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I'll probally get some flames for this but here it goes....

In a previous thread about what's your greatest fear or something like that I said how I was horrible at asking girls out and just in general dealing with the opposite sex when I find them attractive, but that I've been working on it.

Anyways, I went to dinner with my Brother, his Wife and my friend last night to TGI Fridays.

We were eating and a girl that worked there but wasn't working in our area came up and basically said to me some like "Do you own a corolla" and I said nope, and she started to walk off but I stopped her by asking "why?" and she goes on to tell me about someone with a corolla left it out of gear and it rolled and hit another car, then goes on to keep talking a bit more and left. Everyone at the table said to me, WTF is wrong with you! she was showing interest in me and was directing her focus towards me only and showed interest, so a little later on, my brothers wife says to our waitress, "whats that blonds name? How old is she?" etc.. and the waitress answers and then ask why, and I said 'cause she was real cute. Well the waitress goes off and tells the other girl this and the other girl comes back to our table and brings a desert menu and is talking to my brothers wife but keeps giving me glances and smiles, then after she's done going on about what she was talking about, I just said "fvck it!" in my head and then said something pitiful along the lines of "I'm terrible at this sort of thing but think you're really cute and wanted to know if you'd like to talk sometime and get to know each other" and she said "I'd love to!!" and I gave her my number, was so nervous that I didn't even think to ask for her's though.

Well we finished up and when we were paying our waitress said that the other girl said she was going to call me tomorrow morning (now today), then on our way out to leave the girl was at the door and said goodbye and that she would call me in the morning around 10:00AM.

So I felt great about myself and was glad that things went so well and all of us thought for sure that she'd at least call me because of the way things went so well.

Well here it is today just before 3:00PM (she said she was working again today at 2:00PM) and no call 🙁

I just wonder why the hell she'd be sooo overly agreeing to want to call me and even go as far as to tell me when she'd call and tell our waitress that she planned on calling me also? I mean whats the point to do that then just not call?

I don't get it, I figured I'd get my hopes up somewhat for this, but at this point I'm not counting on a call.



Cliff Notes:

Girl flirts, I give her my number and she tells me what time frame she'll call me today but never does.

WTF is wrong with people, Why did she even bother acting all nice and what not just to not call at all?


And no I'm not sitting here a torn up about it, just makes me wonder what was the point of it all?
 
Dunno dude, females are evil. Don't sweat it. She may be pulling the same trick we pull and try not to seem too desparate.

Other than that, females are teh sux0r.
 
things come up. perhaps she wanted to talk for a few minutes, but couldnt find time to break away. if she calls, she calls. if she doesnt, she doesnt. oh well, life goes on.
 
Originally posted by: DaTT
Go bak to TGI for a drink or something casual.
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too awkward. comes off as a desperate move. she could interpret as: if i dont call him on the spot or something, he's going to track me down or just show up here. can be a little creepy for the next day. even more so if he goes alone. if he waited a couple days and went with a few people and went there with and looked like he was having fun and it didnt get to him, it'd be a better play imo.
 
Originally posted by: anxi80
Originally posted by: DaTT
Go bak to TGI for a drink or something casual.
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too awkward. comes off as a desperate move. she could interpret as: if i dont call him on the spot or something, he's going to track me down or just show up here. can be a little creepy for the next day. even more so if he goes alone. if he waited a couple days and went with a few people and went there with and looked like he was having fun and it didnt get to him, it'd be a better play imo.
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Exactly. If she doesn't call and he maybe goes next weekend with some friends and just chills and has a good time, that'd be a lot more suave.
 
Should have worded it differently.....I didn't mean right away. Give it a week and go back with a friend.
 
Originally posted by: anxi80
Originally posted by: DaTT
Go bak to TGI for a drink or something casual.
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too awkward. comes off as a desperate move. she could interpret as: if i dont call him on the spot or something, he's going to track me down or just show up here. can be a little creepy for the next day. even more so if he goes alone. if he waited a couple days and went with a few people and went there with and looked like he was having fun and it didnt get to him, it'd be a better play imo.
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I agree with you anxi80, I wouldn't go back there just to see her, not like she had any real obligations to me, and I know I should be the one calling her and really wish I did get her number but like I said I was so freaking nervous just asking her that I was lucky I could even do that much and didn't even think to ask for her number.

