YAGT: Wow I got dumped for the first time ever. Update!!! She has come crawling back Update!!! The plan

[Quixotic]

Originally posted by: Rudee
It's been my observation that men can stay broken hearted and depressed over a breakup for many months, or even years. Whereas a woman get's together with her friends, has 1 good cry, then she's basically over it and ready to jump in the sack with a new dude.

heh, i thought the vice versa was true =P

 

[Quixotic]

perhaps she will but would you want her back? considering she left you to see if she can get with some other dude? if she can't appreciate what she's got, i'd tell her to find herself a damn consolation prize somewhere else...

Originally posted by: Tetsuo
She'll come back to ya





























Unless you did something REALLY stupid 😛
But really, take it easy, and just relax and let it slide

 

[Quixotic]

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome
Well ive got no problems eating, nothing will keep me from eating lol. I dont thiink ill be able to sleep for quite a while though. My friend was over here today and it helped some but I cant stop thinking about her.

yeah, it's normal... have you seen the movie "Swingers"? If not, I highly suggest it. If yes, then you get my drift =P

 

[NinjaGnome]

I wouldnt take her back ever. Next time I see her im gonna tell her whats up. I thought it was actually gonna take me a while to get over her, but I found someone else that I am interested in that I have more in common with and isnt a biotch. Its one of her friends 😀:beer:

 

[Quixotic]

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome
I wouldnt take her back ever. Next time I see her im gonna tell her whats up. I thought it was actually gonna take me a while to get over her, but I found someone else that I am interested in that I have more in common with and isnt a biotch. Its one of her friends 😀:beer:

see? you're moving along =P

 

[NinjaGnome]

Originally posted by: Quixotic

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome
I wouldnt take her back ever. Next time I see her im gonna tell her whats up. I thought it was actually gonna take me a while to get over her, but I found someone else that I am interested in that I have more in common with and isnt a biotch. Its one of her friends 😀:beer:

see? you're moving along =P

not only am i moving along but ill be doing it in style with her friend which will piss her right off. :beer:😀

 

[Quixotic]

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome

Originally posted by: Quixotic

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome
I wouldnt take her back ever. Next time I see her im gonna tell her whats up. I thought it was actually gonna take me a while to get over her, but I found someone else that I am interested in that I have more in common with and isnt a biotch. Its one of her friends 😀:beer:

see? you're moving along =P

not only am i moving along but ill be doing it in style with her friend which will piss her right off. :beer:😀

hmm, ok, i hope you're not feeling a temporary high from the revenge aspect =P

 

[NinjaGnome]

Originally posted by: Quixotic

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome

Originally posted by: Quixotic

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome
I wouldnt take her back ever. Next time I see her im gonna tell her whats up. I thought it was actually gonna take me a while to get over her, but I found someone else that I am interested in that I have more in common with and isnt a biotch. Its one of her friends 😀:beer:

see? you're moving along =P

not only am i moving along but ill be doing it in style with her friend which will piss her right off. :beer:😀

hmm, ok, i hope you're not feeling a temporary high from the revenge aspect =P

If I get any revenge then its just a bonus in being with this girl. She is really cool, I dont know if I stand a chance though. Its definitly worth a try.

 

[crisp82]

if she knocks you back, you will endup looking like a plum to her and your ex.....

 

[NinjaGnome]

yes, yes I will

 

[Quixotic]

probably the best thing you can do is simply refuse to be affected... if the girl still has any emotional attachment to you, she'll def be a little irked that the circumstances have no effect on you.

 

[WinkOsmosis]

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome

Originally posted by: Rudee
It's been my observation that men can stay broken hearted and depressed over a breakup for many months, or even years. Whereas a woman get's together with her friends, has 1 good cry, then she's basically over it and ready to jump in the sack with a new dude.

Well she is quite heartless and broke up with me to see if this other guy she likes will pan out. She is counting on me to be there if it doesnt. I wont be there, I will never be there for her again.

Good. Don't back down either. Being 2nd choice sucks.

 

[NinjaGnome]

Originally posted by: Quixotic
probably the best thing you can do is simply refuse to be affected... if the girl still has any emotional attachment to you, she'll def be a little irked that the circumstances have no effect on you.

Yeah i hope it affects her that i dont care.

 

[Shale]

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome
Well I just got dumped for the first time ever and well it sux. She was the only thing I had that could keep me sane and now she is gone. I have been crying like a little baby for about an hour now and well thats the first time ive cried since my brother and sister died like 8 years ago. I have had a few GF's and well I usually ended the relationship and never really cared for them like I did for this girl. I guess this is for me hurting all of them. I dont think im gonna go as far as killing myself but i do feel really really crappy.

Good, don't kill yourself, you'll just regret it in the morning.

 

[tweakmm]

Originally posted by: mpitts
The only cure for a :brokenheart: is to:

have a :beer:

listen to some sad :music:

:clock: heals all wounds

someday you will think of her and go

^Wise man

 

[Shale]

Well she is quite heartless and broke up with me to see if this other guy she likes will pan out. She is counting on me to be there if it doesnt. I wont be there, I will never be there for her again.

Stick to that... otherwise you will get used over and over.

 

[XCLAN]

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome

Originally posted by: Rudee
It's been my observation that men can stay broken hearted and depressed over a breakup for many months, or even years. Whereas a woman get's together with her friends, has 1 good cry, then she's basically over it and ready to jump in the sack with a new dude.

Well she is quite heartless and broke up with me to see if this other guy she likes will pan out. She is counting on me to be there if it doesnt. I wont be there, I will never be there for her again.

First Of all I am glad you are Over her so quickly.


You Cant turn a Hoe Into A housewife

 

[dpopiz]

take all your relationships as learning experiences

I agree - very good advice.
all the weird confusing crap you have to deal with from pre-25yo girls is just practice for when it really matters - when you're really in love

 

[NinjaGnome]

Yeah its funny cause this new guy she is going for probably wont even go out with her either. The new girl that im going for is really cool though.

 

[imported_Papi]

Originally posted by: nan0bug
One thing I learned in this past year is that you've got to take all your relationships as learning experiences and not let stuff like this get you down. Be thankful for the good times, and remember and learn from the bad. Your next relationship will be better for it.

Its so cliche but time is the only thing that will make it better, so in the meantime don't stress the opposite sex so much. Do some stuff for you. Self-improvement is the best revenge when you're trying to get back at an ex.

This guys got some sound advice. As always. He's right.

 

[NinjaGnome]

yeah there has been a lot of good advice. It has all helped and my friends have espeically helped.

 

[NinjaGnome]

Bump for the update. what do you guys think?

 

[hdeck]

hahahahaha what a dumb bitch

 

[boyRacer]

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome
Bump for the update. what do you guys think?

i think you're a pimp. :beer: 😀

 

[NinjaGnome]

Originally posted by: boyRacer

Originally posted by: NinjaGnome
Bump for the update. what do you guys think?

i think you're a pimp. :beer: 😀

Thank you thank you😀 all it takes is a little confidence i guess. We had a little convo at like 10 or so then i went to bed and woke up with that message. The convo was pretty much her feeling so sorry and her saying that she messed up and wished she could take it back.