YAGT: wtf with my ex?

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acemcmac

Lifer
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So I'm out at the executive (edit: christmas) afterparty for my company.... finishing up dinner and meeting with a particularly ballsy head hunter.... my phone rings 11pm

call 1
[red button] (message was her acting like a dumbass)
calls again
[red button] (message was her apologizing for the first call and bitching that I still have one of her shirts that I told her I'd mail to her so I'd never have to see her cheating ass agian.)

I get home, loosen my tie, grab half a case of pints and head over to meet my date....

she lives really close to me so she comes back to my place... only for a second.... she wanted to know if I had an extra licence of Illustrator... she's an art major....

I get in my front door and my roomates are hanging out with three of my ex-gf's roomates in MY apartment! Remember, they live half an hour away. She and I get into my bedroom under the evil glares of my ex'es friends.... suddenly my landline rings. it's the ex.

"acemcmac, it's for you"
me: picks up, "hello? hello? hello? your loss. [click]."
phone rings again
me: picks up, "I'm sorry, I'm not available right now, can I please take message"
her: "no, but....'
me: [click]
phone rings again
me: "I'm sorry, I have nothing to say to you." [click]

I give the clothes in question to the ex'es girlfriend... and what do you know... she left them here....

I only know this because I decided to come back. I could have taken the new date all the way, but I really really want a lasting relationship right now and driving the girl all the way *home* on the first night while she's drunk off her ass and calling me "prince charming" isn't the way to go....

new girl's away message
y'all a guy gave me a flower tonight, somthing small ive been wating for my ENTIRE LIFE...and im slightly intoxiacated...
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not bad for a white rose stolen from the executive party.... :beer:

so wtf with my ex? I smell a conspiracy. Too bad I already moved on :beer:
 
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acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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btw, she cheated on me and broke my heart the weekend before thanksgiving... for a timeline... and one of my female *friends only* set me up with her WOW roomate :D
 
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acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: ToeStub
Are you genetically retarded or did you have to work at it?
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where in the fsck did that come from? :confused:

seriosuly... enlighten me instead of attacking me without backing yourself up :roll:
 
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ToeStub

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I appologize for my question. I just noticed you are from PA so it must be genetic.
 
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acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: Rudee
...Too bad I already moved on
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Physically you've moved on, mentally, you still have major baggage from the failed relationship. Deal with it.
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that may be true, but if *she* wanted to break up with *me,* wtf is with all of this *in my buisness* crap. I know her friends were here on something she arranged..... my roomates are easy to play like that.... :confused:

and the only reason they didn't take the clothes was to leave her with an *in,* I know it!
 
Zanix

Zanix

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Feb 11, 2003
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Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Rudee
...Too bad I already moved on
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Physically you've moved on, mentally, you still have major baggage from the failed relationship. Deal with it.
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that may be true, but if *she* wanted to break up with *me,* wtf is with all of this *in my buisness* crap. I know her friends were here on something she arranged..... my roomates are easy to play like that.... :confused:

and the only reason they didn't take the clothes was to leave her with an *in,* I know it!
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Make up sex. Then kick her ass out.


Edit: Pics or ban. (the girl, not you- no offence) ;)
 
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acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: xirtam
You gave her a flower?
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It was the headhunter's idea. There was a single white rose on the table centerpiece and when he asked me why I kept checking my watch and I told him that my date was waiting, he wrapped the rose in a cloth napkin and said "for what this dinner just set the company back, we can take this" ;)

I showed up to the chick's apartment in my suit, loosened tie and she damn near melted when I gave her the flower.... lol... great night....
 
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acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Rudee
...Too bad I already moved on
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Physically you've moved on, mentally, you still have major baggage from the failed relationship. Deal with it.
Click to expand...

that may be true, but if *she* wanted to break up with *me,* wtf is with all of this *in my buisness* crap. I know her friends were here on something she arranged..... my roomates are easy to play like that.... :confused:

and the only reason they didn't take the clothes was to leave her with an *in,* I know it!
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Make up sex. Then kick her ass out.


Edit: Pics or ban. (the girl, not you- no offence) ;)
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the ex and I on our first date
 
Zanix

Zanix

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Feb 11, 2003
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Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Rudee
...Too bad I already moved on
Click to expand...

Physically you've moved on, mentally, you still have major baggage from the failed relationship. Deal with it.
Click to expand...

that may be true, but if *she* wanted to break up with *me,* wtf is with all of this *in my buisness* crap. I know her friends were here on something she arranged..... my roomates are easy to play like that.... :confused:

and the only reason they didn't take the clothes was to leave her with an *in,* I know it!
Click to expand...



Make up sex. Then kick her ass out.