Again, it's not like I'm all torn up or anything, just makes me wonder whats the point of her putting on a show and all if there was no real intent to call?
 
Originally posted by: DaTT
Should have worded it differently.....I didn't mean right away. Give it a week and go back with a friend.
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ah, ok. yeah, thats what i would suggest also. in fact, itd be really pimp if he took another girl and started doing body shots off her. 😎

😛
 
Women are told never to call back for 3-days, it's in the RULES book.


If she never calls:

Show up to TGI Fridays in 2-weeks with some of your boys. If shes their, great. Call her over to your table and razz her about not calling in a big joking manner like you could give a shet less.

Waitresses get hit on a lot! Most will play along in order to get a bigger tip!





 
because women are silly. She's proabably sitting at home wondering when she should call, knowing full well that the longer she waits the more control she will have.
 
Originally posted by: DaTT
Should have worded it differently.....I didn't mean right away. Give it a week and go back with a friend.
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Oh, well that may be an option still, but not like I'm hung up on her, my issue is more the just asking at all, she happened to be the pretty girl this time that showed interest in me, but I just decided this time to actually say something.

 
Originally posted by: anxi80
Originally posted by: DaTT
Should have worded it differently.....I didn't mean right away. Give it a week and go back with a friend.
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ah, ok. yeah, thats what i would suggest also. in fact, itd be really pimp if he took another girl and started doing body shots off her. 😎

😛
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I was going to suggest bringing females but then I figured that'd either make the girl give up because she'd think he was with someone else already or it'd make her too pissed.
 
Originally posted by: anxi80
Originally posted by: DaTT
Should have worded it differently.....I didn't mean right away. Give it a week and go back with a friend.
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ah, ok. yeah, thats what i would suggest also. in fact, itd be really pimp if he took another girl and started doing body shots off her. 😎

😛
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:laugh: ROFL, that'd be pymp!
 
Originally posted by: Fmr12B
Women are told never to call back for 3-days, it's in the RULES book.


If she never calls:

Show up to TGI Fridays in 2-weeks with some of your boys. If shes their, great. Call her over to your table and razz her about not calling in a big joking manner like you could give a shet less.

Waitresses get hit on a lot! Most will play along in order to get a bigger tip!
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You are wise 🙂

And I completely agree with the whole trying to get a bigger tip, thats what I found different about this situation since she had nothing to do with our table and seemed to make an effort to come up to our table just to talk to me.

 
Originally posted by: aplefka
I was going to suggest bringing females but then I figured that'd either make the girl give up because she'd think he was with someone else already or it'd make her too pissed.
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yep. unless he keeps a semi-distance and shows that he may be interested, but not involved with her. then the competitiveness side could possibly come out of her and all of a sudden, the ball is back in the op's court.

btw, females always have to make it so damn difficult. see all the hoops and angles in this whole process? whatever happened to k.i.s.s. (keep it simple, stupid)?
 
you should have gotten her number. you aren't following the rules. though I do applaud you for having the guts to even approach her, most here wouldn't even do that. Including myself 😉
 
Originally posted by: Yossarian
you should have gotten her number. you aren't following the rules.
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Yeah but I think it's almost better because now he has a way to find out whether a second date is a good idea. At the end of the date if he asks her for her number and she declines, he doesn't have any slow letdown. It's quick and painless.
 
Originally posted by: Yossarian
you should have gotten her number. you aren't following the rules. though I do applaud you for having the guts to even approach her, most here wouldn't even do that. Including myself 😉
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Trust me, I totally agree, I was so freaking nervous just asking I felt like my heart was going to explode, after I asked though and we talked for some time I was able to relax.

I guess I deserve the dumbass award

 
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: Yossarian
you should have gotten her number. you aren't following the rules.
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Yeah but I think it's almost better because now he has a way to find out whether a second date is a good idea. At the end of the date if he asks her for her number and she declines, he doesn't have any slow letdown. It's quick and painless.
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hahaha you have a lot to learn 😉 1. there can be no 2nd date without a first date, and 2. 99% of the time a woman will give you her number at the end of a date if you ask, they never tell you straight out "no". they'll give it to you and never return your calls.
 
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