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YAGT : Why do guys keep hitting on my girl even though she is taken?

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Originally posted by: The_good_guy
<STRONG><EM>Seriously, you need to start making it clear she is yours. OTOH, maybe you should stop thinking of your gf as a possession. If you are confident that she wants to be with you and she doesn't respond to these alleged propositions, then what's the big deal?</EM></STRONG>

Well I am not that concerned. I am the least bit jealous kind. She knows I am quite content with way things are. I think my thing was why do guys keep hitting on her even though they know she is taken. I am not the violent type, but if something does piss me off so much that i got to resort to it, it would still be my last option. Vanessa isnt bringing it on her.... even when she is just wearing a t-shirt and jeans she gets hit on. It was only yesterday that she wore a short skirt and showed her legs.

Most guys I dont worry about, execpt for that sikh and the other guy who said "your sexy, lets go on a date". My worry is that they might not have yet got the message. The sikh (who i never wrote about) sometimes followed her around and i put my foot down and did all the bf thinge (like kissing her) and the guy backed away. However this other guy joel i havent met yet, i only know of his antics.

I think what really doesnt help is that jen thinks she is too good a girl for me. On the outside i can see not so polished sometimes, but i swear i am. Oh yeah she is content with me and trusts me with other girls ( i am allowed to talk to other girls - execpt jessica), and she says she doesnt want anyone else. I am content and I trust her as much as she trusts me, so i am not worried about anything but maybe these guys see my "cool" attitude as a bf and think they might have a chance for a slide.

As for the one who said "she is fat".. i can tell you that she isnt.. She is in better shape that I am. Absolutely no fat to grab on to. She might be bigger built but that isnt fat. And she isnt that bigger built. If your so fixated on scrawny women then go for it, i like to have something to grab on to.
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Questionable comments there. I'd move on if you have that many issues. You say you trust her but from your words, it seems like you really don't.
 
Originally posted by: RalphKramden
Sounds to me like you're getting sex from her and being graphic with your description to your "friends" Real men don't need to brag.
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wish that was the case 🙁

but we decided to wait.
 
One of two things:

1) You are too sensitive (doesn't sound like this is the case from your description).
2) She is not forward enough in rejecting people. This is very hard to do because people like to feel good about themselves, but she needs to get mad at people for being so ignorant. They know she is with someone and they approach her to drop that person. She needs to make them look like idiots and get mad at them. You can do nothing about it (except for dumping her).
 
Originally posted by: The_good_guy
Originally posted by: RalphKramden
Sounds to me like you're getting sex from her and being graphic with your description to your "friends" Real men don't need to brag.
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wish that was the case 🙁

but we decided to wait.
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WTF!? You're not getting any play?

Then we have solved the riddle: Sexual Frustration.
 
Questionable comments there. I'd move on if you have that many issues. You say you trust her but from your words, it seems like you really don't.

Oh yeah I trust her, otherwise i wont be so calm. But its a bit nerve wracking and unsettling when some other guys interfere. Part of the reason i am concerend (and i told her this - we talk) is that in high school, the girl i liked and was seeing was stolen from under me by another classmate. I guess my brain is saying dont let that happen. I told her my feelings and she knows it, and she said she wont do it. I am content, and I trust her. that tiny concern isnt big enough to be bothered by.

As far as I say my trust and love for her is very strong.
 
Originally posted by: Jzero
OTOH, maybe you should stop thinking of your gf as a possession. If you are confident that she wants to be with you and she doesn't respond to these alleged propositions, then what's the big deal?
The rape comment was out of line, and you would be justified in telling that guy to watch his tongue.
Someone asking her out? If she can handle saying "No thanks, I am spoken for," then the situation is under control.
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Exactly, you don't own your girlfriend. My girlfriend gets hit on all the time and she dresses conservatively too. She tells them she's not interested and they move along, its rather normal. You have to think that you find her attractive so why would you get pissed off if other people do as well?
 
Originally posted by: yayo
So.. Manni, did you bang her yet?
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And no, I did not bang her yet but if we do it will be within the next 5 months (or next couple of weeks). We arent planning to marry (that is a long time to wait).
 
Originally posted by: The_good_guy
Originally posted by: yayo
So.. Manni, did you bang her yet?
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And no, I did not bang her yet but if we do it will be within the next 5 months (or next couple of weeks). We arent planning to marry (that is a long time to wait).
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You planned it out 5 months in advance??????????
 
Originally posted by: Jzero
Originally posted by: Iron Woode
Seriously, you need to start making it clear she is yours.
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OTOH, maybe you should stop thinking of your gf as a possession. If you are confident that she wants to be with you and she doesn't respond to these alleged propositions, then what's the big deal?
The rape comment was out of line, and you would be justified in telling that guy to watch his tongue.
Someone asking her out? If she can handle saying "No thanks, I am spoken for," then the situation is under control.
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WTF?

I don't think of women as possessions. 2 people ought to be able to have a relationship without idiots trying to cause sh!t. Its called acceptable behaviour.

He may not be too worried now, but that kind of crap causes stress in a relationship and can lead to other problems.

He must make it clear she is not available. Nipping it in the bud is the only way.

 
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: The_good_guy
Originally posted by: yayo
So.. Manni, did you bang her yet?
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And no, I did not bang her yet but if we do it will be within the next 5 months (or next couple of weeks). We arent planning to marry (that is a long time to wait).
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You planned it out 5 months in advance??????????
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LOL... I can just see them tapping it into their Palm pilots 🙂

But, was he talking about getting married in 5 months? Or has he seriously scheduled sex within the next 5 months? 😕
 
Originally posted by: MazerRackham
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: The_good_guy
Originally posted by: yayo
So.. Manni, did you bang her yet?
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And no, I did not bang her yet but if we do it will be within the next 5 months (or next couple of weeks). We arent planning to marry (that is a long time to wait).
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You planned it out 5 months in advance??????????
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LOL... I can just see them tapping it into their Palm pilots 🙂

But, was he talking about getting married in 5 months? Or has he seriously scheduled sex within the next 5 months? 😕
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hehe
he's talking about sex.
 
if i found a thread like this on a message board by my significant other i would most likely dump them.

have a little respect for your woman for god's sake.
 
:beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer:
::chug::

ur g/f is hot


wait, i need a few more

:beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer::beer:
 
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