YAGT: Wtf am I supposed to do?

MrWizzard

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Take him aside and tell him that you are only going to tell him once how you feel about the situation/ how you think this is a bad idea, and then tell him. After that drop it.

From that point on it's his decision, if he wants to jack up his life with this girl then it's his choice.

When and if he ever realizes his mistake try not to say I TOLD YOU SO.

That?s about it. I have had friends do this, it's kind of hard to watch. Good Luck :(
 

K1052

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Aug 21, 2003
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Just let the relationship run its course to the inevitable doom that awaits it.

There is little you can do.
 

UncleWai

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sounds like you are a homo and want a piece of your boyfriend's ass.
 

Gibson486

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
A bunch of guys, a trip to DC, and no girls allowed.
Hmmmm....

hahahaha....that's coming from Zysoclaplem, too....ouch
 

crystal

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How about you mind your own business? Help/Advice him when he asks you, not before.
 

Sentinel

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Dude sounds like a girl. It is his choice though, maybe you guys should just beat the sh!t out of him for fun.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: Gibson486
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
A bunch of guys, a trip to DC, and no girls allowed.
Hmmmm....

hahahaha....that's coming from Zysoclaplem, too....ouch

Well I was going to ask if I could come. Wait that sounded bad. I better just shut my mouth. Damn! That sounded bad too.

Puppies and Kittens and Rainbows and...Damnit!
 

DaiShan

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Listen man, it's his choice, girls do crap like interfere in relationships, guys don't. If he fscks up oh well, that's on him. Hopefully he isn't a little emo kid and won't come crying about his problems on ATOT.
 

DaShen

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Originally posted by: MrWizzard
Take him aside and tell him that you are only going to tell him once how you feel about the situation/ how you think this is a bad idea, and then tell him. After that drop it.

From that point on it's his decision, if he wants to jack up his life with this girl then it's his choice.

When and if he ever realizes his mistake try not to say I TOLD YOU SO.

That?s about it. I have had friends do this, it's kind of hard to watch. Good Luck :(

QFT

Hey, OP, constantly hinting that you don't like his girlfriend is the same as nagging a person. Best thing to do is tell him straight up, and then leave it at that and not mention it again. If he has a problem with it, spend a little less time with him. If he ignores it, no big deal. Stop nagging him about it, and let him make up his own decision. It isn't your life to control.

Tell him straight up, and stop talking about it.

**EDIT**
Or leave it alone, don't mention anything at all, and let the relationship run its course.
 

Sentinel

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Originally posted by: ArJuN
Originally posted by: DaiShan
Listen man, it's his choice, girls do crap like interfere in relationships, guys don't. If he fscks up oh well, that's on him. Hopefully he isn't a little emo kid and won't come crying about his problems on ATOT.

Oh ya I hate little crybaby emo kids on AT.

 

NogginBoink

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Originally posted by: K1052
Just let the relationship run its course to the inevitable doom that awaits it.

There is little you can do.

Bingo.

Be there for him when he's ready to say, "I can't believe I was so in love with her!"

Until then, it's okay to spend less time with him if she bugs ya that much.
 

Kadarin

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Nov 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: Gibson486
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
A bunch of guys, a trip to DC, and no girls allowed.
Hmmmm....

hahahaha....that's coming from Zysoclaplem, too....ouch

Well I was going to ask if I could come. Wait that sounded bad. I better just shut my mouth. Damn! That sounded bad too.

Puppies and Kittens and Rainbows and...Damnit!

:laugh:

To the OP: While your friend remains with this girl and continues to act this way, don't invite him places because you're just going to add to your misery.
 

Bryophyte

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Apr 25, 2001
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Not really any of your business. If he's a pain to be around, don't invite him to go places with you.