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YAGTT: GF wants time off away from me

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You two have serious issues...go find other people so both of you know how much work goes in a relationship. Then when you two grow up, see each other again.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Hankysmoo
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
for those that didnt read..

he broke up with her
begs for her back
she gives second chance
he wants to take shower with her
she says no (feels uncomfy cause roommates are home)
he gets ticked and whines
she wants to see rotk and tells him to get up
he not wanting to do what she says doesnt get up
he tells her fine leave then
he chases after her when she leaves
he calls her and wont end conversation while she is trying to get home
she hangs up on him because of this.
she doesnt answer phone while on her way home (2 hour drive)
she doesnt want to see him

To me it seems like hes the problem. but then again. What do i know.. shes probably getting banged by her guy friends. 😛

Cliff notes for the cliff notes please!

=P

Sheesh.. Just take some ritalin already!

😉

Cliffnotes:

She's a bitch who has a leash on his dick
He's a pussy who doesnt have a clue



 
Why does this sound freakly familiar ? Oh wait I have been thru this with my current GF. Both of us get along a lot better now. You need to tell you GF to learn the meaning of respect. All GFs/wifes tell their BFs/husbands what to do but its the way in which they say it that makes the difference.
 
There are a few fundamental truths in life.

We are all going to die
The earth is round
"I need space" / "Let's take a break" / Anything of the sort = There is someone else, your relationship is over [period].

It sucks, but it's true. Run now before you get hurt even more later on when you find out the REAL truth.

 
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
for those that didnt read..

he broke up with her
begs for her back
she gives second chance
he wants to take shower with her
she says no (feels uncomfy cause roommates are home)
he gets ticked and whines
she wants to see rotk and tells him to get up
he not wanting to do what she says doesnt get up
he tells her fine leave then
he chases after her when she leaves
he calls her and wont end conversation while she is trying to get home
she hangs up on him because of this.
she doesnt answer phone while on her way home (2 hour drive)
she doesnt want to see him

To me it seems like hes the problem. but then again. What do i know.. shes probably getting banged by her guy friends. 😛

Pretty good summary...though I didn't read the unabridged story. She wants someone to push back when she does
 
Originally posted by: Hammer
you sound like you whine and get pissed a lot. she wants to take a break from that. who wouldn't?

Not to mention that when she's so desparate for space that she's fleeing he repeatedly calls her.I dunno,I'm a kind of anxious person and when I take space it's because I need to calm down and rationally process things,this guy would be history real quick.
 
It sounds to me like you're pressing her too hard. She asked for space, and you wouldn't grant it. She was in tears. That sounds pretty mean to me. Leave her be, give her the space she asked.
 
did she drive down 2 hrs to watch a movie with you?
if she did and you decided to do nothing instead--shes justified in leaving your ass and taking the 2 hr drive home.
 
i live with roommates but this morning they were still sleeping when we woke up so i asked her if she wanted to take a shower with me which she refused cause my roommates might wake up. i dont see why that would be a problem as we were all adults there and nobody shouldnt really care. plus we've done this a few times before and nobody did cared. right after i asked her and she said no, she sternly told me to get up and that we should go catch ROTK real quick. i kinda just laid there in bed not wanting to get up right away.
talk about double standard.
you pester her to shower with you and get angry that she pesters you to hit the movies.
i think she has some ground.

You need time off--then someone new.
 
Originally posted by: vi_edit
Didn't read the post. Didn't care to.

But when they say "we need time away" that means they are already banging somebody on the side.

😀 LMFAO ... that's the most sensitive post I've read all day. 😀
 
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