Edit: Pics or ban. (the girl, not you- no offence) ;)
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the ex and I on our first date
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lmao. I wasn't goin to say it, but maybe some pics during the make up sex- since it was my idea in all.
 
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Rudee

Lifer
Apr 23, 2000
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Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Rudee
...Too bad I already moved on
Click to expand...

Physically you've moved on, mentally, you still have major baggage from the failed relationship. Deal with it.
Click to expand...

that may be true, but if *she* wanted to break up with *me,* wtf is with all of this *in my buisness* crap. I know her friends were here on something she arranged..... my roomates are easy to play like that.... :confused:

and the only reason they didn't take the clothes was to leave her with an *in,* I know it!
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Bottom line is this: She or her friends can't make you do anything you don't want to do. If she gets a "in" as you say it, then you are letting it happen. If your gal cheats on you, then you need to muster up the integrity to deal with any awkward situations without afterthought. What you are doing involves condiserable afterthought, thus you're thinking to much about little things, when you should me moving forward with your life. If she calls and says she wants to pick up her clothes, you tell her to give you notice when, and you will leave them in a bag outside the door for her. If you let her in, it will lead to who know's what, but whatever it does lead to, it's a bad situation. So don't get yourself in situations to begin with. If she cheated on you, she doesn't deserve makup sex, she deserves being totally ignored and removed from your life.
 
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acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: Rudee
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Rudee
...Too bad I already moved on
Click to expand...

Physically you've moved on, mentally, you still have major baggage from the failed relationship. Deal with it.
Click to expand...

that may be true, but if *she* wanted to break up with *me,* wtf is with all of this *in my buisness* crap. I know her friends were here on something she arranged..... my roomates are easy to play like that.... :confused:

and the only reason they didn't take the clothes was to leave her with an *in,* I know it!
Click to expand...

Bottom line is this: She or her friends can't make you do anything you don't want to do. If she gets a "in" as you say it, then you are letting it happen. If your gal cheats on you, then you need to muster up the integrity to deal with any awkward situations without afterthought. What you are doing involves condiserable afterthought, thus you're thinking to much about little things, when you should me moving forward with your life. If she calls and says she wants to pick up her clothes, you tell her to give you notice when, and you will leave them in a bag outside the door for her. If you let her in, it will lead to who know's what, but whatever it does lead to, it's a bad situation. So don't get yourself in situations to begin with.
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Thanks. :)

I've been meaning to mail them to her... and she keeps ragging at me over it.... but the bottom line is that I'm a busy person and I'll send them when I'm ready to.... is this the right attitude?

I just can't believe I put the shirt in her friend's hands and she still left them here

 
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Rudee

Lifer
Apr 23, 2000
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Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Rudee
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Rudee
...Too bad I already moved on
Click to expand...

Physically you've moved on, mentally, you still have major baggage from the failed relationship. Deal with it.
Click to expand...

that may be true, but if *she* wanted to break up with *me,* wtf is with all of this *in my buisness* crap. I know her friends were here on something she arranged..... my roomates are easy to play like that.... :confused:

and the only reason they didn't take the clothes was to leave her with an *in,* I know it!
Click to expand...

Bottom line is this: She or her friends can't make you do anything you don't want to do. If she gets a "in" as you say it, then you are letting it happen. If your gal cheats on you, then you need to muster up the integrity to deal with any awkward situations without afterthought. What you are doing involves condiserable afterthought, thus you're thinking to much about little things, when you should me moving forward with your life. If she calls and says she wants to pick up her clothes, you tell her to give you notice when, and you will leave them in a bag outside the door for her. If you let her in, it will lead to who know's what, but whatever it does lead to, it's a bad situation. So don't get yourself in situations to begin with.
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Thanks. :)

I've been meaning to mail them to her... and she keeps ragging at me over it.... but the bottom line is that I'm a busy person and I'll send them when I'm ready to.... is this the right attitude?

I just can't believe I put the shirt in her friend's hands and she still left them here
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Regarding the clothes.. Do any of the following: 1. Tell her to pick them up, and leave them outside your door in a bag prior to her showing up. No direct contact neccessary. 2. Ask one of her friends to take the clothes and give to her. Once again, no direct contact with the ex required. The "You'll get your clothes when I'm ready to give it to you" attitude is just going to foster anger. Just get them to her, and move on like I said. The quicker you can get past the mental loss of the relationship, the better your chances of success in future relationships. Do what you have to do, and move on - for good!

 
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simms

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Sep 21, 2001
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What a sh!tty pic. That's worse than no pics at all... a good intention of a real pic, then letting us all down with some 2000ft shot away.

Shame on you. :thumbsdown:
 
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