getting those out of the way, and taking a couple of "exploratory" classes to find out what I might change my major to. Tried IS first; decided it was too much buisness and not enough computers. Then I tried a couple of the CS courses, and loved it :) . I still like it - like trying to figure out programs and learning the languages - but all the theory that we're doing now is giving me a headache. And notfred is right - after 5 years, school is getting old. Good thing I didn't have to pay for the majority of it :)

Nate

Nate

5 years is nothing. I spent 13 years as an off and on, part-time/full-time college student.:D

:Q

I want to be done by the time I'm 30, including law school and any DBA or LLD programs I'd end up doing.
 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: Shanti
I've been all of these majors at one time or another:
Political Science
Psychology
Chemistry
History
General Science
Computer Science.

I've seriously considered graduate programs in Architecture, Law, Business, Computer Science, Chemistry, Physics, Biology.

So yeah, I've had some trouble figuring out what I want to do.

I ended up getting my first bachelor's degree in General Science w/ emphasis in Chemistry and Psychology after switching majors many many times. I interviewed for one job as a lab tech at a biotech firm and didn't get the job. Then I had an interview for a sales job in the investment fund industry and a sales job in the insurance industry. I was offered the insurance sales job but decided that was definitely not what I wanted to do.

So I decided to go back to school and major in CS in 1999 because it looked lucrative and I had really been into computers when I was younger and had enjoyed the one programming class I took in college.

Within a couple weeks of starting my first term of CS classes (Programming I, Databases, Networks, Discrete Structures), I finally knew that this was exactly what I wanted to do. I've been a professional software developer for 3 years now and I really enjoy it. But I still have trouble deciding what I want to do. I know I want to work in technology, but I definitely don't want to just keep writing windows business apps forever.

Mmm... so perhaps my best option is just to keep doing what I'm doing? :p Enjoy my time in school and just be ready to switch jobs from time to time and just do whatever I'm interested in?
 

bradruth

Lifer
Aug 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Shanti5 years is nothing. I spent 13 years as an off and on, part-time/full-time college student.:D

:Q

I want to be done by the time I'm 30, including law school and any DBA or LLD programs I'd end up doing.

*Shudder* Too much school! I'm a sophomore and I'm ready to be done already. It's a good thing I got that job so I can begin the transition, 'cuz I'm getting restless here. :confused:
 

Staying in one field for your life is incredibly boring. How can you want to plan out your entire life and career?

Just get through school, then develop what is IMPORTANT. Which is people networks, and human relationships.
Thoes relationships trump any education.
 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: SampSon
Staying in one field for your life is incredibly boring. How can you want to plan out your entire life and career?

Just get through school, then develop what is IMPORTANT. Which is people networks, and human relationships.
Thoes relationships trump any education.

Hmm... must work on those.