YAGT: why do women seem so casual when they kick you in the pants?

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Krassus

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Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: whaleskinrug you're mad because she talked to you about EE? just because someone is talking to you doesn't mean she views you as a potential lover, so unless she was doing something that a reasonable person would feel indicated that you were making a love connection I don't see the problem.
I had 20+ minute conversations with people of multiple genders several times a week in college. IT HAPPENS. And just because you're thinking of her as date (or sex) material doesn't mean her mind is automatically running on the same track. Women do think of other things, occasionally. If you're interested, bring that up. You have a good conversation already going, so she knows you'd have stuff to talk about on a first date, she likes talking to you, those are points in your favor. And a maybe-call-tonight definitely doesn't mean you can't invite her to do something. Seems to me you expected *her* to be the mind reader here, expecting her to know you were interested in her. Just frigging tell her that!
People of multiple genders? :Q
 

oLLie

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Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: whaleskinrug
you're mad because she talked to you about EE? just because someone is talking to you doesn't mean she views you as a potential lover, so unless she was doing something that a reasonable person would feel indicated that you were making a love connection I don't see the problem.

I had 20+ minute conversations with people of multiple genders several times a week in college. IT HAPPENS. And just because you're thinking of her as date (or sex) material doesn't mean her mind is automatically running on the same track. Women do think of other things, occasionally. If you're interested, bring that up. You have a good conversation already going, so she knows you'd have stuff to talk about on a first date, she likes talking to you, those are points in your favor. And a maybe-call-tonight definitely doesn't mean you can't invite her to do something.

Seems to me you expected *her* to be the mind reader here, expecting her to know you were interested in her. Just frigging tell her that!

Someone can have multiple genders?

*edit* blah, I'm too slow (but only by ~20 minutes!)
 

kadajawi

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I believe she meant she talks to male and female persons ;) hehe, 2 in one... never seen before :D
 

alkemyst

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I've had a lot of women, it's always funny when some geek is talking about some girl I am banging regularly as if he has a chance, because he spent 30 mins helping her with homework.

It's even sadder when she brings him up, that I should find him a girlfriend.

:)
 

isaacmacdonald

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
I've had a lot of women, it's always funny when some geek is talking about some girl I am banging regularly as if he has a chance, because he spent 30 mins helping her with homework.

It's even sadder when she brings him up, that I should find him a girlfriend.

:)


putting aside the incoherent last sentence, this post could hardly be more ostentatious. Perhaps next time you can save yourself a few sentences and just tell us exactly how big your dick is, yeah?
 

Siddhartha

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Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
So I was talking to this girl today that I happen to find pretty cute. We had pretty good conversation for a solid 20 minutes during which she seemed very friendly and open. Then we got talking about how engineering can cut into your sleep time (we're both engineering students) and out of nowhere she says: "I met this guy that's supposed to call me at 10:30 tonight, I may go out with him later". At this point it felt like she kicked me square in the pants, but apparently she didn't notice. That's right she kept the original conversation like that was to be expected and part of any conversation. I was able to close up the conversation in damage control mode but needless to say, I was not a happy camper about wasting a bunch of time on this.

Someone please explain to me what the fvck women are thinking when they pull this kind of sh!t. I mean really I'm clueless, someone fill me in.

If a woman tells me she is dating someone else, I cross her off the list and move on. Only a loser or a jerk would interpret what she says in any other way.
 

BoberFett

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That would explain why I used to get all the women. I was an unemployed alcholic biker for about 6 months.
 

JEDI

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Originally posted by: BoberFett
That would explain why I used to get all the women. I was an unemployed alcholic biker for about 6 months.

you too eh? except i was an employed alcoholic biker. (gun running)

chicks flocked to me. unfortunately one of them was a cop. damn little head doing the thinking. hence my threads about plea bargaining to a misdemenor and how much time i could do.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
Originally posted by: alkemyst
I've had a lot of women, it's always funny when some geek is talking about some girl I am banging regularly as if he has a chance, because he spent 30 mins helping her with homework.

It's even sadder when she brings him up, that I should find him a girlfriend.

:)


putting aside the incoherent last sentence, this post could hardly be more ostentatious. Perhaps next time you can save yourself a few sentences and just tell us exactly how big your dick is, yeah?

my dick is below average a little I'd say if the 6-7" average is correct....according to ATOT everyone is bringing 9"+ to the table.

Sorry for the incoherance....I have been in bed perhaps 3 times now give or take, when the chick I was with has told me I should find a girl for my friend who was sniffing at their heels.

I am by no means a stud with 100+ women under my belt, but when I want a fling I can get it.

 

BoberFett

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Originally posted by: JEDI
Originally posted by: BoberFett
That would explain why I used to get all the women. I was an unemployed alcholic biker for about 6 months.

you too eh? except i was an employed alcoholic biker. (gun running)

chicks flocked to me. unfortunately one of them was a cop. damn little head doing the thinking. hence my threads about plea bargaining to a misdemenor and how much time i could do.

Now I'm an employed sober biker. I don't have a lot of chicks, but I do have a steady girlfriend. It's a lot cheaper and easier on the body. :)