skywalker66
Banned
Multiple times on this forum I have received this piece of advice when I am talking about women.
People tell me that I come off too strong around women and that I shouldnt give them any signs that I am interested in them, but rather that I shouldnt even think about whether or not they could be a potential partner, but to just try to become friends with a bunch of girls.
I never understood this. Isnt that kind of a detour method, for getting to your goal? Whats wrong with asking a girl out on a date (which would imply a little interest from the start)
I mean what kind of male in their right mind, would only want to be a friend to someone that they are attracted to?
People tell me that I come off too strong around women and that I shouldnt give them any signs that I am interested in them, but rather that I shouldnt even think about whether or not they could be a potential partner, but to just try to become friends with a bunch of girls.
I never understood this. Isnt that kind of a detour method, for getting to your goal? Whats wrong with asking a girl out on a date (which would imply a little interest from the start)
I mean what kind of male in their right mind, would only want to be a friend to someone that they are attracted to?