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Siva

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Sooooo, I met a girl at school at the beginning of the semester, we became good friends pretty fast, and we started dating maybe two weeks ago. Things have went exceptionally well, we get along really well and we have pretty great chemistry. We went on spring break Friday, and she's coming to visit me on Weds since I just had my wisdom teeth out and can't really do anything.

Well here's the problem. We talk a lot on the phone and the internet, and she's telling me she has something important to tell me in person. I think its probably the "I love you." The problem isn't necissarily that I don't want to say it back, but I feel that just over two weeks is too soon to say it... I don't really know how I should respond if she says it. I would never want to hurt or upset this girl, and I don't feel like it would be inappropriate to say it in another couple weeks... So how does the ATOT community think I should respond? I wouldn't want to be dishonest, at the same time I don't know how to respond to "I love you" without saying it back.

BTW: She's so sweet, she's gorgeous, and she buys me booze (over 21). Best college relationship I've ever had. Dunno wtf she's doing with me though.
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: Siva
Sooooo, I met a girl at school at the beginning of the semester, we became good friends pretty fast, and we started dating maybe two weeks ago. Things have went exceptionally well, we get along really well and we have pretty great chemistry. We went on spring break Friday, and she's coming to visit me on Weds since I just had my wisdom teeth out and can't really do anything.

Well here's the problem. We talk a lot on the phone and the internet, and she's telling me she has something important to tell me in person. I think its probably the "I love you." The problem isn't necissarily that I don't want to say it back, but I feel that just over two weeks is too soon to say it... I don't really know how I should respond if she says it. I would never want to hurt or upset this girl, and I don't feel like it would be inappropriate to say it in another couple weeks... So how does the ATOT community think I should respond? I wouldn't want to be dishonest, at the same time I don't know how to respond to "I love you" without saying it back.

BTW: She's so sweet, she's gorgeous, she buys booze (over 21), and the sex is great. Best college relationship I've ever had. Dunno wtf she's doing with me though.

Don't get to caught up in it, but :beer: for you.
 

Merlyn3D

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The important thing is prolly cuz she wants to cut things off with you....hehe....j/k
 

dirtboy

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Maybe she's going to tell you she has an STD. Nothing to worry about until she actually tells you, then roll with it.
 

TheLonelyPhoenix

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So, you're dating a beautiful girl who is sweet, gets you alcohol, and is an amazing fvck. And you still had to post a YAGT.

ATOT is so incredibly hopeless.
 
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Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
So, you're dating a beautiful girl who is sweet, gets you alcohol, and is an amazing fvck. And you still had to post a YAGT.

ATOT is so incredibly hopeless.

I think you have another entry for the FAQ. :D

- M4H
 

Siva

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Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
So, you're dating a beautiful girl who is sweet, gets you alcohol, and is an amazing fvck. And you still had to post a YAGT.

ATOT is so incredibly hopeless.

I don't see how that makes me hopeless, I'm just not too good with the whole sensitive male thing. Obviously I had to do something right to get with the girl in the first place.
 

Merlyn3D

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Yeah, either she's pregnant, has an std, or has another guy who's better at bonin her than you :p
 

quizzelsnatch

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you're overly optimistic. it's probably something very trivial and you're just imagining something you would really like to hear. i do it all the time. i'm very disappointed a lot of the time.
 

iskim86

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do you love her? then two weeks is nothing.

if you don't love her.... why is she even your girlfriend?

do what's right for you. don't take things so quickly. pace yourself.
 

TheLonelyPhoenix

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
So, you're dating a beautiful girl who is sweet, gets you alcohol, and is an amazing fvck. And you still had to post a YAGT.

ATOT is so incredibly hopeless.

I think you have another entry for the FAQ. :D

- M4H

:D Update coming soon!